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I don't confine it to only providers and their clients.  My perception is that mutual respect and neutral civility have all but disappeared from society in general. 

As a client I haven’t changed my attitude toward providers.  My time with them is still a bright spot.  Stress levels and anxiety are on the rise in some places.  Maybe that’s part of what providers are seeing. 

Nope! But If they watch my porn videos they can be satisfied 24/7. 

Over the years I’ve learned that being direct about your needs is never an insult IF it comes from a place of clarity and kindness. You’re not telling him he’s bad at his job; you’re showing him how to make you a satisfied repeat client, and that’s valuable information. One way to do it without it feeling awkward is to show as much as tell: get on top of him and ride him slow, let him see how that pace feels good and how much you enjoy it. Compliment him while you’re doing it, then suggest a change, something like “I’d love to be under you going at this pace” or “you feel incredible when you move like this.”  Positive reinforcement goes a long way.
Remember too, providers want repeat clients, so telling him what works for you isn’t just personal, it’s professional. You’re helping him give better service.
This is a provider you’ve hired regularly, and I’d be hard-pressed to think he wouldn’t be open to making your experiences exactly what you want them to be.
Best of luck to you. 

I have met Jay numerous times over the last couple of years. He's an amazing guy who never disappoints. He's incredibly sexy and skilled at what he does, as well as a kind and sweet personality. He radiates great energy when you are with him. 

I prefer Eu because it is easier to navigate. I find the rent.men confusing.

To answer the OP, I’d avoid. It’s just me: I’m cautious.
I always wear the seatbelt in cars (survived one car crash, shaken but unhurt).
In hotels, I always check the fire exits nearest to the room before I unpack (experienced 2 hotel fires, got out quickly and unhurt).
In commercial aircraft, I pay attention to safety briefings and check location of the exits (been in one incident, hard landing on foam, unhurt)
I know everyone deserves a second chance but I never had “convicted felons OK” on my Seeking ad/profile
 
 

I was away for a week and this is what I come back to. Thank you @CuriousByNature 😘 

I've thankfully never had an issue.  I do typically stalk them on RM for a long time to see that they've been around, if they have a twitter I look at that, which leads to IG, Tik Tok etc.  I think I can get an idea if they seem "normal" or not.  I typically hire athletic Latinos.  So if it's a bunch of photos of them on the beach with friends, family, hanging at the gym etc.  Plus if they have been reviewed here, even if it's not a great review I'm cool.  Good Lord, I'm the Magnum PI of this hobby lol. 

Thanks for a wonderful post that has inspired this lazy ass to get off his butt and back to the gym! I agree with others who have suggested focusing on balance as well as swimming. 

Thanks for a wonderful post that has inspired this lazy ass to get off his butt and back to the gym! I agree with others who have suggested focusing on balance as well as swimming. 

Thanks for a wonderful post that has inspired this lazy ass to get off his butt and back to the gym! I agree with others who have suggested focusing on balance as well as swimming. 

or even leave the house ever?

This is a great site to vet escorts on. I would never see an escort unless guys on this site with longevity as members vouch for them. This is not just to make sure you’re not walking into a trap, but even more so, to make sure that the escort is trustworthy and a fit for your wants.

I turned to Wikipedia to read about Pope Leo XIII and learned he was a remarkable pope at the closing decades of the 19th century.  He did a lot to modernize the CC as Europe was being transformed by social and political upheaval. 
Today we have similar upheavals so the choice of the name Leo by Robert Prévost may signal he also intends to play an active role in heading the Catholic Church. We shall see. 

It sounds like it possibly. There's really no harm in too much lube so remind your top to apply more lube often and see how that goes. 

It depends.  While size is not my sole criteria for who I hire, I am a bottom who is up for a challenge.  So, I do seek out well hung tops.  Who they were may be the subject of another topic.
I have been with some well hung guys and not been sore.  While with others, including smaller, I have been sore.  It may have to do with the lub and the top's skills.

I think all he is doing is collecting deposits.

He identifies himself as Ford...I would say "Bentley."  😛

A lot of hotels nowadays, you don't have to actually check out. Some chains will allow you to do it via the hotel's app. While others you literally don't have to physically check out the next day.
For the app check out, you could be at home to do it the next day.
Honestly, I don't think checking out is a requirement any more. Well at least for chain hotels.

I think it's very fair to say that as a provider,  my "sexpectations"  have been exceeded by reality.    I rarely have letdowns and what I have learned and experienced is far greater than what I would have expected.   No complaints.      Sure,  you can have a disappointment with a client, but use that to learn.

I appreciate this thread so much. I’m extremely nice and I consider myself very fortunate and remember how difficult life was when I was younger and was just trying to make it through the day without a catastrophe.
Because of this I have sent deposits to some providers and have almost always ended up being disappointed and left hanging. That said I have had a few who I actually know who not only made good but also made it a point to give me the best possible service and even a freebie for looking out when they needed it.
of course I’ve also encountered many a scammer/ trap artist and I have learned how to recognize them and block immediately. Some are really quite genius especially the ones in jail or in Africa.
 The way I look at it, if I make a gesture of kindness and it costs me a few dollars I am grateful to be able to do it. The karma comes back around and I can afford to give away what to me is negligible but to them could be the difference between paying rent or getting meds. I’m can’t be mad if I volunteered for it but I have a policy now that you can get a small advance if we have connected multiple times and if that’s the last I see of you then toodles and on to the next 

I got an apology from mine also for even asking.  There were several factors I considered when I lent him the money.  One, every session he goes above and beyond, second he travels an hour and a half everytime we meet (its been almost 2 years since we first met and he was my first ever hire) and finally he is just a nice person... not an ounce of ego even though he is smoking hot.  Not for a minute did I believe he would not be good for it, and if I was wrong then a hard lesson learned.  He is still my number one guy.

One of my hottest regulars once asked for an advance and I didn’t respond; whereupon he immediately apologized. When I was his age I too was often broke and asked a rich uncle for a loan, which was politely declined. In neither case was my relationship in any way impaired. I did give this provider an advance recently after a two-hour session which was originally slated to be an overnight. I knew he was counting on the honorarium so I gave him the money as an advance on a subsequent meeting, which worked out perfectly.
 

Make sure you utilize the forum and only hire providers with a good track record of providing a great experience for all regardless of their size.