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I was there a couple of days ago.  Even with timed entry,  it was uncomfortably crowded.  One of the glories of the "old" Frick was how you could have a whole room almost to yourself with unhurried time to linger.  I'm hopeful that things will get better once the novelty of the re-opening has passed.  Still one of my favorite museums, right up there with the Norton Simon in Pasadena.

Arm over your shoulder?  What about those who start massaging your shoulders?  Or even better, the ones who sidle up to you at the bar, strike up conversation, and begin tweaking your nipples or groping you?  (In my experience, the latter fall into 2 groups: the ones trying to con you into lap dances who deliver practically nothing once you agree; and the ones -- often the younger twinkier types -- who enjoy flirting and foreplay.  The latter are almost always good value in the booths.)

This describes me.  The most stressful part of hiring for me (once I've done the homework of deciding to hire a provider) is negotiating the fee.  I say negotiating, but I don't negotiate.  I ask the provider what his fee is and either I'll accept it and move forward or I'll say that's too pricey and walk away.  Even if the provider comes back and offers a lower price that I would have accepted if it were offered initially, I turn it down.  I don't want to meet someone if any of my mindspace is taken up with "did I get a good price".   Also, my experience with an escort is good or bad regardless of price.  I have NEVER walked away from a bad or mediocre encounter thinking "It would have been a good session if only I had paid $100 less."  
All that being said (sorry for the rambling), a regular provider offering me a discount would damage the relationship that we've built.  Better, as suggested above, to offer something special or to extend our time.  I wouldn't even point out that this is a  frequent flyer perk.  Better for the provider to say "I thought this might be fun" or "Don't go just yet.  Hang out a bit." 

The first porn I saw was on the wall of a cave.

I've been the client in this situation once or twice.  And one time I actually went home without paying (the bliss😁!) without the escort's saying a word.  When I called a few hours later to apologize profusely and make arrangements to pay, he laughed off my apologies...he said he knew I would eventually figure it out.  Talk about trust!

I've been the client in this situation once or twice.  And one time I actually went home without paying (the bliss😁!) without the escort's saying a word.  When I called a few hours later to apologize profusely and make arrangements to pay, he laughed off my apologies...he said he knew I would eventually figure it out.  Talk about trust!

I've been the client in this situation once or twice.  And one time I actually went home without paying (the bliss😁!) without the escort's saying a word.  When I called a few hours later to apologize profusely and make arrangements to pay, he laughed off my apologies...he said he knew I would eventually figure it out.  Talk about trust!

Arm over your shoulder?  What about those who start massaging your shoulders?  Or even better, the ones who sidle up to you at the bar, strike up conversation, and begin tweaking your nipples or groping you?  (In my experience, the latter fall into 2 groups: the ones trying to con you into lap dances who deliver practically nothing once you agree; and the ones -- often the younger twinkier types -- who enjoy flirting and foreplay.  The latter are almost always good value in the booths.)

Arm over your shoulder?  What about those who start massaging your shoulders?  Or even better, the ones who sidle up to you at the bar, strike up conversation, and begin tweaking your nipples or groping you?  (In my experience, the latter fall into 2 groups: the ones trying to con you into lap dances who deliver practically nothing once you agree; and the ones -- often the younger twinkier types -- who enjoy flirting and foreplay.  The latter are almost always good value in the booths.)

I was there a couple of days ago.  Even with timed entry,  it was uncomfortably crowded.  One of the glories of the "old" Frick was how you could have a whole room almost to yourself with unhurried time to linger.  I'm hopeful that things will get better once the novelty of the re-opening has passed.  Still one of my favorite museums, right up there with the Norton Simon in Pasadena.

I've been the client in this situation once or twice.  And one time I actually went home without paying (the bliss😁!) without the escort's saying a word.  When I called a few hours later to apologize profusely and make arrangements to pay, he laughed off my apologies...he said he knew I would eventually figure it out.  Talk about trust!

I've been the client in this situation once or twice.  And one time I actually went home without paying (the bliss😁!) without the escort's saying a word.  When I called a few hours later to apologize profusely and make arrangements to pay, he laughed off my apologies...he said he knew I would eventually figure it out.  Talk about trust!

I've been the client in this situation once or twice.  And one time I actually went home without paying (the bliss😁!) without the escort's saying a word.  When I called a few hours later to apologize profusely and make arrangements to pay, he laughed off my apologies...he said he knew I would eventually figure it out.  Talk about trust!

This is pretty much what I do as well.  The key is "regular poster" -- I don't share with random folks who reach out to me.  I'm happy to do this because I've benefitted many times from replies to my own queries here.

This is pretty much what I do as well.  The key is "regular poster" -- I don't share with random folks who reach out to me.  I'm happy to do this because I've benefitted many times from replies to my own queries here.

This is pretty much what I do as well.  The key is "regular poster" -- I don't share with random folks who reach out to me.  I'm happy to do this because I've benefitted many times from replies to my own queries here.

This is pretty much what I do as well.  The key is "regular poster" -- I don't share with random folks who reach out to me.  I'm happy to do this because I've benefitted many times from replies to my own queries here.

This is pretty much what I do as well.  The key is "regular poster" -- I don't share with random folks who reach out to me.  I'm happy to do this because I've benefitted many times from replies to my own queries here.

This is pretty much what I do as well.  The key is "regular poster" -- I don't share with random folks who reach out to me.  I'm happy to do this because I've benefitted many times from replies to my own queries here.

I went on the hunt and pulled out the 6 books I have (all of these, plus a few more) and it was interesting.  In particular Aaron Lawrence.  I am honestly surprised that he shared some of that info when he was still actively escorting; there are just some things that I would think you need to not say until you are done using them psychologically on clients.  
As I have been reading these day planners and also this journal of sorts it is bringing me back to my late teens / early 20s in ways I was not expecting.  I had forgotten there that I had a listing on M4M Escort World and came across an email form that site from Jeffry Hurant, asking me to join his new website called Rentboy.com and offering up a free 6 months.  The internet really was a different time back then.  I had also honestly forgotten how much time I spent at 24 hour diners...all of these books have receipts stuck into them from the Melrose Diner and they are always at 3AM.  

Especially if he’s in uniform 😍

Indeed, you are correct.  
I respectfully apologize for missing that.

I've been to West Hollywood...15% being escorts does sound a little low 😆 

I travel frequently to Honolulu for some “work”, it’s work for a non-profit group with connections to the Mainland, I’m a liaison for the Mainland to Honolulu committees.
On a recent April trip, I went to my favorite Honolulu steak/seafood house. I travel alone on these trips, so usually find a spot at the bar where the full menu as well as pupus are on offer so depending on my appetite it’s a fun place to be. On arrival that evening, as I walked in a stunning young man just happened to greet me and say “hi, how are you this evening, have a great time”. He was leaving on his break, I thought it was nice of him to greet an arriving customer on his way out.
He looked like a Honolulu surfer type, full head of amazing longish wavy hair, blond/brunette, great smile, handsome, inch or two shorter than me, I was taken by his look…very much a type I’m attracted to, maybe 30 years old.
That evening when he returned from his break, turned out he was a bartender/back bar employee. I watched him behind the bar working, keeping in touch with me and indeed all the customers. Left that evening with a pleasant “have a nice evening” and not much more.
Fast forward, later that evening I was returning to my condo and saw him again, didn’t chat but thought to myself “coincidence” that I saw him again and left it at that. Later that night I opened up Grindr, and lo and behold there he was! I didn’t reach out, it was my last night, I had a very early flight the next morning. When I got home after much back/forth indecision in my mind, I sent him a message on Grindr, very easygoing message, basically telling him what I mention above, saw you, you seem interesting, maybe next time I’m in Honolulu I’ll reach out. He replied (to my surprise) “yes, reach out next time you’re in town”.
So last week I was back in Honolulu for 3 nights, I did send him a message saying I was in town, he wrote back “yes, let’s meet”. I went to his restaurant my first night in town - not really expecting to see him - but there he was. I was at a quiet spot at the end of the bar - at one point he walked by and I said “Hi, it’s me….” Lucky for me he was on his way for a break, so he spent some time with me. Turns out he from Columbia, with a bit of an accent, I threw out some of my limited Spanish and we laughed, and we chatted quite a bit that night off/on as he worked and was able. 
I went back to the restaurant the next couple nights, I enjoy the place and it’s super convenient to where I was staying. We chatted each night, made a couple of attempts via messaging to schedule a time to meet, I ultimately messaged him my phone number and within an hour he messaged me direct on my phone. Again, not able to really set anything up…my work meetings and his work schedule didn’t match.
We had some miscommunication about our mutual timing my last day there, my last dinner there I said how great it was to be chatting, he said he’d misunderstood my timing for that day and maybe my next visit we could work something out. Later that evening, he messaged me again saying “maybe if you’re staying up late tonight, after my shift?” I wrote back “sure I’ll wait up, let’s meet and relax after you’re off work”.
So around midnight he messaged me again saying “I’m free…”. I gave him my location and unit number, and minutes later we were sitting on my couch chatting and sharing things about our lives. He didn’t resisting my causal touching, my hand on his shoulder, around his shoulders, etc. as we conversed. At one point I suggested maybe he’d like a massage…told him I gave a good amateur massage “that often leads to more fun”. 😉 He thought that sounded like a good idea!
We went to the bedroom, and I gave him a 20-30 minute rubdown that ended up with both of us naked, cuddling, touching, light kissing, etc. We had a lot of “side” fun - and two simultaneous powerful eruptions. Much more cuddling, talking, enjoying each other’s company. A great initial visit.
He left after a few hours, with assurances that we would meet on my next trip. So, no full on sex…but an amazing experience and reinforcement to me that some younger guys are still into my late 60’s “Papa Hemingway” look!
Apologies if this was more about the lead up to meeting (I actually enjoy the lead up) rather than sexy details, but it was fun and I’m booking another trip first week of June! 

I've seen discussions about men where one member claims he's a scammer, yet dozens of other members claim he is a great regular and recommend hiring.  How would that be classified?  Keeping all comments regarding experiences with one man, both positive and negative, help the readers decide whom to believe.