Dolman

I must be too old to appreciate the latest trends in musculature and tattoos. There are hundreds of listings in my area, but what they're selling is not what I want.

Yes, I definitely go through periods of low to no interest. Sometimes, it's simply lack of desire, fatigue. Other times, I'm busy and don't really have time or I just want to do something else. And other times, I'm interested but like others noted, prices are way up but I'm not sure the quality is.
 

We're in a similar spot. While I understand inflation and don't begrudge providers making what they can, the jump from $300-$350 an hour to $400-$500 an hour in the past 12-18 months has slowed our hiring. We're not rich, so hiring is an indulgence. Plus, as a couple, we prefer to hire for at least two hours, so we're looking at $700-$800 for a single session. So I find we're much choosier with a new provider and seeing the guys we like when our schedules all line up, which is another obstacle. 

Even though I'm in a major US city with tons of guys, I'm definitely picky about who I hire as I don't necessarily find most guys out there to be attractive, or at least attractive enough to be worth the money. There was one escort that I was interested in seeing in my area but he ended up ghosting me on the day of our appointment and I haven't really cared to reach out to any others at the moment, although I do look on RM here and there. How many of you aren't booking due to lack of interest in guys in your area rather than funding?

Hmmm. . .he was my first "hire" almost forty years ago. "Everything is for sale if the price is right" was his "line". And, of course, I delight in a project with promise; it is a weakness with me. 

Hi guys,
I know there have been several discussions about DutchBeauty. I am contemplating going to see him… however he is in Amsterdam.
has anybody met him from here as I am not sure I’ve heard anything from a member
thank you!
D x
https://rentmen.eu/DutchBeauty

I recently got a RM verification notice with a credit card. It was legit. I emailed them to complain and they waived the requirement.

Great - job well done.
 
I cannot even guess how much revenue they would have lost if they had kept that invasive rule for customers of their site.

Hi all
I wrote back to them and asked why, as a client, they were asking for this information.
 
This is their response.
 
Hello,
 
Thank you for contacting us.
 
Be advised that the requested verification is removed and you don't need to
take any steps to verify your payment.

I’ve met him. Nice guy & looks like his pics.  There were definitely performance issues on his end.  Every one can have an off day & thsts understandable.  But, I would not repeat 
the thing with true XXL dicks is some of them don’t get 100% hard.  there are ways to fix it , but the provider needs to be prepared for that. 

So, fellow size queens, who would you say is the provider (escort or masseur) who is hung the best and makes you salivate the minute you lay your eyes on the goods?  ( around DC or MD ).

When I read all the posts in this thread I am astonished and I feel like I am in the Twilight Zone. In the last 6 years I have hired a grand total of 30 different men. (I keep a list.) Some better than others for sure. All of them have come to my place. My vetting is limited to looking at their pics, reading the reviews, and asking them if they are ok with most things in my profile. Never have I been asked to pay upfront. Never have I felt at all threatened. Never have I asked them to meet in public first. I must be doing something right and maybe I have a sixth sense for choosing correctly. But there must be other Twilight Zone dwellers besides me.

I’d steer clear of any significant OF creator - why would they meet average people when they make more money filming with other hot people ?  If it looks like someone just dabbles in OF, then that’s different
i continue to be surprised at some here that set themselves up for obvious impending disappointment.  Take the easier & proven option - hires guys that meet with average type clients & make a living doing so.  Not complicated. 

I know that. And you know that. They don’t know that. 

Clearly he's into the BFE 🤣.   With the added bonus of perforating your lower intestine and bruising other internal organs.  Charming.

I lived in Iran in the 1960s when I was in my '20s. There was lots of consensual gay sex going on with high school - '20s - '30s young men, as girls were pretty much kept under lock and key. And then there were the bathhouses, where most everyone went on a weekly basis for cleanliness...and where a massage in a private room was 25¢, and another 25¢ to get fucked by the masseur. Let's just say I got a lot of massages. Illegal, immoral, whatever...they don't pay any more attention to their mullahs than we do to our ministers and priests when it comes to cock. 
This was during the Viet Nam war, when the US military put out a guide to brothels in the Far East, for G.I's on R & R. Both Taiwan and Bangkok were notorious for sex tourism, so I returned to the States via Asia. In the cab from the Bangkok airport to my hotel, the cabbie handed me brochure after brochure for brothels with women. Seeing I had no interest, he reached into his glove compartment and pulled out half a dozen brochures for the brothels with young men. I picked out a brothel, went there, and had a choice of maybe ten sexily-dressed boys vying for my attention. I payed the "madam" the fee to take him for the night. When I returned to my first class hotel with him, the doorman and other hotel workers smiled ear to ear. My boy told me they would have been very disappointed if a client ever came back to bed alone. We spent three days and nights together, even went to his house and met his mother, whom he was undoubtedly supporting. All so terribly civilized. 
Bangkok is still a great place to hire. Taiwan less so, perhaps because gays are so open and accepted there you don't have to pay. 

Yikes!!
Does anyone
Still wear
A hat?
I’ll drink to that.

Headline reads “Classy and Educate guy” 🤣

Because you want to know EXACTLY how he’s going to fuck you over??

 
You’ve got the information you need. Stop thinking with your "little head". 

This snow storm that has lasted pretty much for a week in Buffalo has caused, for the first time ever that I have seen, to have zero providers currently listed on rentmen. 😅

Moderator's note: We had four (4) threads about the same provider, all of which have now been combined into one. 
[Getting down on my knees, this might take a minute. OK, there]
👉Please search for prior threads before posting a new one.🙏

I have the best luck reaching out 48 hours before a visiting provider arrives. Too far out they might cancel… once they arrive, they might be all booked up. 

My rule of thumb for advance bookings: (1) set up advance bookings with date and time, and tell them i will text them again on D-day; (2) text on D-day hours ahead to re-confirm; and (3) text again 1 hour or so to re-re-confirm along with location information (as i only do outcall).

PNP and ghosting go together!
 
For those who are looking for an experience to remember,

I agree, the ad is very well-written.  Very professional and prompt in his communication.  Does offer incalls in Manhattan.  And a very competitive rate for a fully interactive sexual experience - I will not publish it here - but it is compelling.
I am seriously tempted.