nycman

I don’t see Mark listed on their website.

Drama. Just move on.

It’s like the hanky code all over again. Anyone else remember boys huddling in the corner of the leather bars looking at their “cheat sheets" trying desperately to make sense of the whole mess? What’s old is new again.

Not necessarily…..

Now he tells me! We could have been skiing our days away in Zermatt having crazy Italian lunches in the shadow of the Matterhorn and spending our nights fucking like rabbits. All the while, you making bank off the American who tips generously for "services rendered". Grin.

Who hurt you?

Ski trips! First, learning to ski sucks. You’re first trip isn’t going to be much fun. Lots of falling and frustration. Just accept that. Trust me it gets way better, but the first trip is rough. Wherever you go, make sure there’s a great spa. You’re going to need it. I think the best "ski spa" in the world is at the Fairmont Banff Springs: https://www.fairmont.com/banff-springs/ Sunshine mountain there is a great place to learn to ski as well. Lake Louise is too hard of a mountain on which to learn. Unfortunately, there’s not much else to do in Banff and zero nightlife. The spa at the St Regis in Aspen is very good. https://www.marriott.com/hotels/travel/asexr-the-st-regis-aspen-resort/ I’m not a fan of the hotel, but there are tons of other places to stay in Aspen. Buttermilk mountain is the place to learn skiing there. Aspen nightlife is fun and there’s always something to do other than ski. Jackson Hole is much too hard for a beginner, town is far away and painfully straight (even for a ski town). Telluride is boring as fuck. Vail…just don’t. There are no gay bars…in any ski towns…anywhere…I’ve looked. Ski instructors are much cheaper in Europe. The conditions are never as good as the Rockies, but the atmosphere is unbeatable. Of course, the problem is you have to get there and the snow will be iffy in December. Hope that helps. Have fun!

For me it waxes and wanes. Never "very connected" and never "not connected at all", but usually drifting in between. And like most of the men replying here I’m talking about the “G” part. The rest of the alphabet is an incidental, albeit hostile, takeover in my book. In my everyday life, it’s a very small part of my identity. Nonetheless, I fought hard to survive and tried to pave the way for today’s little punk faggots as best I could. I’m proud of that. What they choose to do with it is their business. The fact that they get to choose is enough for me.

I’ve used escorts to get over the pain of a breakup in the past and I think it’s helpful as long as you go into it with your eyes wide open. This hobby is not a substitute for love. Never has been. Never will be. At best, it’s a a nice distraction for an hour or two. I wouldn’t suggest bringing all your breakup baggage to your appointment with the escort. You’re going there to escape that, not unpack it. If you need to unpack it, you should talk to friends or see a therapist. An escort can put you on the road to recovery, but you still have to drive the bus.

I can’t get the original link to work, but it sure sounds like the same dude. When we were done fucking, he rollled over and said something about being straight. It blew my mind. I had never had a straight dude be that passionate before. I said, "well damn, best piece of straight ass I ever got". (True) He said, "yeah, I get that a lot". (Also I’m sure, true).

Surely, you mean KaDeWe. Not that I know anything about gay Berlin, Mein Liebchen.

I’m old enough to know that sexuality is an amazingly complex thing. It’s as varied and changing as the waves on the ocean. Some of the unexpected delights I’ve had you wouldn’t believe me if I told you. Straight men who bottom but don’t kiss. Men who get blown but don’t touch. Men who want to be treated like a female. Men who want to fuck men (gasp) Men who only like to lick boots Men who have barbershop fantasies Men who like foreskin fucking Men who like toys Men who hate toys. Kinsey 0-6….are you fucking kidding? Kinsey 0-1,000 still wouldn’t even come close to classifying man’s sexual diversity. Thank fucking god! Now, put down your pencils and notebooks and get out there and enjoy. There are some amazing men out there just dying to experience you. Straight?….that’s about one out of 165 sexual traits that I care about. And it’s by far one of the least important….trust me.

I like dudes. When I think about it more than that….it gives me a headache….so I don’t. I like dudes.

I admit I wanna fuck him. He certainly has a type that he likes to fuck. Here’s to hoping his taste in tops is vastly different than his taste i bottoms.

That video of his loose butthole says otherwise.

Be careful boys…..I just accidentally copied that entire google calendar into my work google calendar. Can’t wait to try and explain that to my assistant in the morning….lmao.

I thought the same thing. Not bad, but not 25.

This is especially true in the age of COVID. Trust me, it is impossible to evict anyone right now. He could be taking a massive dump in the middle of your living room everyday at noon for 6 months, and there is absolutely nothing you could do about it.

No shit. Have you actually visited one of the "exclusive" Centurion lounges? The ones I’ve been to are always packed and feel more like an overrun daycare center. I actually prefer to be out in the seats in the concourse, and I hate the seats in the concourse. I think they should ditch the lounges. They’re worthless to me. Nonetheless, if you travel frequently, the AMEX platinum card rocks and is well worth it.

Would you be so quick to help if he wasn’t in his 20’s and cute? I know lots of nice 80 year olds who could use a helping hand. Just saying….let’s not get too self righteous.

No. Playing games is for children and I’m assuming this isn’t your sweet 16. I recently attended a birthday party where it was clear that about half of the guests didn’t know that it was a birthday party. It made the whole night awkward. It was like some guests were close enough to the couple to know the "true nature" of the party and some people weren’t. We’re all adults. Just be honest and straightforward. ”No presents please" is standard party invite language that everyone should understand and respect.

…"Wow, next time we’ll have to be more careful." - End scene - Don’t beat yourself up too much. We’ve all done stupid things while learning the ropes of this hobby. Chalk it up to experience and move on.

Child…you are a grown ass man and not new around here. Do not make us work….. https://rentmen.eu/YusufB Wait…he’s a Turkish bottom?!?! We’re cool bro. Thanks for the heads up….grin

I had to look that one up. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Beech_marten I learned something new today. Thank you.