nycman

Not to rub salt in the wound, but this seems kind of silly. Why would "being on the way" make any difference? Think with your big head, bro. Lesson learned. Take the hit and move on. And remember you’re not alone. We’ve all been there.

Pass. Too many fish….

Wow. That’s the ten million dollar question. "Should I stay or should I go"….que The Clash. https://youtu.be/BN1WwnEDWAM?feature=shared 99 times out of 100, for me the answer is "that was fun, now please go". But every now and then the magic is there and I want you to stay. We could cuddle, laugh, talk, get dinner, and fuck all night. And I’d still desperately want to have breakfast with you in the morning. Thats when I know I’m in trouble. And when I’ve found a keeper. The rest? "Put the coin on the dresser and hit the door"…que Willam https://youtu.be/LLY8kQAyeUI?feature=shared

I hand write in “Fa**ot". That usually stops the unnecessary "form questioning" right there. Lord, the childish lengths we go to to censor others. Free Speech advocates, please excuse the silly ** above. The rest of you can suck it.

I’m not a lawyer, and I personally can’t stand them, but I have been through several (thankfully amicable) estate settlements as an executor. So take this all with a grain of salt. Also, my knowledge is limited to mostly NY State. Nonetheless, my understanding is that most states are very similar regarding estates and Wills. The next of kin must always be notified when an estate is being settled. Even if they are left nothing. They will also always have standing to contest the Will. That doesn’t mean they’ll win, but they can cause huge ($$$) headaches. Most scummy lawyers (excuse the redundancy), know the estate would rather just pay them off than waste time and $$$ defending against them. So the next of kin will almost always be able to get something. No matter what the Will says. My best advice is to leave the legal heirs something (10% or so) and state that if any of them contests the will, they all get nothing. It’s not a guarantee but in general it’s usually enough to get them to sit the fuck down and shut the fuck up. The rats will take the money and run. In NY State anyone named in the Will previous to the one being executed, also has standing to contest the will. They are not notified, but many people know when they are in a Will one day and out the next. Keep an eye on them as well. Anyone contesting a Will will need to prove that the person was mentally unsound, or under undue influence when they drew up and signed their Will. This is the #1 reason not to use "WillsRUs.com" and instead use a reputable local lawyer (sorry for the oxymoron). That lawyer will be able to explain how and why they believed the deceased was of sound mind and body. In fact, if they didn’t believe that, they’d most likely be exposing themselves to a malpractice claim, so they have incentive to defend the decedent’s competency vigorously. Outright winning the contesting of a Will is difficult. Shaking down an estate down for 10-15% is easy. See my advice above about leaving the dirtbags something with the risk of getting nothing if they make trouble. Few are willing to roll the dice, and no lawyer really wants that case either. Thats a Win. Win. And about the best you can hope for IMHO. Having said all of that. No court is going to leave the family Zero. No matter what you write. Especially, if you’re trying to give everything to a whore. Trust me on this one. Give everybody a little. Set traps for the troublemakers, and then forget about it. You’re dead.

Thats what all the fuss is about? I sure hope he’s good at canoeing.

Preferably behind the closed doors of a western five star hotel. There’s a huge difference between what goes on in public and what is permitted behind Golden Gates. There’s a huge difference between what is tolerated with tourists and what is tolerated with locals. And of course there is huge difference between the treatment of those who have money and those who do not. If you go in with western, democratic values and attitudes….you’re in for a rough trip.

Oh sure…. Misrepresented themselves in their pics. Demanded money upfront (without being discussed prior). Showed up high as a kite. Showed up 2 hours late (without calling or explanation). Attempted to change the agreed upon rate. Opened the door and realized they were someone who conned me before. Zero chemistry. The “zero chemistry" is the only one I’d even consider giving $100 to for their time. Chemistry is hard to predict and hard to fake. If I think they’re really trying and they haven’t committed one of the other "sins", I tend to hand them a $100 for their time and show them the door. Everyone else, just gets the door.

Ummm…..Darren Criss is playing Hedwig in that shot. Hedwig strips down to tiny black shorts and their assistant Yitzhak takes the stage in “Hedwig drag" during “Midnight Radio" at the close of the show. Done correctly, it’s a powerful moment of release and transformation. And yeah, if you’re gonna play Hedwig, you gotta starve yourself to get into those shorts.

And the award for "best performance at the Tony’s" goes to……..

Paddle or Piddle?

"Ask me" = Next! These are not difficult questions. Nonetheless, no matter what they say in their ad, I make it clear that I’m a top who likes to fuck. That way they can prepare accordingly and there’s really no surprises. And if they act surprised…they get politely shown to the door. Reading is fundamental. If you didn’t understand what I wrote, it’s because you chose not to understand. Next!

Yeah, I’m going to play Devil’s Advocate here. Admittedly however, I have no idea where the “truth” lies on this topic. You have to remember that early in HIV research (and almost 99% still true today), every attempt to "cure" HIV was an absolute failure. Science just wasn’t (and pretty much still isn’t) up to the task. Pouring more and more money into failure after failure simply was statistically a bad idea. There was some promise (and eventually a huge victory) in treating HIV and making the disease “manageable". Fauci played the odds and took that bet. I would argue that Fauci’s bet (or his deal with the devil, if you prefer) paid off in spades. There are millions who are alive today that wouldn’t be if all that funding kept being dumped into the halcyon dumpster of seeking a cure instead of being funneled into the more realistic treatment pathway. Science wasn’t (and still largely isn’t) developed enough to even dream of a cure. I believe that’s changing, and I believe we’ll see real lasting cures for the masses in our lifetime. Nonetheless, retrospect yields a cloudy vision at best, and admittedly the "truth" is probably somewhere in the middle.

I use my real first name when I contact a provider. It just seems human to me. There is an inherent risk, but most providers are decent humans and I generally only contact men who are well reviewed here. Is that a "mistake"? Let’s just say I wouldn’t advise others to follow my lead. Especially, if they have something to loose. Even providers with good reputations here, occasionally turn out to be astoundingly evil and petty beings. YMMV.

Let’s be honest…it’s not his first. Personally, I couldn’t care less what others pay or how much someone charges. All that matters is how much a man I want to see is asking, and how much I’m willing to pay. It’s like the price of plutonium….its not really relevant to my day to day world.

Strangely, I actually prefer not to know. When I’ve built the fantasy in my head of "X", I want to fuck X, kiss X, cuddle with X,….. "Y"? Yeah,I don’t know him nor do I need to. Oddly compartmentalized, but true.

You saved me. Thank you.

God, that is one ugly interior design.

One of my first escort crushes. Never got to meet him, but damn did I dream about it!

Interesting question @purplekow. I never really thought about it but most of my friends are 10-15 years older than me. A few are 15-20 years younger. And my oldest and closest friends are about my age. Most of my boyfriends have been 10 years older than me. I enjoy the company of people older and wiser than me. I agree men younger than me have a hard time understanding why I don’t share their stamina and desire to jump out of airplanes. Now that I think about it though, I probably do the same thing to my older friends. I don’t want to think of them as "old". Also I do a similar thing with younger men. In my mind somehow, we’re all the same age. My advice? Take it as a compliment that they still think of you as young and spry enough to change a tire of your own. Here’s the only tire I want to change…..but that’s been true since I was in my 20’s. Herb Ritts | "Fred with Tires- Bodyshop Series" (1984) | Available for Sale | Artsy WWW.ARTSY.NET Available for sale from Izzy Gallery, Herb Ritts, "Fred with Tires- Bodyshop Series" (1984), Silver Gelatin Print, 24 × 20 in

Yes, every website ever listed on the net-of-inter also involves sex. Any every suspect post by a newbie is the Feds. These are known facts.

It’s medical care. Not Burger King. Have it your way?…..yeah….no…that’s not how any of this works. You need to talk with your doctor and request to have it added to your next battery of tests.

Enjoy your prudery. I’m going to keep doing it. Clothed and unclothed.

I’ve reached out to him on several different trips to Vegas. Never got the courtesy of a response. I stopped trying.