nycman

90% of the time I pay and chalk it up to a learning experience. 10% of the time I politely say "this isn’t going to work" and close the door in their face. I think of it the same way I do wine. There’s no way in hell I’m paying for a corked bottle of wine. But I make that clear at the first sip, not after I’ve drank 1/2 a glass. A bottle of wine that is technically "good", but that I just don’t "like”, is on me and a reminder that I need to learn how to pick better wines.

First time, I book for an hour. I find that 2 hours can occasionally be much, much too long, and 60 minutes is rarely too short. I’ve had zero success signaling in the heat of the moment that I want to extend for a second hour. So now I just let the time flow naturally. In the rare instance where the sexual energy is explosive, running over just seems to happen naturally, and I compensate appropriately for the extra time when we’re done. If I really like the guy, I’ll book 2 hours for the next appointment. My record for longest "overtime" hire was an incredibly hot and energetic Serbian bottom in London. One hour turned into 18 hours of sex, dinner, sex, sex, sex, breakfast, sex, sex, lunch, and one exhausted but passionate kiss goodbye at the Knightsbridge Tube station. Over a decade later, I still get weak in the knees when I think about him.

He’s now based in Las Vegas. He’s real and real fun.

Seems clear to me….just sayin’ And I second the Jose recommendation. He almost seems to get off on showing you how deep he can massage you, and still make it feel good. I can’t comment on his topping skills, but his endowment is impressive and we had a lot of fun together. He’s a very sweet and playful man. Hope that helps.

It is for everyone….. Well that is, everyone who hasn’t artificially injected gallons of silicone into their ass. Stupid cow.

At that exact moment I would have said "this isn’t going to work" and shown him to the door without payment. They can’t treat you like a doormat, unless you let them step on you. Thanks for the warning and better luck next time.

Seals are assholes. Cute, assholes.

Sorry to be a stickler but "medical school" and "college" are two different things. Either way, he’s damn cute!

"When you submit…I take over every part of you while you’re with me." I still can’t stop laughing….

If you even wondered what it would be like to get a massage from an Asian Jackie ‘O with a big dick….now’s your chance!

Upper Westside NYC YMCA. Don’t ask me how I know….it just is. Hey, I used to be young, cute, and poor. What more do you need to know?

So true. If I owned Florida real estate I’d be slashing my asking price and trying to get my money out of there like mad. Maybe it’s not the $$$ you thought it was worth, but it’s better than the $ you’re going to get in 2-3 years. Unfortunately, I’m not sure where I’d park that money in today’s world. Nothing really feels "safe".

And yet some of us would be beating off like a teenager to that luxury porn….grin You just haven’t been there with the right MAN yet……

Freedom of speech, which I will defend to my death, does not give you the right to commit cold blooded murder. It kills me that we live in a society where we "think" a young man who committed murder in broad daylight in Midtown Manhattan "might" have mental health issues. The kid is beautiful, no doubt. But he’s also a murderous lunatic, no doubt.

And how much you enjoy being a doormat. I suggest you move on and don’t look back. This young man obviously doesn’t care about you or your time. Take your money and invest it elsewhere.

I think a lot of great points have been made. I agree that your math doesn’t take into account the tax benefits of property ownership, especially when it comes to inheritance. Personally, I hate being a landlord, I love having liquid assets, and I don’t give a shit how much my nephews end up having to pay in taxes when I die. I also like owning the land I live on outright, so that no one can easily take that away from me (although that doesn’t really apply in this scenario since you’re not living there). At times I’ve made a small fortune in the real estate market and I come from a family that was heavily into the rental/real estate market. Over the long haul, my stock portfolio has vastly outperformed my real estate investments. Also, being a landlord is a full time job, and one that I personally don’t enjoy. So, for me it feels right to own the land I live on, and invest everything else in the stock market. YMMV. PS since all of these calculations are based on % return on investment, the value of the house and the size of the stock market investment don’t really matter. That of course assumes the % return on 80 x $100,000 homes is the same as the % return on one $8 Million home. Spoiler alert, it’s not. Enough about money….now let’s have some fun….. So, was this before or after the fires and where’s the house located again? grin

Silly homo, the PATH train goes to Jersey, not Queens. Not that I would know. Although a much younger and poorer nycman may, or may not, have ridden to the PATH train a time or too to fuck a professional hockey player in Jersey. Don’t judge me. He was rich and he had a nice ass. "I'm not going to Queens, there are people living in cabs down there." - Karen Walker

They only have that power over you because you give it to them.

At times like this, I’m glad I don’t own a TV.

I’ve been around here for close to 20 years. I’ve never seen a "consensus" on anything.

I thought it was Brilliant! Thank you for the recommendation.

Damn. Now that’s one hot little fireplug of a man!

I’m sorry this happened to you. There are evil/unhappy people in this world. Don’t let them make you one of them. Karma is a bitch. She will have her way with this human eventually. Rise above!

A) They’ve know what you’re up to. B) They’ve seen it before. C) As long as you don’t disturb the other guests, they don’t care.