Vegas_Millennial

Just an update. Had a really great time here. Good crowed that was definitely playful. Hot at the end of the day was very relaxing ?

I met a guy on Grindr who was a concierge at a posh hotel in Boston. There was a mens room just beyond the Concierge desk with a locking toilet closet. We did the deed, and then he went right back to concierg'ing.....???

I've had a few 'hotel experiences' but unlike the other posters I was the hotel employee.
Years ago I worked as a night manager in a 4 star hotel used mainly by businesses & executives and during those quiet hours of the night shenanigans did occasionally occur.
 
One night a handsome guy of about 40 checked in @ midnight & half an hour later rang down to say the light bulb above the bed had blown & asked if it could be replaced. I fetched a bulb from the stores & knocked on his door & heard 'Come in.' I used my pass key & found him sitting up in bed naked from the waist up with damp hair, obviously just out of the shower. After exchanging pleasantries I leaned over him to replace the bulb & found it was not blown but only loose & came back on when I tightened it. I suspect that he'd deliberately loosened it as when I looked down he had pushed down the bed linen & was completely naked with a throbbing boner & a huge grin on his face!
 
Needless to say that guest got the deluxe room service treatment and when I left, wiping the man juice from my lips , it was me who who had the grin on his face now!
 
There were othe 'events' that happened during my time there & I'll recount them later.

I remember a particular visit to Campus. One of the dancers told me he LOVES older men with gray a bit of a belly. Made me grin. The lap dances were of the charts HOT. Many of them ??

You're never too old to go to a strip club anywhere as long as you have money in your pocket to spend. The strippers are happy to give lapdances providing the customer has the cash. I have seen guys in their 80's go in the back with dancers. At Stock, there is a customer that is in a wheelchair and the dancers are happy to go in the back with him. Go for it! I am hoping that the border will have re-opened by autumn....maybe earlier.

Wonderful idea @Rocca. I say Go for it, provided you can afford the costly trip. A week in Maui with an obliging masseur sounds terrific. But as others have said, you must be explicit and detailed about what you are offering to him.
 
FWIW I once took a swimming coach away with me, not to Maui but to an equally lovely longhaul destination. The coach was fit, mid 20s and had a very good body. I had a real crush on him so I took him out for coffee or lunch after lessons 2x a week. After a few weeks, we were showering together after the lesson when he suggested I would enjoy using the sauna (he serviced me orally and I gave him a handjob). That became an enjoyable routine.
 
When I thought about going away for some Winter sun, I asked him out for dinner to discuss my idea. Luckily I had thought out all the details (as previously I’d hired fit young men for trips). I told him I’d pay for the flights and the hotel as well as all the meals and drinks, and I said I’d want a lesson each day before breakfast and again probably late afternoon. I emphasised we’d have breakfast together and then he’d be free for most of the day until we had the 2nd lesson and dinner together.
 
He was interested and asked questions. I was a bit surprised at his questions. He didn’t mention money. He did ask if he’d have his own room. I said No, we‘d share a room. And added that the hotel beds are king sized. He asked me if I was gay and I said I was. He then asked about sex. And I said I enjoyed getting oral to completion, and I liked seeing him come…and I was totally OK if that was all he wanted to do. (I’d met some of his friends and they all seemed very fit and str8). I did spell out that I enjoyed having sex every night.
 
He agreed there and then. But I followed up with a phone call the next day to confirm the dates etc. Again he didn’t ask about money. He did say he was a little worried that he didn’t have the right clothes for a 5* hotel. So I took him shopping which was good fun. I then raised the question of money. He asked if I was really going to pay for everything and when I confirmed that, he said I won’t need $$$ as it’s totally free.
 
Overall, we had a really great time on the trip. He was excited on the flight out and he seemed relaxed at the hotel (where they knew I was gay and obviously saw him as my young man). He did spend almost all the time with me. He worked out in the gym every day but wanted to come with me on excursions and hikes.
 
He initiated sex the first night and told me we could try more than the usual stuff. During the week, I got him to bottom 2x for me but I had the feeling he really wasn’t into it, so I told him full oral was just fine for me. During our last breakfast, I told him I’d had a good time with him. He countered that it had been his best vacation ever, and he’d had an amazing time with me. I raised the topic of money but he commented he hadn’t been able to spend any and “we had the best food” all week. I knew his income was small and erratic, so when we got back to the room to pack, I insisted on giving him $1000. He refused the $$$ but was so grateful when I insisted, that we had good sex to end the vacation on a high.

In another “life” I was a probation officer. One summer I attended a national conference sponsored by the Department of Justice. There were at least a thousand people there. After the first day, I changed into very casual clothes, donned a ball cap and Oakleys and headed for a gay bar quite far from the hotel. I recognized a few fellow attendees mostly because they still were wearing their conference badges. I played it cool until one of them approached me with a “hey, man, aren’t you a, uh, um, with the uh, um, er ...” It turned out to be a very educational and rewarding experience.

As a massage therapist I understand that the most important thing is for the person on the table to feel safe secure and not be self-conscious and it is nothing wrong with wanting to look your best some people are blessed with walking around with a 3/4 hard on all day long I kind of like Teddy Roosevelt walk softly and carry a big stick it's nice to show your potential without having make a big deal out of it smack it down on the table LOL Anyway if you feel comfortable wearing that then the massage is going to be so much better I don't do The Spa Thing anymore its too regimented and too much of a disconnect between myself and you on the table and it's written into the protocols leaving no room for extenuating circumstances or mutual agreement which means you would never be able to wear that cock ring because your therapist might be thin-skinned taking offense at everything and the biggest nightmare of all self-centered because that's supposed to be focusing on you I've seen therapists storm out of the room I thought you might had an attitude or sense of entitlement and on the flip side can a regular spot if someone else saw you wearing your cock ring there's a good chance they're going to file a complaint because of their own dirty mind and what they imagined was going on in there but it was the cast shame upon it or they were jealous that they didn't get any themselves. I'd rather build a rapport with a Private Client who's on the same page and don't have to worry about protocols because you make them up yourselves

I wear one if my client wants me to. Some clients like me to wear a jock or backless pants at the start of the massage so it’s no different to wearing a cock ring if they request that. I’ve a couple of clients who like me wearing one. One of the clients bought me the ring he likes me to wear. It’s a thick metal one.
 
I’ve never had a client wear a cock ring at the start, but some older guys like to put one on when they get hard because it helps them to stay hard. A lovely client in his late sixties likes to fuck me at the end of the massage so we always do that once he’s got the cock ring on and he can then stay hard enough to get it in.

No massage info, but someone has to explain him how to button the jacket, it hurts my eyes ? Always fasten the top.... the top.... and leave the lower undone. Such a turn off ugh

Mediterranean was our only cruise so far, def. recommend it. If you afford it, do one of the premium lines.....we did Azamara, almost no kids, smaller ships can dock right at port and you can walk on/off instead of taking a tinder (smaller boat) to shore. Also, all inclusive (including alcohol + tips). You can watch for discounted trips on sites like cruisesonly.com (click on Cruise Deals).

Some members are old enough to remember one of my favorite commercials of recent vintage:
 

That reminds me of a time before I did escorting/massage and I was in Spain doing a bit of travel. I was sunbathing naked on a secluded beach, just me there. It was near Mijas. I noticed a guy come along and pitch his towel nearby, just close enough to indicate interest but far enough away to be separated on the empty beach...if you know what I mean. He stripped off too and for a while we both lay there. He was older than me, I was in my 20’s and I guess he was around 45 or 50. Fit and tanned, and quite hairy.
After a while I noticed he had a semi and he kept stroking his cock so I could see it. I was laying on my front so he couldn’t see my cock but it was hard from watching him.
I don’t like to be subtle so I just turned over onto my back and showed him a full hard on and started wanking it. It worked, he was now fully hard and it looked big. I’d not been fucked for over a week and I was desperate for it. I beckoned him over and moved to the side of my blanket so he could sit next to me. Luckily he spoke some English as my Spanish for “please fuck me” is poor. Anyway after an initial hello I like your cock etc I got out my lube and smeared it in my bum so he couldn’t be under any misunderstanding about where to put it. First though he wanted a bj so I sucked him for a while then I really couldn’t wait any longer so I turned around and presented my bum doggie style. He put a condom on (I had one ready) and I’d probably got him too close because after only a few pumps he shot. Then I cum too all over my chest lol. He cleaned me up and we both lay there in the sun for a while.
Next day I had to register at the local police station (some rule whereby if you’re staying in the area for a period you had to let them know....I think it was so they could charge you a “fee” which I expect the police pocketed....I took a load of pesetas for my “fee”). Yes, you guessed it, behind the counter was my hung fuck mate from the beach. He smiled and let me off the fee....and I met him again at the beach next day for a longer session.

Overrated: The White House - I was shocked at how small it is and how almost disrespectful the visitors were. I got dressed in my Sunday best for it, because it's the WHITE HOUSE, and when we got there....OMG. People were dressed like they were going to Walmart!!!! I couldn't believe the President actually lives there. I'm still in denial. I've seen bigger mansions that are more ornate and my expectations were high because of what I've seen on TV. But the reality was a let down.
 
Underrated: We took a cruise to see a Canadian fjord. The tour guide said "welcome to paradise" and it truly was. To see a natural waterfall made by a glacier and the surrounding nature was breath taking. Nothing beats natures true beauty.

Agree, we had such high expectations. The area is beautiful, but the town was so disappointing.

I've only been to Montreal, not Paris. Glad to see I'm not missing out too much

bjroosters is not as "fancy" or elaborate a club as Swinging Richard's, but a lot of fun in it's own right.

Not a provider, but back in the salad days of youth, before cell phones, or much chatter online beyond maybe AOL chat rooms, there was a police officer well known in Central Park. He was one of the mounted patrol. I would guess he was mid to late 30’s to my 25 years. He wasn’t one to bust gents engaged in the bushes or anything, rather he’d stop those he liked, strike up a conversation, and using some old school code, made it clear he was interested. My 25 year rugby jock self apparently caught his eye, and I was able to enjoy his charms both in the Park, as well as my place or his. In my memory, he remains a devastatingly handsome Italian-American - I hope that isn’t just memory painting a more flattering picture than reality.
 
Beyond PO Hottie, I’ve enjoyed the company of other NYPD officers, a few FDNY, a member of the London Fire Brigade, some Broadway and West End actors, a couple of seminarians, multiple soldiers (US, UK, German, Israeli), politicians, aristos, and a minor European royal. If I can pull these fellows, I’ve no doubt our much appreciated providers are pulling many, many more.

Ha ha a good boy never tells who. The Lord was a sweet lovely guy. Mostly with clients you don’t know their real name, job or background and to be fair I don’t want to know these things anyway, although when chatting to them during the session some of these details are shared because it’s nice to connect mentally as well as physically. Discretion is absolutely paramount however so I’d never give any clues or names.

Yes, by police officers, clergy and a member of the House of Lords. Everyone needs a release.

My husband and I just spent 4 days at Disney with my brother, his wife, and their two sons 7 and 9, my nephews.
 
I was expecting A LOT of questions as this is our first vacation together in 5 years. Nothing. They didn’t care that we shared a bed, held hands, kissed in elevators. They just cared that we’d ride roller coasters with them and each take a hand so they could jump in the air as we walked around the park.
 
this is a stark contrast to 10 years ago when my other 7 year old nephew at the time mercilessly grilled us as we fumbled through mish moshed answers that made no sense lol

apparently he missed the National Archives and the Library of Congress ... call me a geek but I find these places to be awe inspiring

I hadn't even reached puberty when my mom told me something about how in time it would feel really good to touch myself down where I pee'd. I remember it sounded gross at the time. She then said a girl they would touch me with her body down there and that's how we would end up having kids. I still haven't let a girl touch me with her body down there and doubt I ever will. But she was right - it does feel damn good to touch myself down there.