Aaron_Bauder
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Aaron_Bauder got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in What diseases do you have?
And just because they say no you believe them and proceed? lol
I love the false sense of security people get from these kinds of questions, when fact is anybody could be lying to you at any time. Everyone should be doing what is necessary to protect his or her own health. Just because someone tells you they don't bareback or tells you they're neg or regularly tested or whatever is ocmpletely and totally meaningless.
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Aaron_Bauder got a reaction from JB_Studio38 in Does the “All American” look appeal to more inquiries?
A preference is "I like X, but I enjoy Y" more. Not "I won't even consider X." That's total exclusion, not preference.
Writing off and excluding entire races based on race is racialized exclusion. White supremecy is still a major thing among Americans and American gays, especially ages millennial and up, who were brainwashed by Sean Cody, Bel Ami, and Corbin Fisher to only find white jocks with abs attractive. But American gays love to think of themselves as open-minded, progressive, LoveIsLove stans so they try to sugarcoat social segregation as "preference" and delude themselves that if they're just nice about it and hide it, that makes it okay. Whatever. I guess it's progress from the gross NO BLACKS NO ASIANS days.
The sexual thing is meh (fuck whomever you want) but I'm disturbed that in the US, even in diverse cities like Los Angeles, *friend* groups are racially segregated.
It's changing with Zoomer gays, who actually are as open-minded and non-racist as millennial gays pretend to be. In the meantime, I suggest black providers travel internationally where the white supremacy thing is less prevalent. There still, but as bad.
For Asians, I dunno. Even in my extensive travels I've seen and heard too much derogatory anti-Asian crap. I don't know where in the West that Asians can escape the hate, but for hot black America gays/providers: go to Europe. You get treated there the way mediocre white gays get treated in America.
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Aaron_Bauder got a reaction from rn901 in Why do you think there are relatively few providers on this board?
I'm a provider who participates under a pseudonym. I also don't participate as much as in years past.
One, my honest answers drew negative attention, with some clients here saying things about me and my profile that were false and thus damaging to my brand.
Two, after nearly a decade working I think many if not most clients posting here are not a representative sample, but rather a self-selected sample. Much of the conventional wisdom around here does not reflect my experience, in ways both positive and negative. Positively, clients here generally seem more savvy at effective communication with providers, compared to most who reach out to me. Negatively, clients here also seem generally more high maintenance than my real-world client base. Not all, but speaking in general terms.
Thus posting here is not as useful to me as I felt it might be when I joined. Would love to join a provider-only forum.
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Aaron_Bauder got a reaction from rn901 in Escorts: are CPAC and other conservative events good for business?
Never worked CPAC, but the Republican convention was traditionally a great event for providers, full of the typical sexually repressed, wealthy, country club hypocrites who demonize gays, blacks, and libertines publicly while privately trolling for black cock and gay sex.
That has changed in the GQP's Trump era. The country clubbers have been replaced with truly dangerous right wing extremists, who've also driven away the Young Republicans and with it the once-legendary fratboy party scene around conservative events. I think I saw a headline about CPAC's dwindling youth attendance over the past few years.
Subtraction is no way to win elections, if you ask me.
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Aaron_Bauder got a reaction from Shawn Monroe in Why do you think there are relatively few providers on this board?
I'm a provider who participates under a pseudonym. I also don't participate as much as in years past.
One, my honest answers drew negative attention, with some clients here saying things about me and my profile that were false and thus damaging to my brand.
Two, after nearly a decade working I think many if not most clients posting here are not a representative sample, but rather a self-selected sample. Much of the conventional wisdom around here does not reflect my experience, in ways both positive and negative. Positively, clients here generally seem more savvy at effective communication with providers, compared to most who reach out to me. Negatively, clients here also seem generally more high maintenance than my real-world client base. Not all, but speaking in general terms.
Thus posting here is not as useful to me as I felt it might be when I joined. Would love to join a provider-only forum.
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Aaron_Bauder got a reaction from + Lucky in Why do you think there are relatively few providers on this board?
I'm a provider who participates under a pseudonym. I also don't participate as much as in years past.
One, my honest answers drew negative attention, with some clients here saying things about me and my profile that were false and thus damaging to my brand.
Two, after nearly a decade working I think many if not most clients posting here are not a representative sample, but rather a self-selected sample. Much of the conventional wisdom around here does not reflect my experience, in ways both positive and negative. Positively, clients here generally seem more savvy at effective communication with providers, compared to most who reach out to me. Negatively, clients here also seem generally more high maintenance than my real-world client base. Not all, but speaking in general terms.
Thus posting here is not as useful to me as I felt it might be when I joined. Would love to join a provider-only forum.
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Aaron_Bauder got a reaction from thomas in Why do you think there are relatively few providers on this board?
I'm a provider who participates under a pseudonym. I also don't participate as much as in years past.
One, my honest answers drew negative attention, with some clients here saying things about me and my profile that were false and thus damaging to my brand.
Two, after nearly a decade working I think many if not most clients posting here are not a representative sample, but rather a self-selected sample. Much of the conventional wisdom around here does not reflect my experience, in ways both positive and negative. Positively, clients here generally seem more savvy at effective communication with providers, compared to most who reach out to me. Negatively, clients here also seem generally more high maintenance than my real-world client base. Not all, but speaking in general terms.
Thus posting here is not as useful to me as I felt it might be when I joined. Would love to join a provider-only forum.
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Aaron_Bauder got a reaction from GTMike in Why do you think there are relatively few providers on this board?
I'm a provider who participates under a pseudonym. I also don't participate as much as in years past.
One, my honest answers drew negative attention, with some clients here saying things about me and my profile that were false and thus damaging to my brand.
Two, after nearly a decade working I think many if not most clients posting here are not a representative sample, but rather a self-selected sample. Much of the conventional wisdom around here does not reflect my experience, in ways both positive and negative. Positively, clients here generally seem more savvy at effective communication with providers, compared to most who reach out to me. Negatively, clients here also seem generally more high maintenance than my real-world client base. Not all, but speaking in general terms.
Thus posting here is not as useful to me as I felt it might be when I joined. Would love to join a provider-only forum.
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Aaron_Bauder got a reaction from JB_Studio38 in Paying for cab/car to/from
My ad states that I may ask a client to send an Uber/Lyft for outcalls, depending on the distance and situation. It's not an issue. Rarely a client asked to do this won't do it, and c'est la vie. On to the next.
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Aaron_Bauder got a reaction from jtwalker in Why do you think there are relatively few providers on this board?
I'm a provider who participates under a pseudonym. I also don't participate as much as in years past.
One, my honest answers drew negative attention, with some clients here saying things about me and my profile that were false and thus damaging to my brand.
Two, after nearly a decade working I think many if not most clients posting here are not a representative sample, but rather a self-selected sample. Much of the conventional wisdom around here does not reflect my experience, in ways both positive and negative. Positively, clients here generally seem more savvy at effective communication with providers, compared to most who reach out to me. Negatively, clients here also seem generally more high maintenance than my real-world client base. Not all, but speaking in general terms.
Thus posting here is not as useful to me as I felt it might be when I joined. Would love to join a provider-only forum.
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Aaron_Bauder got a reaction from JB_Studio38 in Why do you think there are relatively few providers on this board?
I'm a provider who participates under a pseudonym. I also don't participate as much as in years past.
One, my honest answers drew negative attention, with some clients here saying things about me and my profile that were false and thus damaging to my brand.
Two, after nearly a decade working I think many if not most clients posting here are not a representative sample, but rather a self-selected sample. Much of the conventional wisdom around here does not reflect my experience, in ways both positive and negative. Positively, clients here generally seem more savvy at effective communication with providers, compared to most who reach out to me. Negatively, clients here also seem generally more high maintenance than my real-world client base. Not all, but speaking in general terms.
Thus posting here is not as useful to me as I felt it might be when I joined. Would love to join a provider-only forum.
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Aaron_Bauder got a reaction from + José Soplanucas in Why do you think there are relatively few providers on this board?
I'm a provider who participates under a pseudonym. I also don't participate as much as in years past.
One, my honest answers drew negative attention, with some clients here saying things about me and my profile that were false and thus damaging to my brand.
Two, after nearly a decade working I think many if not most clients posting here are not a representative sample, but rather a self-selected sample. Much of the conventional wisdom around here does not reflect my experience, in ways both positive and negative. Positively, clients here generally seem more savvy at effective communication with providers, compared to most who reach out to me. Negatively, clients here also seem generally more high maintenance than my real-world client base. Not all, but speaking in general terms.
Thus posting here is not as useful to me as I felt it might be when I joined. Would love to join a provider-only forum.
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Aaron_Bauder got a reaction from + BenjaminNicholas in Why do you think there are relatively few providers on this board?
I'm a provider who participates under a pseudonym. I also don't participate as much as in years past.
One, my honest answers drew negative attention, with some clients here saying things about me and my profile that were false and thus damaging to my brand.
Two, after nearly a decade working I think many if not most clients posting here are not a representative sample, but rather a self-selected sample. Much of the conventional wisdom around here does not reflect my experience, in ways both positive and negative. Positively, clients here generally seem more savvy at effective communication with providers, compared to most who reach out to me. Negatively, clients here also seem generally more high maintenance than my real-world client base. Not all, but speaking in general terms.
Thus posting here is not as useful to me as I felt it might be when I joined. Would love to join a provider-only forum.
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Aaron_Bauder got a reaction from MikeBiDude in Why do you think there are relatively few providers on this board?
I'm a provider who participates under a pseudonym. I also don't participate as much as in years past.
One, my honest answers drew negative attention, with some clients here saying things about me and my profile that were false and thus damaging to my brand.
Two, after nearly a decade working I think many if not most clients posting here are not a representative sample, but rather a self-selected sample. Much of the conventional wisdom around here does not reflect my experience, in ways both positive and negative. Positively, clients here generally seem more savvy at effective communication with providers, compared to most who reach out to me. Negatively, clients here also seem generally more high maintenance than my real-world client base. Not all, but speaking in general terms.
Thus posting here is not as useful to me as I felt it might be when I joined. Would love to join a provider-only forum.
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Aaron_Bauder reacted to + Jamie21 in Why do you think there are relatively few providers on this board?
I agree. I participate but I do wonder how useful it is. I guess it’s an insight into what clients are thinking about but it’s probably not very representative.
It can be amusing to engage but I agree there are plenty of people just wanting validation of things they’ve already made their mind up about. There’s also some with misconceptions and prejudices about providers that are revealed in their questions.
I participate in a forum on a website that’s created by providers for providers (only providers can join) and I find that much more useful to connect with other providers and find out helpful information.
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Aaron_Bauder got a reaction from cany10011 in Paying for cab/car to/from
My ad states that I may ask a client to send an Uber/Lyft for outcalls, depending on the distance and situation. It's not an issue. Rarely a client asked to do this won't do it, and c'est la vie. On to the next.
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Aaron_Bauder got a reaction from mike carey in Rentmen only taking Bitcoin?
Okay, thanks! It's 55523--
Hey! Wait a minute....?
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Aaron_Bauder got a reaction from Kevin Slater in Rentmen only taking Bitcoin?
Okay, thanks! It's 55523--
Hey! Wait a minute....?
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Aaron_Bauder got a reaction from + harey in Rentmen only taking Bitcoin?
Is this happening for anyone else?
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Aaron_Bauder got a reaction from MikeBiDude in Escorts: are CPAC and other conservative events good for business?
Never worked CPAC, but the Republican convention was traditionally a great event for providers, full of the typical sexually repressed, wealthy, country club hypocrites who demonize gays, blacks, and libertines publicly while privately trolling for black cock and gay sex.
That has changed in the GQP's Trump era. The country clubbers have been replaced with truly dangerous right wing extremists, who've also driven away the Young Republicans and with it the once-legendary fratboy party scene around conservative events. I think I saw a headline about CPAC's dwindling youth attendance over the past few years.
Subtraction is no way to win elections, if you ask me.
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Aaron_Bauder got a reaction from marylander1940 in Escorts: are CPAC and other conservative events good for business?
Never worked CPAC, but the Republican convention was traditionally a great event for providers, full of the typical sexually repressed, wealthy, country club hypocrites who demonize gays, blacks, and libertines publicly while privately trolling for black cock and gay sex.
That has changed in the GQP's Trump era. The country clubbers have been replaced with truly dangerous right wing extremists, who've also driven away the Young Republicans and with it the once-legendary fratboy party scene around conservative events. I think I saw a headline about CPAC's dwindling youth attendance over the past few years.
Subtraction is no way to win elections, if you ask me.
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Aaron_Bauder got a reaction from Jeffster in Escorts: are CPAC and other conservative events good for business?
Never worked CPAC, but the Republican convention was traditionally a great event for providers, full of the typical sexually repressed, wealthy, country club hypocrites who demonize gays, blacks, and libertines publicly while privately trolling for black cock and gay sex.
That has changed in the GQP's Trump era. The country clubbers have been replaced with truly dangerous right wing extremists, who've also driven away the Young Republicans and with it the once-legendary fratboy party scene around conservative events. I think I saw a headline about CPAC's dwindling youth attendance over the past few years.
Subtraction is no way to win elections, if you ask me.
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Aaron_Bauder got a reaction from + Nakedchi in Escorts: are CPAC and other conservative events good for business?
Never worked CPAC, but the Republican convention was traditionally a great event for providers, full of the typical sexually repressed, wealthy, country club hypocrites who demonize gays, blacks, and libertines publicly while privately trolling for black cock and gay sex.
That has changed in the GQP's Trump era. The country clubbers have been replaced with truly dangerous right wing extremists, who've also driven away the Young Republicans and with it the once-legendary fratboy party scene around conservative events. I think I saw a headline about CPAC's dwindling youth attendance over the past few years.
Subtraction is no way to win elections, if you ask me.
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Aaron_Bauder got a reaction from + Travis69 in Escorts: are CPAC and other conservative events good for business?
Never worked CPAC, but the Republican convention was traditionally a great event for providers, full of the typical sexually repressed, wealthy, country club hypocrites who demonize gays, blacks, and libertines publicly while privately trolling for black cock and gay sex.
That has changed in the GQP's Trump era. The country clubbers have been replaced with truly dangerous right wing extremists, who've also driven away the Young Republicans and with it the once-legendary fratboy party scene around conservative events. I think I saw a headline about CPAC's dwindling youth attendance over the past few years.
Subtraction is no way to win elections, if you ask me.
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Aaron_Bauder got a reaction from maninsoma in Disputing bogus review?
Rentmen has a monopoly. They know it. And their arrogant customer service reflects their dominant market share.
It is what it is.