BonVivant

If I see you for extended visits- weekends or longer- for years, then you're a regular.
It's not just about the time or money spent, for me it's do we know each other?

A regular client eats lots of fiber

I would say when you get priority scheduling. I can gauge that when I am able to do same day scheduling with a provider even with very short notice and never get canceled. Being a "regular" has a cash flow implication from the point of view of the provider (they will always bet on the customer who gives them sure earnings).

Times per month?
I hired someone regularly (usually once per month) for a period of years and I certainly considered myself "a regular."  I also considered myself a regular of a guy whom I only saw a few times per year when he was in my area.

Well, that might be true if you are comparing states in the US or Europe, but I do believe that West Africans are considerably bigger than East Africans, that Cubans are more hung than the Japanese, Brazilians more equipped than Chileans, etc. Pretty much the same way that blond hair is more common in Scandinavia than in Spain. 
But thanks for taking the time to reply! 

I wasn't aware that XXXL was either imperial standard or metric 😉

I did a search in RentMen for "XXXL".
There are 33 men with XXXL in their profile name.
7 are in Paris, France
4 are in London, United Kingdom
4 are in New York, New York
2 are in Hong Kong
Therefore, it looks like Paris is the best city for XXXL tops.

/that is the hour at which most establishments have closed and many guys head home for the night horny as hell and many unfortunately without a sex partner so it is natural that business increases.

So many of them just don't know when to stop.

We see two providers who no longer advertise. In one case, he's busy with filming and collabs but still seeing his existing clients when he can. The other is focused on his day job, but also will still see us when we want. He also lets us know when he leaves or comes back to town due to his day job.  

I don't think it's a problem to contact an escort/masseur who takes his ads down.
Worse case scenario, he just tells you that he's no longer providing services.
Best case, he has an active client base, which includes you, and of course he'd love to set up a new appointment.

Pretty much 1-2 times/month.  I have a regular massage guy, and a regular escort guy and generally see each once per month.  Occasionally some hot new meat shows up in Boston, or I Travel for work....which might create additional opportunities.

Philly guys are hot!!!  On any nice spring/ summer weekend , Rittenhouse square is teeming with hot frat boys in shorts and muscle shirts…. And then you have cute sensitive artsy Curtis music students. I miss living in Philly! 
 
 

I did a 3hr with one of my Philly guys recently and my body was shot from that!  He can be intense!

My body can only handle so much. So sore sometimes after an overnight. It takes me a day to recover…. and to do laundry, 

Man, I'd be like a kid in the candy store if I could do 3x a week! 😀

Three times a week - all regulars. Sometimes may do a newbie or visitor to NYC. Lots of great options;) 

I'm at 2-3 times a month now.  I keep telling myself I need to cut back, but I now have 3 go to guys in Philly and it's kind of addicting.
Guess I just have to work more to support it.  I'm in my mid fifties, who knows how long I have to enjoy this type of fun before father time catches me!

You can see on his IG that he's seasoned in the East Coast "network" of IG boys for discreet hire and notable, busy, gentlemen who connoisseur them. That's why he was expecting/asking $1k+... for anyone familiar that grade/class/style/type of guy seeks most of his work through social media DM, probably started their career being brought in by friends as "party favors"  with "VIP" gentlemen either at private parties or the obvious circuit parties run by "promoters," where the standard is the boys leave with envelopes or Venmos of a few grand and connections with new hot guys to hookup with, earn with, and the daddies and gents who scheduled dates, followed on social media, etc.
This is where things can get touchy.. the guys who are DL bi, "gay for pay", ambiguous, etc. often can continue to command multigrand prices if they are good at the game. The gay ones, being naturally more fluid and comfortable with the environment to party and play (and not infrequently, maybe, addendum erotic interest in cleancut successful gentlemen in a range of age and range of nerdiness to glamorousness), often end up maneuvering a range from multi hundreds ($500+, enough to be ~above~ an average escort via RM or porn, but selectively as coveted) to a few thousand when and where they can maintain the interest. Things like follower count/popularity/known exclusivity/ who you've shot with or modeled for/ if you're actually signed with an agency/ and where you're based etc. are all factors in effect for what you may negotiate or pay with these kinds of guys. This provider is Ivy educated it seems? Absolutely contributes to his expectations. There are very discreet "agents" or networkers who seek this out as well to groom the type of guy for professional or exclusive dates with all manner of successful and discreet guy some of whom may be on this forum but I deduce most are not. 
Like someone mentioned, they met this provider for less than $1000, didn't surprise me, but I'd bet it wasn't the $300 escort "standard". Similarly know a kept boy of a certain gay Hollywood bigshot still meeting interested parties for $500 dates despite presenting as the $1k+ type standard. The Brazilian babe surcharge NY-FL mentioned here on other threads is often because of this too. They're balancing interest via social media and, discreet or not, ads on RM.
This provider didn't get on RM delusionally expecting $1k, he was already groomed that way. I'm guessing the recent change in profile is because he's tired of the seedier enquiries via RM from guys maxing out at $400. Likely, one could reach him via IG DM for business but expect that $1k price tag in place or at least his starting point. It's not arrogance per se, mind you -it becomes something of a competition and discreet status game to be commanding the highest and most exotic offers, to be sought after for these parties... and subseqently presenting the most fabulous life online. None wants to be the one caught lowering their business to "whore" levels, and that often becomes an inside joke only for and among themselves.
Major extra caveat here is how this all works out when factoring international marketplace prices etc. but that's for a different tangent. 

guy asks for $1k
then says I’m good no more 
and some here want him more 
what a marketing case study 

I do not think spelling ability would be a requirement in a "hire" with him. . .

"Unavailable
Not taking any farther requests"
 
I guess he either got a job or found Mr. Sweet. I'm going to assume that he misspelled 'further' rather than 'father'.

He does look better in AI. lol. 

He does look better in AI. lol. 

John. Let’s not kid ourselves. We are paying strange men to have sex with us.