BonVivant

https://rent.men/AlexBlonde
anyone have any personal experience with this nice looking young man on RM since 2024 no reviews

It's always upsetting to be rejected like that by an escort or someone on the apps. I almost always (unless I forgot to) let the escort know I was fat when arranging the time together. I remember one reasonably popular escort from years ago -can't remember his name-said he had been fat as a child. And he couldn't deal with fat clients. My ego didn't feel great. But I was glad he was honest about it. It was far better to be rejected beforehand than with them there in front of me.
 
Luckily I'm not hiring now as I'm even fatter these days. It might (probably) would have happened anyway, but being on daily prednisone for 8-1/2 year has definitely not helped. 
 
Funny occurrence-years ago I hired a somewhat famous Belgian porn star for a weekend. I have his real name in my old Expedia Account. But I can't think of his porn-de-plume. I won't post his real name.  I think he worked for Falcon. Long time porn watchers may remember him. I believe he was from the Flanders area.
 
Anyway I was used to delaying meals in order to keep appointments because of the job I had at the time.
 
But when I was arranging the weekend, I had told him I was fat. To get the most out of our non-bedroom time I had scheduled a busy weekend including innertubing down the Guadalupe River in New Braunfels, Tx (by the way I took multiple escorts there over the years.  I think he was the only one not to enjoy it. He told me Europeans weren't into nature-or some crap like that. I said what about those sex scenes in places like the Grand Canyon. He told me that was different.), and probably an evening at Esther's Follies in Austin (the cities are about 48 miles apart).  I didn't starve the guy, but we did have places to be.  And there may have been long intervals between eating.  I could tell he wasn't happy. And at one point, he said to me when you told me you were fat I thought we'd be eating more regularly.  😂😂😂

Had a very sad encounter with this escort https://rentmen.eu/DanielTwinkk.  I do understand there is discrimination in all parts, but I do know it is very prevalent in the gay world (race, body type, age). However, I am always surprised when it happens to me.  LOL. I had messaged him and we had a very nice text convo about what I wanted etc.  He was fine and he said let me go clean up.  Then when I ask about how much more time he needed he asks to see photos.  I am always wary , but I did.  He wanted nudes, face, dick.  Then after 5-10 mins, he goes I think I have a client.  Umm wasn't I your client?  I can say that I am not out of shape and quite workout toned, but it is always a bummer when this happens.  It def makes you think...  Oh well. 

Nice guy, easy to communicate with. States he is Top/verse in profile but in real life more Top.  Make sure you agree on terms ahead of time. I did, but even then I left disappointed. Cannot recommend. 

I seen this hot twink 
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RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Chicago, IL - TheKYLECRUISE: EAGER BEAVER.....CHICAGO FEVER! he was amazing, extremely passionate in bed and super nice guy. He like a eager beaver, such a cute face. The best twink I had in a long time. He also very good in conversation and has a great sense of humor. He very respectful to. I definitely recommend him, 10/10

Anyone see this new guy?
https://rent.men/TEEN_DANIIII

I had a disappointing experience. Pictures are accurate but no chemistry for me. Can’t recommend. 

"I am going to fuck Jesus" or "Jesus will fuck me"...is rather blasphemous 😂

OMG he it hotter than hell....he sent me about four pics that are not on his profile to prove he is real and two videos..this guy is the sexiest find in a long time...he is real...still not sure of his rate but guys do consider him
 

so I have had several exchanges at this point with the young man. It is interesting that he says he is still green with some aspects of rentmen and I appreciate his honesty. He informed me that he has kind of concluded that it is very much the same as dancing. That is when I knew he was real because of the comments you guys have made here about dancing. You all did well to recognize him and remember him. I probably won't see him because it is taking way to long to get a commitment from him and I am not sure why. He won't send a face pic but said he will do facetime but trying to pin down a time to do that is almost impossible and he will not tell you when he is available to do that. If you can trust he is the same guy in the ad, which I think you can, then go for it. I just can't spend any more time on this. 

I saw the straight but assume he is gay for pay. I hate that expression but then again I am gay for depositing.

https://rent.men/GorgeousGeorge
 
Lord honey I need this. Anyone know anything because his number is a Los Angeles number but he is currently in Miami (supposedly).

Hahahaha 

Next!

I tried Sniffies last year and was banned immediately when a cutie asked if I was generous.

Joined the Sniffies website a few weeks ago and gotta say, I have hit the hiring jackpot with some hotties.  Created a legit and verified account . They are not APP based but web based . 
Just a FYI for those seeking an alternative to RM or SA. 
 

I think having it on a website makes it less personal,  so less likely to offend. I think part of the problem with raising prices for a regular is two-fold.  First, a regular is often someone you give a discount to, not jack up the price for. Second, the illusion that this is something your provider is also enjoying is blown. Sure, you are paying, but you want to be in the mindset that even though you are paying, the provider is into it. Very tough to maintain that illusion when he tells you that in order to continue being intimate with you, you'll need to start paying more. Tough not to take that personally.  For massage, it might be ok, but for other intimacy, I think I might be inclined to move on to another provider.

I recently experienced a 50% price increase from two of my service providers: a young Russian escort and my tailor. I wasn't happy about it, especially regarding the tailor. 😅

That decision is totally yours but from a client point of view, at least for the first visit I would keep the same price and at that visit I would inform the client that the rates are going up for the next visit.  I think you will lose a few clients but better for them not to call after that first visit rather then put them in an awkward position on the phone.  If the provider told me his rates went up on the phone or by text, I would be more inclined to not hire, not because of the money but because of the lack of respect for previous visits.  After the first one, face to face, and then let the client decide if he likes you enough to pay the extra freight charge.  

When I used to visit Puerto Vallarta regularly, I generally hired guys I just met on the beach or at a bar.  There's a way to engage in this negotiation subtly, I think, so as not to raise the ire of some guy who's offended by being offered services for money who then might complain to cruise employees and cause trouble for you. Surely some horny cruise goers will gawk at you and you can engage in conversations that reveal your availability under the right circumstances.   

Atlantis will throw you out really fast if they find out you’re actively soliciting onboard btw. I’d put on your ad that you’ll be available in the locations the cruise will stop at on the dates it does and without saying “Atlantis” directly you can say “On a cruise ship from X date to Y date”. 

I have successfully hired from Grindr - once. Yes, I’ve encountered many a fraud so caution is the road to follow. Others here have said it - don’t send a deposit, ask them to cooperate with a quick video call, and meet in public first. (Have your scene at a hotel if at all possible.) I’ll agree that the legit guys hiring via Grindr tend to be more amateur than pro, but I got great value for my money. If you are going to hire from Grindr do your due diligence and proceed with caution. 

I have - it’s risky for sure but I’ve generally had decent experiences (barring a couple of exceptions) but lessons learnt are 1. No deposits ever and if they ask for money up front before providing services say you’ll pay 50% first and the rest upon completion. 2. Ask for verification (grindr has time stamped pics that can’t be messed with) and 3. Arrange to somewhere outside in a public place before (outside their place or yours) so you can do a once over and vet. I’ve found grindr providers to be more amateur but generally more value for money. 

Poppers are used quite often!  I wouldn’t get concerned about it!  
I have been on dates when the meth pipe comes out!  Shocked me the first time and I was concerned for my safety I was wanting to leave!   He assured me it would be ok and uses it to get him off!  I stayed did not partake and had a hot time!  
it’s happened several times since then and it definitely enhances their performance! 😈

Agreed, poppers aren’t considered PNP, they’re pretty much in a category by themselves and more commonly used than you might think. Just ask the guy if he’s ok with you using them. 
From time to time guys will ask me to pick some up for them as they don’t want to buy them themselves. I’ll just buy a small bottle and give it to the guy still sealed and unopened.