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I am not into doing it. I have been mostly indifferent to having it done to me, but I did have one buddy in the past who made it feel wonderful. There is something appealing about having someone do it to you, knowing they want to actually be in a space that is so private and where I feel the least desirable. But, I don't have a ton of sensation back there, so the act itself is often wasted on me. That said, I have taken to loving good rimming videos, as long as I don't see the hole itself. There is something beautiful about seeing a sexy face buried nose-deep inside a beautiful butt or seeing a sexy butt lowering onto a handsome face. I blame Lawson James, whose fuzzy peach is beyond perfection. I can't see myself ever rimming anyone, but it has become sexy to watch. For illustration: https://twitter.com/bruno40a/status/1946541215043711380

California is prohibitvely expensive. I live in SoCal, and I just paid $4.09/ gal at Costco. Gas at the neighboring gas station was $4.59. Rent is high. Groceries are high; when I travel home to the Midwest, I don't even look at prices because whatever it is, they are cheaper than what I am used to. The medical system is difficult to navigate, and the dentists here are like the car dealers. They sell you the upgrade without telling you they are upgrading you. I learned that the hard way because a friend of mine used to be a dentist. When I tell him what each new dentist I try is suggesting, he tells me what part of the treatment is inflated. I keep changing dentists, trying to find someone I can trust. No success yet. Crime is high and homeless people are all over, including elderly in wheelchairs. Beware, you could be next. Car insurance is high. It almost doubled when I moved here. I moved here 8 years ago and would have moved away, except my partner lives here. If it wasn't for him, I could never survive. When I was preparing to move here, I thought, "Well, the cost of living is high, but the income will be higher. " Unfortunately, the jobs I see here pay the same range as they did back home in the Midwest. California has beautiful weather and nice people, but there is a reason we are losing population to other states. Based on your concerns, I am not sure it will meet your needs.

It wouldn't hurt to run this through chatgpt to get advice. I can't imagine how your new phone got hacked. Also, I would definitely go to where you purchased it and tell them what happened. It is possible when you came AmEx, you Googled and got a number which was really a scam number? Did you call the number on the back of your card?

My current thoughts: 1) Dallas Steele 2) Lance Charger 3) Ace Banner and Tyler Saint (they only work together, so it counts!) 4) Adam Snow 5) Cole Connor 6) Lawson James

I think it is a hard sell--a gay romance in prison with an obtuse title.

I have never been to one in NYC (well, I have been to NY Jacks once and a foot fetish party) but have been to a few similar events in L.A. There's absolutely nothing to be anxious about. Feel free to DM if you want to chat. It's like going to a Tupperware party. Even if you don't buy anything, there's fun things to see. These NYC guys frequent sex parties. I am not sure if this episode will help, but it is worth checking out:

It is hard to keep up when you are working 80 hours a week and struggling to pay for groceries. At least, that would have been my experience as a teacher in the US once upon a time.

Rumor has it that it takes a few episodes then finds itself.

There are various levels of dancing. I think Lopez moves well for someone who is not a dancer. After having watched enough Broadway and classic movies, it is clear to my untrained eye that she could never compare to Chita Rivera, Gwen Verdon, Amy Spanger, or any newbie chorus dancer on Broadway. But, she does well enough for being a star in the movie version.

Carmen Cusak is incredible. I am glad to see her getting more attention.

I saw the movie tonight. I was not familiar with the Broadway show. I really enjoyed the movie. It definitely stuck with me. In reading the synopsis of the stage musical online, I can see there are some changes, and I suspect the stage musical is superior. But I am glad I saw the movie.

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I second La La Land. The characters' actions didn't feel real. Not engaging. I know some people who liked Moana 2. I found it insufferable. All I remember of Juno was that the Oscar-winning dialogue felt forced and ridiculous. I don't even think we made it through the whole thing. I don't like Toy Story. The notion that all Woody's friends turn on him and don't trust him is not heart-warming.

I don't follow baseball, but I still remember Gabe Kapler in Gym magazine.

One of the best, right behind Lucille Ball and beside Carol Burnett.

Looks better than I ever did, then and now.

I keep meaning to rewatch "Quiz Show, " which is a fantastic movie. Of all the movies listed in his obit, I have only seen a few. But "Quiz Show" is a favorite.

I really want to see this movie. I wouldn't if it was in Spanish. I don't think I am alone in that.

I bought the cast album years ago but could never get into it (which happens sometimes) I hope the movie helps me with that.

I was intending for it to sound like satirical commentary, but the context might have failed me. The background may/may not be helpful. When Josh Groban left The Great Comet, he was replaced by an African-American actor who was not a name. The show struggled to find an audience without a name. When they announced replacing him with Mandy Patinkin, Cynthia Erivo and others rose up in outrage on social media, Patinkin backed out, and the producers closed the show. Everyone was out of a job, the show never toured, and the show has been totally forgotten. Good work, Cynthia!

Reminded me of the debacle of casting Mandy Patinkin as a Russian in The Great Comet. Couldn't let that happen. A light-skinned Russian? Is that even a thing? Let's close the show and put everyone out of a job instead. I haven't seen MHE. I assume the race of the robots doesn't matter (am I wrong?), or do they only have Asian or mixed robots? It seems the time to be upset would be casting a white actor in Flower Drum Song or Allegience, not a show about robots. I want there to be really exciting, diverse casting, and I wonder if these incidents will deter that.

I am sure he was probably trying to be funny. I brought my nieces (the younger was 9) to Lightyear and no one cared about how two moms have kids. I didn't think it was a good movie; the creators seemed more concerned with representation than character development, but the kids really liked it. If I had been asked, I would have said, "Adoption," though I don't remember if she is ever shown as pregnant. I don't listen to his music, so I don't really care, as long as he is kind to gays who work with and for him. However, he should know better than to say that sort of stuff in public.

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I am too inexperienced to have much opinion. I definitely see the caution of things getting very uncomfortable. However, I also see it as helping the guy out. He is clearly entrepreneurial, hustling (not in the CoM way) to get started in a business. It takes money to start a business, and he can make more on RM than detailing cars. If he is a nice guy (i.e. is going to be professional and level-headed) from a solid family (i.e. raised him with good values), it could be fine. You could always leave the RM landing page up on a laptop or on your phone in a way so he can see, and follow his response. That opens the door to discussion without your initiation.

Nice work if you can get it. I hope it goes well for him.