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Thank God my dad never had the talk with me. It would have been way, way too awkward. Instead, my parents were happy when they were going to talk about sex at youth group at church. All we heard about, though, was to wait until marriage. I guess I already knew most of the rest. And the sermon must have helped. I was a virgin until I was 32, though I am still not married.

Maybe I was there and couldn't see. Sounds like you had a great time, though, with a nice team of guys.

That's awesome. Where was it? Were you out in the open?

I missed it! Who was involved???

I had to leave around 10:30. Did I miss any shenanigans?

It's hard to say. Bring more than you think since there is usually no cash machine on site. I usually budget what I want to spend and bring a bit more. I am thinking of going tonight. Is anyone else going?

I have had a very unexciting sexual life. I have had sex at two businesses. One was with the owner of a frame store. I popped in, looked around while he helped his last customer. She left, he locked the door, and we headed to his back work room. He has my cum stain on his work chair. Another time, about a month ago, I got hit on by this guy online. We chat, I go to his address. It is a liquor store. I just found out I once declined a hookup with a hot guy who now does OnlyFans. He was so out of my league, but he wanted to fuck bare. I do not do that. He recently started an OnlyFans.

I think you have to trust your instincts. Also, things could get very bad very quickly in this scenario, and you could be caught in the middle. If you decide, however, to pursue. There is no harm in waiting a couple weeks to make sure they don't have second thoughts. This is, after all, something that could affect them in the long run.

How about sex with an audience? Or sex while others watch over zoom? Or hire two escorts who work out the evening's activities ahead of time, so you are clueless and not in control? Or, play a strategy game with stripping rules, and the winner calls the sexual shots afterwards?

I am so interested in going but worried above Covid rising. Sigh.

He couldn't have found a nicer guy to start with.

I have been to one, just to watch. Think fuck benches with people lined up, guys taking advantage of both holes. A bed with a few couples playing on it. Lots of hot naked guys finding lots of other naked guys to pleasure each other all over the place.

I once went to The Zone is Los Angeles, and they had what you described. It closed, a casualty of the pandemic.

I also think it has a lot to do with the pressure to look good and be compared to the muscular guys we now see everywhere. I was in high school in the early 90s and was probably part of the generation that moved away from gang showers or showering in public. I do think, however, we need to keep in mind what I notice on the LPSG board, which is that for every post bemoaning ridiculous modesty in locker rooms, there's a post about hot guys and dick-watching in the locker room. And how many hidden camera videos have you seen online? I understand why people's comfort level bring naked in the locker room has dropped over the decades. As I've gotten older, I have grown more comfortable with it. I have a horrible body, but I just change quickly and hope no one notices. I usually put on my shirt, then drop my towel and put on my underwear. I don't go to the gym but sometimes find myself at water parks or pools. I remember the day I stopped worrying about it. I was at a water park, and they had a fairly unpleasant changing area. There was a long line waiting to get to the private changing rooms (which were the gross cement kind). I didn't want to wait and utilized the open space also reserved for changing. My friend was so uncomfortable, he didn't change at all and wore wet shorts in the car. Now, the few times I've been to sex parties (out of loneliness when I moved to a new city, never to actually participate), I would walk around with just a short-sleeve buttoned-down shirt that was unbuttoned. It was as a courtesy to people who didn't want to see my body but not so covered I felt out of place or disrespectful to the many naked guys.

Coolwave, you lead a very exciting life. I am in LA (though not for the holidays). If you ever want a cameraman for your adventures, let me know. 😉

I hope he is as nice of a guy as he seems on Instagram.

I am also curious what "relaxed vibe" means. Are the dances less supervised like the nude parties?

I just read on a site that many of the videos got pulled because, with the change in ownership, the company lacked the proof of age documents required to stream the videos.

I have wanted to try this too, though I don't have the equipment. I live in Los Angeles, where we have content creators galore. I figure it's better for them to have an inexperienced person with a camera than a camera set up on a table 10 feet away so no one can actually see anything.

I am wondering if anyone has any Intel on this Brandon in West Hollywood. I see discussions from the past on several Brandons, but I don't think it is this one. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/37171/

I wish more of these guys would mention if they are vaccinated in their ads.

In OC: http://thelaocjacks.org/about/ https://www.ocweekly.com/the-martha-stewart-of-sex-parties-6402374/ It's not really a jacks group, but jacks is in their name.

I one time worked a day on a film set and immediately recognized someone who was a very hot model who appeared in those gay-leaning workout magazines in the early 2000s. He had aged very well and had a very nice face. I did not stare or talk to him, though.

It brought my boyfriend and I closer. We only had each other. We were the only people in our bubbles, for the most part.

My friend and I have both had difficulties today.