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A real blast from the past.
Pro: As the other posters said, he's very nice and sweet. Also pretty much up for anything. Gay4Real.
Con: Ricky was 35 years old when I last saw him 10 years ago. Do the math. And he's also using the same photos he used 10 years ago.
BTC
 

Looks high maintenance!

Very cute. I like a furry youngster! 

Very cute. I like a furry youngster! 

His silicon or fat transfer has also gone to his ego it seems for those prices he's quoting! 

LOL!  He quoted me $450 last night.  Let's see if we can get him down to $300!!!!

Ha. Yes, a weee bit. I won't hold that against him tho

@SFChinois
Since there were two of them - what rate did you have to pay? 

I've hired him a couple of times. Has got a boy next door look and feel. Toned and in shape without being overly muscular. Very soft smooth skin. More on the soft spoken type but very passionate in bed. Encounters were very organic. 

Wow. I will be in Greensboro in two weeks and am going to reach out and get some 411 on him.

first, take a look at these.....
 
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/142802-etiquette-for-initial-communication/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/130365-caveats-in-hiring-please-contribute/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/83821-advice-for-a-newbie-please/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/103088-newbie-question/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/13389-recommendations-for-newbie/

I spent time with Ryan. Not intimate time of course, but we attended a few events and were seated together. Keep your thousand. 

Daniel Montoya, or Martin Rogers

This is where the money is, it's easier than ever to get here, they're a very sensual, less inhibited Latin demographic, and the demand is high for their type of look: 
Muscled, smooth(ish), sexy and hung. 
I hope they come in droves and drive down overpriced mediocrity.  I'm not sure they're skilled masseurs, but they know how to enjoy sex.  😊

First of all…breathe and relax. The guy is probably trying to get you so freaked out that you will send him money. And once you do that, he will ask for more money and keep asking. 
 
Your to-do list:
1. Dont respond to him. If you had a fixed appointment (day/time/location) and you did not show up, in my book you owe him a cancellation fee, otherwise you owe him nothing.
2. If he keeps bugging you, simply respond: “You are harassing me and I am keeping evidence of your threats - if you dont stop immediately my attorney will contact the police and file a complaint”.
3. Never use your actual phone number when setting up appointments with guys.  Get the “Burner” app which gives you a disposable number you can use. You can even link Whatsapp to that number if you wish.   I dont know how he could hack you with your phone number. You can reach out to Rentmen to have your account reopened and the password reset. 
 
4. Remember, scammers rely on fear to get to you. Brush it off, dont engage and move on. 
 

I blacked out midway through the op. 
Does anyone have a Cliff's Notes version available?
But seriously... This is the emailed information you send to the escort. Keep being specific and see what/who you end up with.
Trial & error means you're going to have to learn to take the good with the bad. 
And stop focusing on trying to prove your sexual partner is on PrEP. You're a big boy: It's on YOU to take care of you.
 
Best of luck 👍
 

First, welcome to the forum. I can only provide (and maybe) some insights based on my own experiences, but by now you might know that different people experience different things.
I didn't struggle with feelings afterwards when I decided to finally hire because I did not hire until I was sure that I was not going to have feelings of regret, shame, embarassment or anything negative that can impact my wellbeing. (Probably like you are doing now) I decided that it was more workable for me if I worked on those feelings and their source first. I rarely take actions that I am not 100% sure I can take without consequences. What I found in my case were the typical twisted notions of sex within a client/provider setting coming from my Christian upbrining, which were quite hypocritical and inappropriate. Something else that I found was that I was already paying and had paid for sex many, many times before in other ways:
Going to bath houses Going to peepshows Going to adult movie places Paying for drinks at a bar to a guy I'm interested in Going to sex parties None, not a one of those things are free, and the purpose of all of them is sex. So yes, I have been paying for sex for quite some time.
Then there's the convenience factor. Some of the service that I have looked for in providers have to do with my overal mental and physical wellbeing; it's noit just sexual pleasure alone. Others look for a deeper connection in the form of a "boyfriend experience".
Like you, I am married and I have no interest in having any committed relationship with another person. My husband does not/cannot provide everything there is for me to have in terms of physical or sexual contact (no need to get into details on that).
I also found that something that helped was the use of sensual and erotic massages since it is meant to be a relaxing, "put you at ease" experience with sensual/sexual elements.
I'm not a provider, so I will not comment on the question that you have to them. I defer to expertise on that.
I hope this helps. Again, welcome to the forum.

I'd take a test drive on this kid.. 

I'd take a test drive on this kid.. 

I'd take a test drive on this kid.. 

I would have banged him so hard he'd be seeing stars if he said that to me. 

I was visiting Kansas City and I noticed a provider visiting from Dallas. After having sex he told me "you can't be local because you are in shape".

People are Gaga because truly masculine white frat/jock guys on rentmen are practically unicorns. And that’s because some of us don’t count super WeHo/Circuit Boy/Porn Star guys as such. They may look similar, but it’s just not the same. At all. Like I’ve hired guys like that who don’t even know what clothing brands I’m describing when they ask how they should dress (What are Chubbies? What do Rainbows have to do with anything? Real questions.) let alone who say played in the last Super Bowl. When they are faking being a frat bro, it shows. 
 
and even most of the gay for pay straight guys I’ve been with either didn’t go to college, didn’t play sports in college, or weren’t in a frat. If that’s what you want that night, it’s difficult to get.

well, sure, of course......but, reading between the lines, my point was we didn't need a new thread about the same person

yes, very recent......
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/149688-croatiabigxx-nyc/