Shawn Monroe

Depends how much cum they want and where they want it. 

He said “lurk this sub” like we aren’t here in broad daylight. I live. 

Back in your hidey hole!  🙂 

He said “lurk this sub” like we aren’t here in broad daylight. I live. 

He said “lurk this sub” like we aren’t here in broad daylight. I live. 

He said “lurk this sub” like we aren’t here in broad daylight. I live. 

He said “lurk this sub” like we aren’t here in broad daylight. I live. 

He said “lurk this sub” like we aren’t here in broad daylight. I live. 

He said “lurk this sub” like we aren’t here in broad daylight. I live. 

He said “lurk this sub” like we aren’t here in broad daylight. I live. 

It's not always what you see on the board, but the information being exchanged in private.

Ah shit. I monologued again 

lol. this site is rife with catty condescending comments and commentary regarding providers...

Too many comments on this board from clients who have so little regard for providers and their problems. life is complicated. have had my share of issues with providers. including providers too drugged out to perform. even passed out. BUT have heard it a thousand times from guys i hire about how much they appreciate my stability given the litany of alcoholic,  drugged, closeted guys, stinking, rancid in their body hygiene clients who walk through the door. Providers have a really tough job. Just shocking what i have heard about how clients present themselves. But then expect easy going absolute perfection from the provider at any cost.
So, please give providers who have a problem a break. Especially a substance problem. Be kind. Rise above your sexual needs at the moment and reach out and be compassionate. Kind. Call 911 is the situation warrants it. No excuse for not being a decent human being. Period. Please.

He said “lurk this sub” like we aren’t here in broad daylight. I live. 

This is the core of the problem. In most of the US, making an appointment with a new guy is risky for both parties. 
If I say what I want, I'm committing a crime. If he says what he'll do, he's committing a crime. If he says what it costs, he's committing a crime. Then there's the service itself...
If he does what I hired him to do, he's committing a crime.  If I pay for his work, we're both committing a crime.  And afterward, if I disclose the details, I could endanger his business and his freedom. 

A vaguely worded ad allows for flexibility.  The masseur gets to decide what THEY wish to do beyond a great massage.   

The fact that the provider is overseas in Asia puts a much different spin on this question.  If you were asking in general, assuming the provider was local to me or at least in the same country, I might be inclined to give a provider with a small number of reviews a try.  I've done it before with no issues.
Are you in the region where this provider is based, or travelling there?  Given that RM less used overseas, I wouldn't be surprised by the lack of reviews.  He may advertise in other local resources, but I think reviews are more of a "US/Euro" thing and relatively unique to RM and CoM.
If I were in the region or planning to travel there relatively soon, and his profile indicated he is accustomed to dealing with entertaining vistors, I might be inclined to contact him to see if a meeting could be arranged.  That would depend on the country since the local circumstances (safety, legality, etc) vary greatly.  
I wouldn't consider hiring someone to travel to me from overseas, due to the risks involved with immigration.

Yeah it really isn’t hard on both sides. To add to what everyone has said, COMMUNICATE WHAT YOURE LOOKING FOR AND DONT LIE. (Coming off that thread last week).  
 

Yeah it really isn’t hard on both sides. To add to what everyone has said, COMMUNICATE WHAT YOURE LOOKING FOR AND DONT LIE. (Coming off that thread last week).  
 

Yeah it really isn’t hard on both sides. To add to what everyone has said, COMMUNICATE WHAT YOURE LOOKING FOR AND DONT LIE. (Coming off that thread last week).  
 

Yeah it really isn’t hard on both sides. To add to what everyone has said, COMMUNICATE WHAT YOURE LOOKING FOR AND DONT LIE. (Coming off that thread last week).  
 

I would suggest you find someone you like.
Book a massage with them.
Leave a nice tip and then ...
ASK.

Yeah it really isn’t hard on both sides. To add to what everyone has said, COMMUNICATE WHAT YOURE LOOKING FOR AND DONT LIE. (Coming off that thread last week).  
 

^Thank you for this.
Given this was for massage so a bit more straightforward than escort inquiries, but still was pleasantly surprised to have this brief, direct text exchange:
[address and details, photos]