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That must make it impossible for you @NYMassageAddict. You have to find an erotic masseur with exceptional psychic abilities.

Interesting thread. My type has always been an athletic preppy guy or a fit muscleboy. CL was a great resource for such young men ‘testing the waters’. Back when I hired, there were many working guys who were my type. And CL provided the novices and those wanting discretion. Nowadays, there are very few who are my type. Like @Epigonos I've no interest in twinks or tattooed guys or men with facial hair.

You know it’s no longer a secret, right? And with respect @NYMassageAddict, an erection should spring out. An erection should never “flop out”. All that said, I wonder if this would enable your fantasy: wear your underwear (maybe tight briefs?); as the masseur starts, tell him you‘ve only ever been treated by women but you’ve always dreamed of being massaged by a man; add that you don't want your briefs/underwear to restrict him; tell him you want full service and he can take off your briefs etc whenever he wants Good Luck, and please report back when you succeed.

Why not buy a house in Beverly Hills now @Unicorn? It can be a project to occupy you now you’re single. And a nice, large house in Beverly Hills is likely to retain, or even increase, its value in the interim.

I accept what you say @Unicorn. This is idle curiosity on my part, but it’s not been clear from what you’ve posted: how long did the young man live with you before you proposed marriage to him?

I agree with you @WlliamM That’s quite a back-handed compliment! Young men do foolish things. And older men do foolish things too. Why are you still in contact with him @Unicorn? Don’t you have a close friend to confide in? I’m sure s/he would tell you to cut the young man out of your life at once. Why are you being so nice to him and storing his possessions? I hope you’re not harbouring some fantasy about getting back together with him

That’s interesting. When we saw it in London, the audience was very diverse; I was one of the few of a “certain age” (aka old men) and my guess is that no more than 20-25% of the theatregoers were gay. I wonder if this is due to the relatively high cost of theatre tickets in Manhattan.

That’s interesting. When we saw it in London, the audience was very diverse; I was one of the few of a “certain age” (aka old men) and my guess is that no more than 20-25% of the theatregoers were gay. I wonder if this is due to the relatively high cost of theatre tickets in Manhattan.

I’ve no wish to be unkind but there were numerous warnings posted by several men (including me) on the various occasions that you gushed about your new (now ex-)boyfriend. Certainly, there are younger men who are interested in a relationship with an older man. The drivers may be socio-economic and cultural. Over the years, I’ve met and had relationships with young Italians (2x), Spaniards (2x) Brazilians (3x) Argentine (1x) and Englishmen (3x) - and none were escorts. Some young men prize stability and maturity; they seek a mentor or just someone who will listen to them and take them and their problems seriously. Of course @Unicorn you may have to accept that the relationship won’t last for ever, and the young man may value you for the size of your wallet rather than the size of your cock. But you may have more luck if you accept that these relationships can be lots of fun as well as deeply satisfying if you go into them without thinking you’ve found the “one”. FWIW I’m now more than 5 years into an intense relationship with my much-younger boyfriend. I was certainly wary in the beginning: I worried about the age-gap for the first year we were together, and then I relaxed, as I’ve never really cared what others think. Also I was careful and gradual about financial matters, but after 2 years I offered him a platinum AmEx card that I would pay - he refused it. He enjoys making his own way in the world. Of course, I pay for our vacations etc but he enjoys taking me out to dinner (and paying) regularly. I am very lucky that - after a lot of looking - I found a thoroughly nice young man who likes me. I’ve no idea how long it will last. I simply try to enjoy the time we have together.

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Definitely only a bromance. Matt (the guy in gray shorts on the left) is gay-friendly but recently married a woman and they just had a Baby. What a terrible waste of a body!

You mean that fit, ripped muscleboys when they’re almost naked in the gym and locker-room don’t take selfies in NYC? I’m shocked @BaronArtz, truly shocked. How can Instagram survive?

I very much doubt that you would. Back then, you were so head-over-heels in lust/love that you might well have ignored any warning. And your handyman would have put himself in an impossible position if he had voiced his suspicion. Hindsight is a wonderful thing. We can only hope to live and learn from our experiences.

Very well put @MikeBiDude. I agree: hoteliers have seen it all.

I’m so glad you enjoyed it @edjames. Have the reviews been published yet?

I know this must be a very emotional time for you @Unicorn but I’d like to feel you were viewing the outcome positively and looking to the future. I also hope you’ve had that syphilis test you talked about. I don’t think he’s a sociopath. The truth is much simpler: he’s a young man in an expensive city in a foreign country, trying to better himself. He saw you and X as well-off older men who would and did take good care of him and helped pay his bills Yes, you must accept this. You had a great time together and the sex/lust turned your head. It was foolish of you to gush to your co-workers and show them photos of him. Stop thinking about him and move on. This sets off alarm bells for me. FWIW I have a friend in London, a successful banker, who was physically abused by his (5 years younger) friend. Remarkably the younger man went to the Police with some spurious allegations, but they soon uncovered the truth. The Police were extremely kind and helpful to my friend in urging him to move on. They also gave him a lot of practical advice, including to get rid of all the younger man’s possessions - set a time/date for him to collect everything and warn they will be put outside if he doesn’t show up; in no circumstances allow him back into the house; and get rid of anything (purchases on trips together, photos etc) that remind you of him. I urge you to have a similar clear-out @Unicorn. You can and will rebuild your life, and I hope you will meet a nice man.

Well, it’s a man’s duty to make sure he feeds his guy regularly. A millennial needs a good daily intake of healthy protein.

I agree @tennisjock. He’s a nice, fit-looking young man, and with his ears slightly protruding you’d have something to grip while he’s orally pleasuring you.

Thrifty. I have some dietary constraints and I prefer to eat smaller, more frequent meals, so I do the same when travelling.

You may have to wait a little while @Bucky as @Unicorn last related that he planned to speak to the ex next Monday and to take Tuesday as vacation hoping that the ex leaves that day.

As a former client, I’ve had two occasions where the young escort insisted on picking up the check for dinner. In each case I’d had several dates with the young man before this happened. I appreciated the gesture, and perhaps it was to signal that a continuing relationship would be welcome.

Of course, the manager will check first that the two guys are happy to work together, and you may have to spell out what you want. It occurs to me, however, that one or both of the guys may be reluctant to do certain things in the presence of the other, whereas if it’s one-on-one and seemingly ‘private’ each may do those acts readily.

I wonder which came first: that he has “blowjob lips” or that he’s given so many blowjobs ;-)

Maybe I’m misinterpreting what you wrote but I disagree @marylander1940. I think it’s assumed that any older single man, heterosexual or gay, will pay for dinner etc. on a first date. Maybe people will split the check on later occasions, but it’s still a date. When I was single, I had many first dates with guys in their 20s (actors/models), 30s (professional jobs) and 40s (business owners/professional jobs). I always paid the check but I noticed the occasions were rare when a guy offered to pay half. Not all of my first dates ended in the bedroom. FWIW I had 2 strange experiences while dating. 1. The first was a tall model, very easy on the eye, whom I took to dinner 3x. Our third date was convivial and he told me of a recent date he’d had (with a second-tier movie star who was “lousy in bed”). So after dinner I suggested he come home with me to finish the evening well - he declined, made an excuse and I never contacted him again. 2. The second was a very attractive trainee-doctor with whom I had a great first date. As I reached for the check, he grabbed it and offered to pay. I insisted that I pay as I’d invited him, but said he could pay next time. He called the next day to fix the second date; we had another good time together and he paid for dinner. And now it’s more than 5 years that we’ve been together.

What a great torso! I wonder why he felt he had to hide his face. Had some nice older man taken him on vacation to a coastal resort?