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I see on his profile that he “only sucks cock with condom”. That immediately rules him out for me, no matter how great his body is.

What mystery? He’s obviously a better writer of fiction than a masseur. 🥸

I thought frottage was was the prerogative of preppies and its cultural nexus was Princeton. Hence the expression “Princeton rub” for this activity. Surely you should screen for providers that are preppy (or prepared to dress and act as such) on the East Coast? As I recall, historically both men kept some clothes on. Frottage enabled them to maintain the fiction that they had not engaged in sex with another man. If that is part of what you want, you might offer a supplementary fee to cover the laundry and dry-cleaning bills due to the frottage reaching a successful climax. Good Luck with your hunting and please report back.

He has a very attractive physique. I’m not in Manhattan but if I were, and he’s in Manhattan too, I’d certainly want to try him out. As I see it, the worst that can happen is that a client wastes a little time and a short cab-ride in trying to meet him. And if he shows up looking like his profile, it could be spectacular.

OMG! How did you survive the outage? 😎

I assume because it feels pleasurable to the bottom to play with his cock. I’ve known only a few guys to be rock-hard while being penetrated, while quite a few others got hard while I was pumping them. In my experience, their own cock being flaccid or erect made no difference as to how well the bottom performed. It didn’t seem to affect their enjoyment in any way…and as I’m only a top, that was my major concern.

That is tragic. I’ve always thought that many visitors to Brazil don’t realize how much homophobia persists there. Of course, this type of set-up/ambush happens in other countries too. I’d add an extra caution to yours, and say that gay men on a date with a stranger should always meet first in a well-lit place where there are others around.

I enjoy a la carte pricing in restaurants, not on a date. When I hired, I was always explicit about my expectations and what I enjoyed. I simply asked ‘I want to make sure we’re compatible. Are you OK with all that?’ I was only ever ‘hustled’ once during a date. He was very attractive physically and after he’d bottomed for me, he was sucking me off. He stopped to say ‘I don’t usually swallow, but you’re a great top. Is an extra 50 OK?’ It spoilt the atmosphere a little, but to get back in the mood, I said ‘For that you have to swallow my load and lick my cock clean afterwards’. To be fair, he did and it was hot, and I didn’t regret paying the extra 50.

Given the examples you quote of men coming from Hamburg or London, I’d say the minimum booking would be a dinner-date and overnight stay. Realistically speaking, I agree with @Jamie21 - you should travel to them and enjoy a short break outside of Denmark. Then if problems arise, you can easily find alternative companions. If you insist on bringing a guy you’ve not met before to Denmark, you will probably be asked to pay some money upfront as well as to make and pay for their travel arrangements.

Yes indeed. To answer the OP…In my direct experience, whenever a muscleboy used the term, it meant that he had a submissive streak and enjoyed taking a subservient role. I generally thought being a ‘good boy’ meant that a young man was eager to please an older man. As an aside, I always murmur those exact words in post-coital bliss when I would caress the head of the young man who had just swallowed my load.

Thank you for over-sharing @Nakedinpa Where is the emoji for Too Much Information?

That’s a remarkable recommendation @azdr0710 Did you happen to learn what his rates are, by any chance?

I appreciate that you gave a fairly succinct description. So forgive me for summarizing but surely the question is Do you want to see him again? Only you can answer this. It’s obvious you enjoyed the encounter, and the aspect of voyeurism was novel to you and gave an added frisson. Decide what you want first. The business aspect is secondary. Just be precise and specify that you want the boyfriend to watch (or participate) and mention that you’re now hirsute.

Personally, I see that as an endorsement. But then I’ve always enjoyed the company of handsome men, with fit bodies, who need financial support.

Why would he need us to do so? Surely he gets a significant bequest in your Will 😀

I know what you mean….but 40 years ago, Mykonos was VERY gay. And at that time, gay men and women were not so visible elsewhere. It’s still nice but it’s not what it was. My personal feeling is that something was lost when the heterosexuals began to arrive en masse. Key West too was changed in a similar fashion to Mykonos.

I understand your views and what you wrote @wanderlust307 I’d suggest, however, that some of the many reasons are not good for many holiday makers. So visit Mykonos if you like to party, enjoy crowds and want to spend lots of money on a hectic vacation. My reasons to avoid Mykonos include 1. there are more interesting/beautiful places to visit in Greece 2. Other countries have more unspoiled islands in the Mediterranean, eg Croatia, Italy and Spain 3. there are many interesting resorts with better food, even the South of France is cheaper than Mykonos

I always enjoyed 3somes. I’m a top only, but I can certainly relate to what the OP described. Sometimes with a couple of attractive professionals, I happened to prefer one man over the other. It might have been a mix of chemistry, better personality or a skillset in bed that meshed with mine. I’m sure we’ve all discovered that one man loves to suck cock but won’t rim, while another man kisses deeply with tongue and is an eager bottom. I had a similar difficulty as the OP a few years back. Two very handsome, fit-bodied young men worked together. I had a great time and I waited until one guy was in the shower and I was alone with the man I preferred. I simply said I’d love to spend time alone with you and asked how to arrange that - he just gave me his cellphone number. (He also aroused me: he told me he’d enjoyed being topped and wanted to see me again very soon; and he added ‘next time I’ll swallow your load’). I’d caution against that, unless you are an exhibitionist. Citing the duo above, my preferred guy worked very well solo on our dates. But each time, he stressed to me that I must be discreet and not tell the other guy what we did. It turned out that this handsome muscleboy was compliant and readily did things for me that their ad said they did not do.

I totally endorse what @Charlie wrote. Do it while you’re still healthy and feel fit and capable. If you wish to take ‘baby steps’, I’d suggest you first take a lengthy vacation say 3-6 months. You’ll get a good idea of the place you choose and can decide whether you want to visit for longer and travel within that country. FWIW (1) I lived in San Francisco for over 2 years, even tho I’d always preferred Sourhern California - I enjoyed my time in SF very much but my preference remains unchanged. (2) I lived in Buenos Aires for more than a year. I had some acquaintances there and I made a couple of friends, and I speak and read Spanish at what’s classed as ‘an advanced level’. Again I enjoyed that time and I had a lot of fun. But the problems of living there (bad pollution, high level of crime - I was not a victim, but I witnessed street crimes, general difficulties with banking and bureaucracy) led me to decide that was enough. (3) I lived in Amsterdam for more than a year. I made strenuous efforts to learn Dutch and that helped me immensely to make friends and access the quite distinct culture. I enjoyed it and it’s a useful base if you wish to visit Europe more widely I’d recommend the Baltic countries or Spain first as English is very widely spoken. It’s relatively easy to learn Spanish, and you could learn some basic phrases in the Baltic countries as it won’t be expected but it will be appreciated. And on a geopolitical front, I’d visit the Baltic countries before Putin decides to expand his territorial ambitions and embarks on another military adventure.

What a bad experience @Axiom2001 I’m glad that you were able to escape safely. This is why, when visiting strangers or an area I’m unfamiliar with, I take bottled water with me. It’s also the reason why I offer first-time visitors reassurance and an unopened bottle of water. My motto is Better Safe than Sorry!

I can’t say specifically about Peachyboy, but I’ve contacted other IG models via polite, generous, discreet DMs and had good success. Nick Topel was mentioned earlier by @jazboy as not being amenable. Nick has a great physique. I am surprised by his refusal as he often socialises with gay men. He has a couple of close friends (who also are gym-rats) and I know that his friends have made themselves available for $2-3000 (to include travel time and costs).

I can’t help with a name. A simple Google search reveals various such providers in San Diego.

I will not disclose any of the information shared privately but it’s now clear that @robberbaron4u and I were talking about the same man. I feel @robberbaron4u that you have a more generous nature than I possess. I would simply cut off all contact with this man. I think it’s potentially dangerous to have such an individual in your life, even if only as an acquaintance.

I feel that’s very unfair of you @DrownedBoy You might have paid for a trial session and seen whether they carried out a thorough cleaning of all your “nooks and crannies” Given today’s inflationary backdrop, the OP @JayJayStarr is rightly concerned about the cost of cleaning products. Employing naked cleaners would obviate the need to strip-search them for any products they might have purloined.

If I read this correctly, even with “relocating from the West Coast”, I very much doubt that this man (now in his 50s) with just over $1million, will be able to maintain a large, high-living existence for long. I have heard a similar tale once before. I wonder if this man you describe was latterly a real estate agent? I ask because there was some considerable gossip that he had (inadvertently or deliberately) hastened the demise of both his older partners. My concern here would be for you @robberbaron4u since this man may want to attach himself to you, just as a parasite always seeks a new host.