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QUOTE="Redwine56, post: 1936984, member: 17183"] Apparently he likes to have his 'goods' on display. An all around handsome package. Matt is an attractive personal trainer, from Texas originally. I can vouch for his being a Texan Longhorn.

Very nice @marylander1940 A pic that proves it’s worth investing in a super-king sized bed for that unexpected company.

Perhaps. I certainly found that, of those young men that contacted me, several had inflated views of their worth. And indeed some also had high expectations. But I also found a few nice young men who were realistic and eager to be with an older man. I think Seeking doesn’t work well for anyone looking for a quick date. If however, as an older man, you find younger men interesting and you are prepared to invest in a few dates first (ie if you value the BFE) there are some good-hearted young guys on Seeking. After all, if you are an old man like me, it only takes one nice young guy to make you happy.

I enjoyed it too. The surprise to me was that early on Epstein had been closely involved with a Ponzi scheme (according to testimony from the felon who led the scheme). Annoyingly two aspects were left vague: how did Epstein make his money; and what was his relationship with Les Wexner (apart from Epstein being referred to as “the boyfriend” and according to Wexner having stolen at least $46 million from him).

Excellent news @shadowcatzxxx I‘m glad you’ve found such congenial company. Enjoy him while you can. You never know, but life is short and meant to be enjoyed. I too met a handsome, athletic, well-educated young man. He’s much younger than me, but it works for both of us. We had a great first year together…and then the interest did not decline…6 years now.

So true. To me, it’s strange how a group that still suffers prejudice and slights will criticise other gay men. As if the str8 world will only welcome A-list gays…

You may be considered cynical @robberbaron4u but I think you are wise. An older man confided to me years ago that he hadn’t handed any of his money over to his children - “that way they have to keep visiting and look after me”.

Your friend was a soft touch. Before a young man moves in with me, I’m very clear on how things will be and how I expect us both to have a good time together. If a young man as a house-guest is rude, I call him on it and remind him of my zero-tolerance for rudeness; unless I get an immediate apology, he has to pack his bags. Over the years, I’ve found young men are a bit like dogs. They need to be house-trained and often they come to appreciate a disciplined approach. This is a generalisation but IME I have found young Brazilians to be unfailingly polite and good house-guests. Australians are fun and friendly but can be rather entitled as house-guests; young Americans are similar but often demanding guests. Young Polish guys tend to be aware of the need to hold up their end of the bargain.

Me too @Pensant and regular sex is important to keep the internal machinery in good working order.

IIRC I met 5-6 guys through Seeking (Arrangements) who were looking for regular support and dates. In addition, I met 2 (separate) guys who wanted to move in at once. As it happens, it worked well for me on both fronts. I was happy to be generous and had my needs met. I didn’t hesitate to set clear rules with the guys who came to stay, and I think that’s very important with young adults. I emphasised I was not their parent and it was an equal relationship where I would look after them as long as they took care of me in return.

Quite right @JulianLondon It’s always best to have VIP service!

Is it possible @rvwnsd that poppers gave him a deeper understanding of a bottom?

Maybe I’m naive but I thought only bottoms used poppers. I‘ve only had 1 boyfriend who used them, and it was pretty much every time I fucked him in a long session. He told me they made getting fucked more intense and more pleasurable. I think @tassojunior, the OP, was referring to his boyfriend/fuckbuddy. I believe he ranks his lovers, possibly by frequency of coitus, possibly by prowess in bed ;-)

Oh Honey, that’s such a sad question. It’s the gift wrapping that all handsome, fit-bodied young men have on when they come to visit. Etiquette requires both that you remove it for them using your hands or teeth and that you take the young man shopping afterwards to buy some sexier examples.

Me too. I had low expectations (as it’s based on a young adult novel) but I find it very credible and ingenious.

This is an excitingly rare photo @Oliver I don’t believe I have ever seen Paul Cassidy wearing so much clothing

That‘s shocking @Whitman I never expected to see a scene of such deprivation here; 3 men yet only 2 towels?!

I think that’s Logan Swiecki-Taylor. He’s usually photographed wearing much less clothing ;-)

I finished Season 2 last night. I loved it. It was very funny and entertaining. I also liked seeing the very cute David Corenswet in various moments. One thing I don’t understand, however, is the prudishness of Netflix. There’s a flashback to what happened the night of the 3some of Payton (Ben Platt), River (David Corenswet) and Astrid. Both men were shown wearing dark-coloured boxer briefs. It was very disappointing. I remember seeing much more naked male flesh in the Hollywood movie, My Own Private Idaho, and that was many years ago.

That‘s Benjamin Godfre. Tho generally str8, when he was young he was playful and happy to experiment.

OMG when this pic was taken, I thought he was sex-on-legs. Alas the intervening years (and much more ink) have not been kind.

Excellent news @DrownedBoy I‘m glad that part went well. I hope you have a lot of fun on your trip. Maybe you’ll have reason to file a trip report ;-)

I’ve been having sex with men for 40 years too. And I can assure you that I ALWAYS unload in a guy’s mouth while he is sucking me off. I‘m lazy and I don’t jerk off. It may be because I’ve no interest in masturbation. Especially as I’m happy to feed a hot guy as I love kicking back and letting him do all the work.

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I think that if you search the threads @DrownedBoy you'll find this topic has been discussed several times. 4 key points before I answer your question. 1. IME of many trips with various companions (paid and unpaid), communication beforehand is critical - you must spell out what you expect to do, what your plans are, what frequency of sex you expect etc. 2. You MUST have at least one overnight date with a guy before you go on a week‘s trip together. Otherwise, the risks are too great that you’ll be arguing and incompatible and spoil an expensive trip. And at least, you’ll know whether he snores. 3. I have a fondness for muscleboys so I always chose a hotel with a good gym or got day-passes to a great gym nearby. And be sure to allow the guy to have a couple of hours on his own each day. 4. It‘s easier to do this when you’ve already had an overnight date with the guy, but I’d spell out what I expected sexually. For me as a top, I’d say I enjoy having full sex for an hour or more late afternoon, then shower and change for dinner; I’d like to have a quick bout of sex before sleeping; and I like to get sucked off in the morning before breakfast. Now as to rate, I’d always ask the guy to say what he felt was fair. I never had someone say 7xOvernight Rate. Generally I paid 2-3xOvernight Rate. Sometimes I paid nothing more than spending money locally. This had little to do with me but rather that I enjoy trips to glamorous places and longhaul destinations so the guy was often very keen to go with me. Examples include: a superbly athletic guy who was keen on winter sports so he asked for nothing when I took him to the best Swiss resort one Winter; several muscleboys (including a BelAmi guy) who wanted Winter Sun and travelled to Cape Town with me for $700 a week; a muscleboy who was desperate to visit Australia with me for a month and asked for only $200 a week but suggested we have full sex only 3 nights a week (It worked quite well, and he used to surprise me with morning blowjobs to completion) Of course, the good guys who were very obliging and keen to please me in bed always received gifts and extra benefits (eg surprise early morning surf trip for the keen surfer, private off-piste guide for 2 whole days for the expert skier, surprise short safari etc)