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He looks very familiar, but I can’t place him. Is he one of the Russian muscleboys who used to visit the US and market their physiques?

I enjoy a good torso @Oliver Is your pic of Todd Sanfield?

I liked the Argentine side. You can walk in the National Park, or take a small passenger train, to the falls and walk out over the cataracts. Also I stayed overnight at the Sheraton Hotel which (then) had a good restaurant for dinner & breakfast and a nice pool outdoors for taking some sun. You'd need to ask someone who’s been on the Brazilian side to compare, tho that’s obviously academic currently. One thing I’m sure of is that unless you’re fluent in Spanish and very street-smart, do not go into Paraguay there.

I appreciate what you say @marylander1940 and I understand the frustration of @EZEtoGRU but Seeking does take work. And if you want someone fitting a precise type or of a certain physical desirability, it can work. Of course, other people will message you and try to get your attention - you’re an older man who’s financially secure and they are seeking support. So using the filters, as @MikeBiDude suggests, Is sensible. After all, the alternatives may take much more time and prove fruitless. It’s not as if you can just pick up your phone and order in an ‘uber masculine college jock’

Sometimes, commerce is mutually beneficial for the provider and the consumer

When I hired, dealbreakers were 1. No kissing 2. Refusal to be specific/confirm we’d be compatible 3. Demanding payment in advance/on arrival 4. Using inaccurate/stolen photos 5. Poor personal hygiene

That young man obviously deserves support.

Assuming this is for some post-Covid19 fun, I applaud your planning @orville. I contributed to one of your listed sources, the ‘Hiring Two Escorts at Once’ thread, and I feel my points then are still valid. So these are just some thoughts Tell him that in person at your next meeting and show him who you have in mind as a potential 3rd. That may allay any concerns he has about discretion and privacy. If he tells you he only enjoys playing 1-on-1, you’ll spare yourself a mediocre experience. I think that’s smart of you. Be very specific about what you want and what you enjoy in a 3some when speaking to the prospective guys. I’m not sure ‘chemistry’ is so vital when playing with 2 professionals; they should be able to play well together. Certainly it’s true if you plan a 3some with 2 ‘amateurs’. When I had a 3some, I always stipulated in advance that I was to be the centre of attention (kissing one guy while the other is rimming me, being sucked by them in turn, topping them both etc). Depending on what you enjoy, you might say you want to be a voyeur or interact in some specific way. Overall, I’d definitely allow 2 hours but allow for 3 hours as if you enjoy foreplay and you all interact well, the time will fly by.

I didn’t know strip clubs had doors @Coolwave35 ;-)

And in case you want to know more about money laundering and how reliable various scenes are, here’s a fact check

No @Trebor my legs are crossed and my lips are sealed; luckily his were not.

And the wonderful Laura Linney!

Tho as an adult I’ve always been out as a gay man, I reject labelling and I dislike this forced acronym.

QUOTE="Redwine56, post: 1936984, member: 17183"] Apparently he likes to have his 'goods' on display. An all around handsome package. Matt is an attractive personal trainer, from Texas originally. I can vouch for his being a Texan Longhorn.

Very nice @marylander1940 A pic that proves it’s worth investing in a super-king sized bed for that unexpected company.

Perhaps. I certainly found that, of those young men that contacted me, several had inflated views of their worth. And indeed some also had high expectations. But I also found a few nice young men who were realistic and eager to be with an older man. I think Seeking doesn’t work well for anyone looking for a quick date. If however, as an older man, you find younger men interesting and you are prepared to invest in a few dates first (ie if you value the BFE) there are some good-hearted young guys on Seeking. After all, if you are an old man like me, it only takes one nice young guy to make you happy.

I enjoyed it too. The surprise to me was that early on Epstein had been closely involved with a Ponzi scheme (according to testimony from the felon who led the scheme). Annoyingly two aspects were left vague: how did Epstein make his money; and what was his relationship with Les Wexner (apart from Epstein being referred to as “the boyfriend” and according to Wexner having stolen at least $46 million from him).

Excellent news @shadowcatzxxx I‘m glad you’ve found such congenial company. Enjoy him while you can. You never know, but life is short and meant to be enjoyed. I too met a handsome, athletic, well-educated young man. He’s much younger than me, but it works for both of us. We had a great first year together…and then the interest did not decline…6 years now.

So true. To me, it’s strange how a group that still suffers prejudice and slights will criticise other gay men. As if the str8 world will only welcome A-list gays…

You may be considered cynical @robberbaron4u but I think you are wise. An older man confided to me years ago that he hadn’t handed any of his money over to his children - “that way they have to keep visiting and look after me”.

Your friend was a soft touch. Before a young man moves in with me, I’m very clear on how things will be and how I expect us both to have a good time together. If a young man as a house-guest is rude, I call him on it and remind him of my zero-tolerance for rudeness; unless I get an immediate apology, he has to pack his bags. Over the years, I’ve found young men are a bit like dogs. They need to be house-trained and often they come to appreciate a disciplined approach. This is a generalisation but IME I have found young Brazilians to be unfailingly polite and good house-guests. Australians are fun and friendly but can be rather entitled as house-guests; young Americans are similar but often demanding guests. Young Polish guys tend to be aware of the need to hold up their end of the bargain.

Me too @Pensant and regular sex is important to keep the internal machinery in good working order.

IIRC I met 5-6 guys through Seeking (Arrangements) who were looking for regular support and dates. In addition, I met 2 (separate) guys who wanted to move in at once. As it happens, it worked well for me on both fronts. I was happy to be generous and had my needs met. I didn’t hesitate to set clear rules with the guys who came to stay, and I think that’s very important with young adults. I emphasised I was not their parent and it was an equal relationship where I would look after them as long as they took care of me in return.

Quite right @JulianLondon It’s always best to have VIP service!

Is it possible @rvwnsd that poppers gave him a deeper understanding of a bottom?