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Funpic @E.T.Bass I‘ve heard of Dylan Geick; he seems to be quite notorious for not being gay!

Totally agree @Aaron James I liked buying my guys sexy underwear. Some muscleboys could be a little shy, even tho they had beautiful bodies, and I‘d have them model first some tight white briefs, then a sports or backless brief, and finally a jockstrap. My variation was to stay clothed while the muscleboy modeled the underwear. It was really arousing for both of us.

In the past, I dated some young actors/models/personal trainers aka wannabes. I think the present environment must be disheartening for them. Like you @The_Impeccable_G I restrained myself from giving advice. My advice might have been useful to them but I was pretty sure that they did not want to hear any contrary opinion about their chosen career path. They certainly valued my dinner invitations and weekend outings. As an older man, I knew I always had to pay for them. But they were appreciative over time.

You may well be right @Lucky. I can assure you (from lockdown in London) that it’s been juicy news for the TV channels and the print media with the daily recital of scandalous incidents. The legal circus must have been very expensive. The judge’s ruling is expected in a few weeks.

I was just teasing ;-)

Oh @marylander1940 you are just plain wrong! I can judge him ‘7 ways to Sunday’: 1. how well does he kiss? 2. does he gaze into my eyes while sucking my cock? 3. does he love tonguing my balls? 4. does he use his tongue well in rimming me? 5. does he tighten his ass once I’m inside him? 6. how devotedly does he suck me off & swallow? 7. does he kiss me when I’m spent, and nestle on my hairy chest?

I don’t care about the 2 porn ’actors’ shown above but this young man really turns me on - I just want to strip off his pants and ravish him

Good for you @Coolwave35 It was years ago that I participated in an orgy with muscled guys. I was invited along because of my then-boyfriend, himself a very hot muscleboy. I had repeat invitations because I’m a top and as I don’t do drugs, I was the only guy who was erect and able to stay very hard, so I was asked to top various guys. So don’t concern yourself about being welcome. After all, it’s your house and pool. And if someone really doesn’t want you involved in their play, they can easily turn away and not kiss you or not suck your cock or not let you suck their cock. The guys you’re playing with are adults so they can easily speak up if necessary.

Stop worrying. In the circumstances you describe - where you don’t say how many dates you had or how long you dated him - it doesn’t matter. Go to dinner with an open mind and treat it like any other date. You’ve told us previously about how you’re single so I feel that it’s useful for you to have dinner with him. The downside is limited (if it does not go well) but the upside is great (you may reconnect and enjoy dating him again).

I think it depends largely on your interests and how you wish to live @caramelsub Age is not an important factor. I’m old but I enjoy going out most nights (restaurants, theatre, concerts) in normal times. I’m also coupled, so we live in a major world city, and I’ve a 2nd home in a less expensive city a short flight away for when we want different food, the beach and sea. If you’re young and single, and seeking a boyfriend or two, you have to live somewhere fun and interesting. But if you have rural pursuits or just enjoy a quiet life, and if nightlife is of no interest to you, you could live somewhere less costly and make regular trips to the “big city” for fun. My view is my own: I feel you could move to New Zealand, you won’t live any longer but it will feel like you do as the days drag by....

Don’t beat yourself up @D21howie We have all made mistakes in this hobby of ours - paying a deposit, paying upfront, paying in advance, not stating exactly what we want, not checking compatibility, not being specific on important matters, not checking whether photos are real and recent etc. The important thing here is that you have learned and openly asked for advice. Good luck with your future encounters.

I agree about his nipples @Whitman He also has a lovely face and torso. I‘d do him in an instant if I were single. The only problem is those jeans - they are crying out to be unbuttoned.

That’s the right attitude @nycboi

Just to update what I wrote in April about the Allianz global travel policy - a friend of mine (who’s 6 years older) just took out the same policy as I have and he found that the cost had doubled!

I have an anecdote on this. Years ago, I was pressed as a favour into going on a double-date in NYC by a friend who was interested in the other guy. My friend warned me that my ‘date‘ was difficult and very arrogant. Turned out he wasn’t; he just disliked my friend. My date was a dazzlingly handsome 25 year old and I understood why he was generally known as “the best looking man in Manhattan”. We had a torrid affair that lasted 3 months. One night in a swanky restaurant in Paris, he confided to me that prior to dating me he had hired an escort a couple of times. When I discussed why, he said “why not? I don’t want to waste time going out when I can order in and get exactly what I want” and he likened it to being hungry and ordering in pizza. That’s the only insight I can offer @muscmtl

Excellent summary @keroscenefire. I have often planned dinner-dates and trips with guys, especially as I like to travel. The only caveat I’d make @D21howie is that you should have at least 1 date with a guy before you go out for an evening together. Most guys can be fun for an hour but some guys lack the social skills to sustain it for several hours.

The pic raises questions @TruthBTold If Pietro has found a muscle-worshipper to flex his bicep for, he could at least have the decency to strip naked for his admirer

Well found @Skip. He’s a good looking guy. Of course, all the pics are of Yannis Paluan, the BelAmi sextoy. I guess the two critical questions are is it truly YP offering himself in NYC? And if it is YP, will he perform in bed for you as completely/enthusiastically as he has done on film with various other young muscleboys?

Definitely! A good cook is very desirable. I’ve had people compliment me on mine, and many friends tell me how much they look forward to tasting his output. On a side note, my cock is a very pretty shape and I’ve received compliments about it.

You might consider @Gar1eth that a straight boy who wants to meet older men with money is bound to frequent fashion shows/gay events. It shows he’s smart. It’s an easy and low cost way to meet his target market.

Thank you @Whitman The link was much appreciated.

And what’s the name of this handsome blond who, according to the link above, is nicely endowed ? I can’t find any info on him despite looking at the CF site.

And today Flyertalk reports that Southwest hopes to reintroduce the 737-MAX https://www.flyertalk.com/articles/southwest-airlines-hopes-to-fly-737-max-by-end-of-2020.html?utm_medium=Email&utm_campaign=

You made me look at his profile @JEC. You’re entirely right. He’s 23 and weighs only 58kg/130lbs! I’d be scared to top him in case I broke him.

Being older than you @DrownedBoy, I dreamed of David Charvet’s arms pulling me in towards him, with his hands on my butt-cheeks and his mouth pleasuring my cock:cool: