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From Google: PnP refers to Party and Play which means having sex while using drugs. And assuming you meant Trimix @Pittlookalike: Trimix is an injectable three-drug prescribed medication used to treat erectile dysfunction

I’d say that’s when a service provider earns his money. I’d expect the working guy to ask how he can best satisfy the client. Perhaps rarely it might be that the client doesn’t want, or is unable, to climax, Respectfully I disagree. I like seeing my companion unload, and I want him to be as excited and enjoy the sex as much as possible.

That’s a potent mental image @Keith30309 that I shall try my best to forget IMHO Working guys “desperately masturbating a soft dick“ are a contradiction in terms. Guess they must be those guys who advertise ‘you pay for my time only’

You bring back memories @Whitman. He’s vegan and Brazilian, a delicious guy.

Totally agree @D21howie. I always want to see/make my escort cum. I like the bond that develops from seeing a man climax and unload, and then relax in bed in post-coital bliss with me.

Being only a top, when I hired I didn’t really care about a bottom’s dick. I have always cared much more about a bottom having a handsome face, a ripped muscled body and the skills in bed to please me. I certainly enjoy the visual of a muscleboy getting hard while he’s kissing me, and I like him to be erect while he’s sucking me off. I’d only insist that a bottom be hard while I’m fucking him, so that I know I’m topping him well - I enjoy fucking the cum out of a good muscleboy. It‘s only happened to me once, on the 3rd date with a handsome and compliant muscleboy. He said he couldn’t bottom that evening (haemorrhoid) and offered to leave. I said he could stay as long as he rimmed and sucked me slowly and then swallowed my load. We had a hot evening.

I think that may be a big presumption @Keith30309 and it could be a costly mistake. It would depend on which foreign country you choose for your relocation. Working while based in another jurisdiction may well expose you to tax in that country (tho of course you’re likely to get a foreign tax credit for US tax purposes).

I believe he’s best when playing the flute

Brad Pitt was indeed a beautiful young man when that film was made. I recall meeting him at a dinner party some years later when he was dating Gwyneth Paltrow. Both were very blond and clad in black leather. They looked stunning.

@purplekow this happened to an ex of mine. He found a new guy (South African expat) who was working in a large professional firm in London. My ex had good sex with him and enjoyed his company. He told me once he found out the man (whose boss was a black woman) was privately extremely racist, and asked my advice. I told him to cut all contact with the man and move on. There are some things you cannot change about a person.

I think @Redwine56 that you may be shocked by how Billy looks today. I saw a photo of him a couple of years ago - let’s say the years have not been kind to him.

Not so much a teenage crush, more my first lust-object: Ben Murphy. As a young actor, he played one of the leads in ‘Alias Smith and Jones’ (TV series that ‘knocked off’ Butch Cassidy and The Sundance Kid). In the early ‘70s he was pretty, sexy and muscled, and often bare chested on TV. He was also photographed naked, which was daring for those days, and I bought a copy of Playgirl that featured him. Interesting “fleshback” here: https://www.boyculture.com/boy_culture/2020/03/fleshback-ben-murphy.html

He looks very familiar, but I can’t place him. Is he one of the Russian muscleboys who used to visit the US and market their physiques?

I enjoy a good torso @Oliver Is your pic of Todd Sanfield?

I liked the Argentine side. You can walk in the National Park, or take a small passenger train, to the falls and walk out over the cataracts. Also I stayed overnight at the Sheraton Hotel which (then) had a good restaurant for dinner & breakfast and a nice pool outdoors for taking some sun. You'd need to ask someone who’s been on the Brazilian side to compare, tho that’s obviously academic currently. One thing I’m sure of is that unless you’re fluent in Spanish and very street-smart, do not go into Paraguay there.

I appreciate what you say @marylander1940 and I understand the frustration of @EZEtoGRU but Seeking does take work. And if you want someone fitting a precise type or of a certain physical desirability, it can work. Of course, other people will message you and try to get your attention - you’re an older man who’s financially secure and they are seeking support. So using the filters, as @MikeBiDude suggests, Is sensible. After all, the alternatives may take much more time and prove fruitless. It’s not as if you can just pick up your phone and order in an ‘uber masculine college jock’

Sometimes, commerce is mutually beneficial for the provider and the consumer

When I hired, dealbreakers were 1. No kissing 2. Refusal to be specific/confirm we’d be compatible 3. Demanding payment in advance/on arrival 4. Using inaccurate/stolen photos 5. Poor personal hygiene

That young man obviously deserves support.

Assuming this is for some post-Covid19 fun, I applaud your planning @orville. I contributed to one of your listed sources, the ‘Hiring Two Escorts at Once’ thread, and I feel my points then are still valid. So these are just some thoughts Tell him that in person at your next meeting and show him who you have in mind as a potential 3rd. That may allay any concerns he has about discretion and privacy. If he tells you he only enjoys playing 1-on-1, you’ll spare yourself a mediocre experience. I think that’s smart of you. Be very specific about what you want and what you enjoy in a 3some when speaking to the prospective guys. I’m not sure ‘chemistry’ is so vital when playing with 2 professionals; they should be able to play well together. Certainly it’s true if you plan a 3some with 2 ‘amateurs’. When I had a 3some, I always stipulated in advance that I was to be the centre of attention (kissing one guy while the other is rimming me, being sucked by them in turn, topping them both etc). Depending on what you enjoy, you might say you want to be a voyeur or interact in some specific way. Overall, I’d definitely allow 2 hours but allow for 3 hours as if you enjoy foreplay and you all interact well, the time will fly by.

I didn’t know strip clubs had doors @Coolwave35 ;-)

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No @Trebor my legs are crossed and my lips are sealed; luckily his were not.

And the wonderful Laura Linney!

Tho as an adult I’ve always been out as a gay man, I reject labelling and I dislike this forced acronym.