DrownedBoy

The precise formulation was: I texted him before he came telling him where it was safe to park. On arriving, he said he decided to park elsewhere. Soon after he arrived, he casually mentioned that his car was towed in the past, and he was so worried about that. Before he left, he claimed an app said "his car moved," and "that has to be because it's towed!" He made a snarky remark to the effect of: the money he made here wouldn't be enough to cover his tow. Of course, I simply replied that I had specifically warned him earlier about where to park. He ran out muttering something. I learned tricks like this in grade school. These guys need to step up their game if they want to get more money out. A for effort, though.

No, they'd have their hands against the wall and sometimes lean forward to look around them. It was an uncomfortable position. It was "a pose" that said they were available. They didn't have smartphones back then, but I wish I could have taken as picture. Anyone around at the time might know more.

Oookaaay.... He's a complete hunk, a great conversationist with a college degree, an excellent kisser. I can't say enough about his body. He claimed his phone said his car got towed, and ran out half an hour before the session would end. In such a hurry he couldn't say a word. EDIT. I had paid him ahead of time. Never had much trouble there until now... My opinion? Mathematics dictated 3 stars. My judgement of his character will remain private, but I'm sure most can guess. EDIT At least I saved the tip I had tucked away a few feet from him 😂

Beginning in January (the most political thing I'll say here), government officials started setting "quotas" for ICE, grading offices by how many people they deport. That's the reality of the situation, and why things are picking up. If you have a quota, you grab what you can find. It's easy to call a guy on RM. Worst, he gets arrested; best, he gets deported for "sex trafficking" or some other bullsh!t charge. Mark my words.

I know quite a few, but the key here is the partner calls himself bisexual. Like everyone here said, you can't really look inside their mind. It's a change. When I was in college, the "Gay and Lesbian Alliance" was still debating whether or not bisexuals belonged in our group. Back then, there was the stereotype of bi men as just opportunistic, untrustworthy horndogs who had no loyalty, and could just hide in plain sight when gay bashing started. Now everyone's bi.

Yeah. Boystown at night was a spectacle in the 90s. Every block, you'd see at least one cute guy leaning against a wall with his hands behind his back, looking somewhat nervous. Fast food.

If I am looking for right now, you only get 15 minutes from me if you have the "Available Now." Then I text someone else. Whoever answers first gets my money. This is the service industry, boys. I'm paying for service, not sex.

Guys like him, I don't think take it seriously. He's sure as hell not worth 300, nor was he getting that when on FB (before it went down). I know exactly where he lives, and it's the inverse of classy. I thought he might have been good for a cheap quickie on call, since he was so close, but he doesn't take it seriously. I'm not sure he even escorts in reality, given the cavalier way he treated an appointment, like something he could just delay because he wanted to watch a TV show.

Yup. Personally, I would think of it as revenge - you're getting that straight high school jock who made fun of you, and now he's bending over for money. Then again, most gay men could say that about other gays they met, especially when young.

Yeah - it costs a lot more money now. One of my former regulars started out with a sugar dady who covered everything (rent/bills/expenses), but left after the daddy started putting him down for being so dependent on him. He said he lost a sweet place, but he preferred his freedom.

Ah yeah, the good ol' days. Around 2000. Back when a blow job in a West Side alley only cost a crisp twenty.

If nothing changes, I'll have the pleasure this weekend. He's very high priced, but I make allowances for bodybuilders. And he's literally down the road from me.

Waste of money. However, I'd definitely pay 950 for a threesome with those two😁

I've always budgeted, but I keep to the strict 300/500 1/2 hour rate limits that I always do, with exceptions made for bodybuilders. Only the individual can make this decision, and there's enough providers around me who charge within my limit. It's their prerogative to charge 350; it's my prerogative to ghost them when they do or make a 2 hour counteroffer. Inflation is bad. My wage has most definitely not kept up. A lot of financial shops are laying people off, and I won't get into the federal workforce. There will most certainly be fewer hires - this is an expensive hobby that requires an upper-middle-class salary to engage in regularly. And a lot of those upper-middle-class professionals are losing their jobs. There will always be people willing to piss their money away for outrageous fees, but not enough to accommodate all providers. This is especially true since I see the uptick in new providers. If we continue on this economic path, "normal" providers will have to accept fewer customers, or keep their rates at a level people buy at. Nothing anyone says will change supply and demand.

The irony is that if it were legal, or we still allowed wergild, I'm certain UHC would settle for taking Mangione's legal fund.

The most annoying is when they're a couple and the guy you wants insists you hire their partner.

Hey, sometimes it happens so quickly you don't have a choice 😉

My personal answer. No.

I was waiting for the companies to pull out. Values have never trumped profits for that long. A lot of German corporations threw their Jewish employees under the bus when contracts were on the line.

Believe me - many "bisexual" escorts (and practically all the G4P ones) came into the business thinking they'd work with women, only to be hit hard by supply and demand. They'd muuuuch rather be meeting with women. Remember that if you decide to hire. You have an advantage.

While the idea of being tied to a post and whipped until I'm half dead has an appeal, it wouldn't be good for my skin.

Let's see....cutting of federal arts funding....a recession...

Okay, I have a question for providers. I know (because I asked this forum earlier) that rates have to be adjusted up when couples hire a single provider. How does the pricing work when n is equal to or greater than 3?

Dancers don't make much money, and they're about to start making less. Since a good proportion are gay, hopefully they'll decide to go into this business.

You don't do stuff like this in public...