DrownedBoy

I'm sorry, but this has happened to me 3 times already. I use my Google Translator to communicate with the other person. They don't speak English, but I'm translating. For some reason, they never are able to find the Uber, even if I send screenshots of the car and map, etc., and call the driver ahead of time. Is this some kind of sport? It only hurts me, and does nothing to benefit the a@@holes.

I actually have noticed that. The funny thing is - many escorts are still asking massively inflated prices, but when I turn them down, they start getting desperate. However, I wouldn't suggest removing your number from your ad. Another client and I tried to contact a Chicagoan who did that, and we both got blue balled: .

You get this in the U.S. too. This phenomenon has been established through sociological research of providers in the U.S. Many younger people believe that black men are too "stingy," and that they're too demanding when they hire someone. So many U.S. providers avoid black men as well. (the last time a provider asked me what my ethnicity was, I refused, and when he insisted, I cancelled - I'm not black, but also not racist)

I'm noticing that a lot too lately. In the past few months, I had 2 guys cancel on me. To be fair, though, they were both really young and others later told me they were unreliable. As for doing same day - I just wish that if there are escorts who are ready to come "right now," they indicate it in their RM ad. I've texted waaaaay too many people with "Available" on their ad, who never bother answer (or do so a day or 2 late). I really can't find escorts who are that ready anymore. So if they don't want to schedule ahead of time, and they don't want to come when called, what do you do?

Well he's on my block list. Finally gives me his number, we reach a deal and a time days in advance, then a few hours beforehand he says he can't make it. Either he plays games or is horrible with time management. Either way, a lot less likely to trust ads without phone numbers.

Yup. Watch out for inconvenient last-minute price hikes because he "didn't realize" something. That cut off any chance of us ever meeting.

Oh man. I refer to the regular I hire the most as my "main regular" and "my first choice," and he seems to like that. Different places, different relationships. Absolutely. Some guys are looking for relationships with younger men. Others just want house boys. Neither is wrong, as long as both parties are mentally and psychologically prepared.

A famous writer. To be nice to the dead, I'll just say his writing style doesn't necessarily appeal to everyone.

When I was in my 20s, I had a wealthy acquaintance my own age who always kept an unemployed sugar boy in his house. Money is money.

I'd say go for it. If I had money in my 20s, I would have hired, as many here said. Just don't turn your back on other relationship possibilities.

I don't pay stores money to ask about their merchandise, and I sure as hell wouldn't pay an escort just to ask if they're interested. Escorts should consider themselves lucky that I'm even willing to pay a deposit.

I will only send deposits to established escorts on RentMen, who need to have several dozen reviews and a near-perfect score. And only after I've established that they are willing to do what I ask - I give all the details up front, and answer any questions. EDIT: It may go without saying, but I need to find them particularly attractive as well. As a client, I do have to deal with time-wasters too. I tried texting 2 different "Available" escorts today. One hasn't responded, and the other tried to sweet talk me into paying more. I cut the latter off after 2 suggestive texts. He did, however, thank me for being honest in my dealings.

Yeah, I'd only pay 1K an hour for the impossible. Like Matt Damon or Jason Momoa 20 years ago. 😂

Ah. The Smurfs. 100 guys and 1 girl. What will they do.... Seriously, what does this blueish tint look like? I don't recall ever getting that from Viagra, but then again, I only take it after dark.

Aside from maybe 1 or 2 other developing nations, the U.S. is the only country that allows drug companies to advertise like that. Everywhere else, as Charlie said, doctors will know and prescribe it as needed. On the original topic - yes, it's a known fact that there are more psychological medications being handed out today, compared with younger generations. A former regular kept talking to me about seeing his therapist and getting meds. However, that didn't stop the 'roid rage he was getting from unprescribed drugs, apparently.

I saw it but I'm afraid he's too good to be true. I didn't find anything on a reverse photo search (which I rarely do), which is good, but he's only had that ad up for 3 days.

All I know is that he blocked me and we never met.

Escorts who are good at that usually, in their RM ads, will say they "welcome first timers" or something along those lines. Look for that.

Man, I wanted to hire that guy when he was younger. Never put things off.

Yup. The newer, younger escorts (even those new to RM without a single review to their name) are asking too much. A recession will give them the course in economics they need. Like someone above said, I also live in an area with pages of escorts who want my money...and in the past month or so, there were even more. Since the so-called "business world" came up, I should also mention that with the coming recession, CEOs and other executives have announced that the first candidates for layoffs will be the people who refuse to come to the office, or don't get there enough or in a timely manner. An entire generation is going to have to grow up quickly and drop their bad habits.

I wrote a thread on my personal experiences here in Ask a Provider. TLDR: As a client, you have to be firm, and willing to cancel a session or cut off a provider, to make sure they arrive on time. As for providers who arrive on time - that's how you tell who the professionals are. EDIT: At the risk of sounding like an old curmudgeon, I'd add that I see this pattern most often with younger providers. Must be a side effect from the whole "social promotion" trends in public high schools - as long as you show up, you graduate.

God! 😄 ; I got arrested for trespassing and resisting arrest. ...Easy going and laid back personality.

Until the Great Socialist Revolution sweeps the U.S., this is not condescending. It's reality....the same reality I got taught when I was that kid's age.

Here's an idea - when you make a website, put a "Q&A" section with all the questions you've gotten.

Guys - one thing I noticed is that if I click on a link to a specific escort - the links we always list in the Deli - it won't open to the exact page in v7. Has anyone else noticed this?