DrownedBoy

I'm thinking about visiting Puero Vallarta sometime this coming spring. My primary motivation will be as a paid sexcation. I'm looking for places for a single man to stay, where he can discreetly bring back 1 or more young men to his place. And where the young men are willing to kiss and do what they're told. I only speak basic, public high-school Spanish, but I'm looking for low prices and muscle. Does anyone have a discreet guide/translator they could recommend? Or is anyone visiting VP around the same time, and don't mind watching each other's backs when needed?

In my experience, that attitude only applies towards straight people. My social circle is almost entirely professional, and the majority are straight. This is a good description of how they act now (in middle age, not when they were in their 20s and sleeping around all the time). However, my straight friends have always given me a pass from judgment. Part of it is no doubt liberal guilt, or worries about un-PC remarks, towards what could arguably be called "gay culture." The other part is that they just assume that, as a gay man, I sleep around.

Good advice. In the meanwhile, you should somehow share the provider's link so we know what to do.

I'm surprised. No escort has ever suggested others, probably because they'd prefer to get my money. I'm afraid advice from other clients hasn't proved very helpful, though. Too much variation in both individual performance and personal preferences.

If the provider is Latino, I pay attention to the grammar and word use in the ad. Bad grammar = probably doesn't speak English well.

I've seen older women invite landscapers inside for fun before. Nice to see it's an equal opportunity practice.

And I can give you hundreds of counterexamples, stock tips written by so-called "experts" at my firm.

Very true. My policy is to give 5 stars as long as the provider did what I asked, got me off, and didn't cheat me. You have to actually contact me in private to get the dirt. Or at least wait until CoM's review system is back online. I have a loooooot of writing to do.

Your stats, but not a photo if you can't be compromised. Also, a description of what you want out of an escort or session. That saves a lot of time......but only if the provider actually reads it.

Aw...I only budget 10% of that. Then again, I'm not retired, and would have even more trouble scheduling for "a few times a week."

I thought we already agreed to always assume your partner has an STD....

Send them a link to your ad. I send providers a link to my RM profile.

I keep thinking about the Dominick Dunne novel A Season in Purgatory. There's a side story where some old rich fart uses poppers then buys it while with his gigolo. (in the book, unfortunately, said gigolo stole stuff from the dead old man, so the dead man's daughter hunted him down and shot him)

He did everything I asked and got me off. Any more details than that, you'll have to PM me.

Oh yeah. I know several providers, including a regular, who told me that was their greatest fear. However, that fear also extended to old men having heart attacks when they came.

I've been seeing a lot of bodybuilder-physique men in Toronto and Monreal (on RentMen). What are the rates like in Toronto and Montreal? And does it matter if you're pegged as an American?

Yup. If he won't kiss on the first date, I wouldn't go with him. This isn't grammar school.

You're right - it shows no class whatsoever, and I'm old-fashioned (and honest) enough to see it as an insult. I mentioned it many times before. Twice, the escort who visited me took the money, counted it, and pocketed it right after they arrived. And both times, they refused to do what they agreed to, and I kicked them out early. (one of them wasn't the same person in the ad)

In Chicago, I always ask them for at least a general idea of where they're staying, so I can schedule to either visit them, or them to visit me. Or to see if we're close enough in the first place. I'm surprised by the number of escorts who don't answer even that question when I ask.

Dude, all work - even professional - is a gamble and involves shifting the odds in your favor. A decade ago, knowing the website framework Ruby on Rails was a ticket to a well-paying job. Now only a handful of companies use it on legacy sites. Good thing I learned a different framework. Everyone gambles on which skills are going to be in demand, and what people are willing to pay you for.

As a client, I never used anything stronger than cannabis, and then only in the form of edibles (gummies) or vapes that don't give off a smell. To be safe, I usually let providers know ahead of time. However, nobody - even escorts who claim they're "going sober" - has ever complained about cannabis use. The only time I had to stop vaping was when I visited a provider in a hotel, and a sign clearly said vaping was forbidden. I ignore such signs when I have the room (my vape is undetectable), but his hotel room, his rules.

This is a massively old and tired scam. I just hang up if the person asks for a deposit and doesn't have a verifiable record.

To quote Scott Adams, the holodeck will be mankind's last invention. I believe it. If VR became that advanced, I'd rather go with the obedient, fully personalized computer program.

Agree. Practically all my no shows are due to: 1. The provider booking at the same time as me 2. Providers who are lazy and careless about time and punctuality I've learned the hard way that if a provider starts to ask for changes in time after you made an agreement, cancel. They're trying to meet someone else during your time.

Every session I attend, I give the provider a small bottle of mouthwash. Some are classy enough that they don't even need it.