DrownedBoy

I've had a provider do that to me, while I was trying to make him into a regular. He forgot about the appointment, then kept claiming he was coming, but stuck in traffic. After 30 minutes I told him I wouldn't be hiring him anymore. Such foolishness. Tossing away a chance to make a regular by lying and screwing with peoples' schedules. Not a winning business model, for sure.

That's why "amateurs" should bring in a discount. I have a regular who brings a second boy if I ask. He's not as good as a professional, but I don't pay him as much as a professional. He's just a student who needs extra money sometimes, and I believe young men should get a good education. Both my regular and the kid realize and accept this, as do I, since I know the boy won't be as good as the regular.

Yup, that's the reason I don't hire younger escorts anymore. I recently cancelled an appointment with a Latino boy because he was going to be 90 minutes late. Even worse, he got huffy with me when I told him I was cancelling, since it "wasn't his fault" he was late (of course, his phone "accidentally" ran out of power while he was lying on the beach). I don't need that, and I'm sure as hell not going to pay for that kind of sh!tty attitude. After 10 minutes, I ask for an ETA. If it's going to be 30 minutes or longer, time to cancel.

The main reason for the Dallas law was to keep people from having to see streetwalkers and such, and it may not hold up in court. Staying online should be fine. However, make sure you don't have any LE enemies. The only way you'd get hit by this is by pissing off a cop.

I haven't checked in a while, but I recall seeing expired ads with photos, but no phone number available. They're definitely trying to get them to reactivate it.

As a side, I fall into the "little guy" category. A well-endowed man could split me in half if he pushed hard enough. I concentrate on oral. I actually prefer smaller, as then I can get brutally face-fucked without any chance of gagging. Also, I don't deny that I mainly hire for my fetish, which doesn't involve anal penetration. But hard spanking is fine.

Yeah and once the chat is long enough, they bring up money.

Con artists' first action is to act like what they're doing is right, whereas what the mark is doing is wrong. Remember - con artists are thieves, not escorts, and may be treated like a trespassing thief.

I'm also wondering if certain times are better for hiring. You know the old joke - wait until the night before the provider's rent is due.

This is why I prefer Castle Doctrine counties.

As a client, I'd try not to structure 2 hr meetings too much. For example, I used to be afraid of blowing my load too early, whereas if I relax and let myself go, I can get 2 orgasms in.

Yes, his body was excellent

He has a schedule so you have to catch him or schedule. Don't usually like twinks, but he looks like a crush I had in junior high

Weird. Just glancing through Grindr ads, a lot of older men added messages specififying they don't want to pay. I got propositioned by a twink escort, and I hadn't even looked at his entry. I assume there's a lot more of that on Grindr than I'd imagine.

Sounds like my parents. They still worry about AIDS, even after all the advances. I attended high school in the early 90s, but it wasn't a very good high school (one common afterschool event was watching cops arrest gang members walking out the front door). I heard that later in the 90s, a single guy came out and was considered brave. I just waited until college.

Germany worked. Ach du lieber! Should have tried that first, given where RM is.

Am I missing something? I did what you said, and tried: https://rentmen.eu/<ESCORTNAME>/reviews/ But I get a "Hmmm… can't reach this page" error.

Some things haven't changed, even after 506 years.

Just like people have to accept that some clients will never send a deposit. There. Question answered by supply and demand once again.

That's not a request - it's a scam. When they pull that on me, I cancel immediately.

I'd ask: 1. How do you know which gentlemen are the "gigilos?" I'd hope they don't have a tag that says so. 2. Do gay cruises bother hiring gigilos? Doesn't seem like you'd need them unless you know you have an older crowd.

And here the Japanese think they invented the host club.....

Yes, luckily I live in an era and city where my company has its own gay group, and even its own gay HR representative who would deal with this. Things like this get swept under the rug. They just tell management that this is "gay culture" and that "everyone one in the LGBTQ community engages in that," and they won't look further, as long as the police or press don't get involved.

Yeah, I learned that while hiring. I'm to a point where I screen out anyone under 30 unless I research their personality. In my experience, when young, hot escorts start out, and they find they're really popular, it goes to their head. I can't stand that - they act like they're young on Grindr, while forgetting they're really on RentMen and getting compensated. They think they can be "fashionably late." And too many client enablers let them get away with that. When I was young, I swore I'd never put up with brats, even if they were hot and young. That's been an easy oath to uphold. After a few years (and as they get closer to the originally-planned "cash out" date), they tend to be nicer and more professional. They also realize the gravy train won't go on forever, and that they aren't as cute as when they started, so they're more humble and realistic as well. And, yes, there are many artists, writers, etc. out there escorting. Those jobs are unlikely to ever pay the bills, but it gives them culture that makes for good conversation.

I'm still hiring him, and I consider him a twunk now. However, if you want to do anything specific, just check first. My repertoire with him is a lot different than what most people hire for.