DrownedBoy

I love them with the saggies.

So do many unexperienced providers. I never spell it out in texts either, but some younger ones act like a deer in a headlight when I try to be subtle.

Also, once the NDA is broken, you can't put the cat back in the bag. You'll still get humiliated / fired / etc. Also, in the States, any NDA would be considered void if they find prostitution is involved. Just look at a certain politician who had an NDA but also a stormy experience in court.

A lot of providers include dick pics, especially if they claim they're big. It's a reasonable request, but full nudes sound like photo hunting. If you have a pic of yourself in a speedo or something it should be good enough. As a client, I need to point out that he's right, and there are literally hundreds of alternatives. And if photos aren't verified I'll ask for one. And if a client refuses my request to unlock their gallery, they get blocked.

I know about the chatbots, but if I've already picked up the phone, I always screw with their head like this 👿 There are millions of ways to do it. I even read a book with some good mind f@cks for scammers and telemarketers.

Why is that?

People who can afford an assistant and that much privacy can also afford lawyers and NDAs.

The first time I hired a guy, I recall him murmuring to himself at the end: "Well that was easy." 😄

Like the others, I generally trust my regulars, simply because I'm cash flow to them, and they don't want to lose it. I don't care if they see me as an ATM; I'm not seeking even the illusion of love with them. When hiring someone for the first time, I take quite a few steps to protect myself from both physical and legal/reputational harm. I'll keep those details to myself. I've learned, however, to drop anyone, even a regular, who is having drug and/or psychological problems. I've had one 2 year regular go apesh!t on me because of that. Often, such regulars think they can take advantage of you because they think you formed a bond. Don't form that bond - sometimes you need to be ruthless to protect yourself.

Let's hear some ideas. Not that most scammers bother reading non-monetary replies.

It's a common scam towards straight men. The most popular is to pretend they somehow have computer camera footage of you jerking off while on a porn site. They refuse to give proof, only saying that you'll get the proof if you don't pay up and the video appears everywhere. EDIT They send it to random emails hoping they'll find some cowardly and gullible guy who likes porn and will pay up. I laughed when they sent it to me, an openly gay man. Meaningless and obvious to anyone with the slightest acquaintance with scams.

It also applies to lesser items. For instance, I've had an escort threaten that he could use my texts to him could get me in trouble. Dude, the cops are not going to scroll over pages of texts just because some guy walks into the station and claims he's a male prostitute and has a grudge against a John 😄

Yeah. When someone tries to blackmail you with vague remarks and can't get basic English sentence construction right, I just ignore it

Yeah gotta keep my eyes open the next time they're in Chicago

You missed a post I made about a certain provider who listed kissing, then said he charged $50 a kiss 😄

As mentioned earlier, a provider came to my place and started rolling a joint without permission or giving noticed, and I sent him out to the balcony. While it was initially slightly annoying, it became more fun after he passed some smoke to me mouth to mouth.

If a provider agrees to do something (like kiss) and then refuses to, post their names in the Deli and send your texts to RM.

English is different from a lot of other languages. It's a Germanic language, not a Latin-rooted Romantic language like Spanish, Italian, or the other major Romance languages. However, English speakers never got used to the German practice of creating new words by stringing simpler words together (like "geisteskrank" or "besserwissel"), which allow you to create new words expressing new concepts that regular speakers can still figure out.

I do the same as j r. Also, I type in complete sentences, introduce myself, and give a link to my RM profile. It's a professional business transaction, and that's how it needs to be approached. Yes - escorting is like a business. On the provider side, these initial impressions will make me stop: typing in fragments, not answering basic questions like rate, asking me questions that I already provided answers for. Worst are providers who do the above, while constantly saying meaningless things beginning with words like "c'mon baby" or "please, papi." Providers should act like professionals, not beggars.

A quick update - I did meet him, and enjoyed it, but he's still hard to book. Last time I tried to reach out, he didn't have an opening during a 2 week period.

For all anyone knows, this kid could just be asking to get hired by the OP more often.

Usually actual smoke; I vape myself and have shared them (nicotine and THC) with providers. I recall one provider who smoked a joint (he just started rolling one without asking soon after arriving), but I had him stand outside on my balcony.

Does anyone know what it means if a Latino says he's interested in a "king job?" I got a text like that once on Grindr for a guy who was "buscando trabaja."

FB is slightly better, but my hires there were still suboptimal.

A provider once called me ugly.... ....and a lot worse to everyone around him, as hotel security escorted him from the building. I got to see a raw personality disorder.