rustyrex

Just picked up RAV4 prime and I love it! No range anxiety and I have the best of both worlds.  I do ev mode for day to day and hybrid for the long road trips.  

Just picked up RAV4 prime and I love it! No range anxiety and I have the best of both worlds.  I do ev mode for day to day and hybrid for the long road trips.  

Just picked up RAV4 prime and I love it! No range anxiety and I have the best of both worlds.  I do ev mode for day to day and hybrid for the long road trips.  

I was hoping to meet this guy, after seeing him just take someone’s money and flake…not anymore.

Yes I’ve met him many times.  Very nice guy and very genuine.  I’m not sure why he changed his name this time around and covered his face. I didn’t know he was in the hospital I don’t really social media except this and one other plat form.  If this is his last hurrah hopefully it’s one that can keep him comfortable for years to come. He’s been saying for years that he’s going to live in France hopefully he can make that possible.  I would see him again but he’s preferred to stay in the bigger cities so our paths probably won’t cross again.  

Don’t forget height….I hired someone that said they were well over 6 feet and ended up being shorter than me.  Catfish’s too….the guy answers the door and I’m like…I think I have the wrong place…then they get all crazy and admit that the pic is very old. 

To do a proper flex on the guys….you gotta put on the whole jewelry box.  Make sure you have Aunt Ekla’s broach on for good luck!!!

Don’t forget height….I hired someone that said they were well over 6 feet and ended up being shorter than me.  Catfish’s too….the guy answers the door and I’m like…I think I have the wrong place…then they get all crazy and admit that the pic is very old. 

Don’t forget height….I hired someone that said they were well over 6 feet and ended up being shorter than me.  Catfish’s too….the guy answers the door and I’m like…I think I have the wrong place…then they get all crazy and admit that the pic is very old. 

I gave up on masseurfinder years ago and as soon as guys starting charging outrageous fees without any type of skill I went to a local guy.  He’s gay friendly and married but has thrown hints…I don’t let it go to far because he’s the type to back away and tell me he doesn’t want me  as a client if it goes to far.   Usually book an hour and a half it’s almost a steal. The massage is pretty good and I don’t feel ripped off because I don’t expect anything more.  Going to the other sites however, I end up paying more and might get some playtime with someone who isn’t trained but I expect more due to the overt advertising of erotic or sensual. Sometimes it’s anything but that.  Glad I found a regular guy that is reasonable.

After being a client with this long term I would say this, what are your true intentions?  Are you just trying to make extra money for a side hustle or are you interested in delving into side of sexuality of being desired and being payed for it.  There are a lot of men that are unskilled in both massage and emotional intelligence and once they get into this type of work they become emotional drained, more apprehensive about gay men in general, and jaded with the business of providing a service that is extremely personal to a complete stranger.  For example, the last guy I hired for a massage was very apprehensive about meeting me and wanted various things up front before the encounter such as payment with cash.  The appointment was in his home, which was in a very bad side of town, and I could tell that he wasn't even comfortable with me being there until he realized I was not a threat.  His body was amazing and he was somewhat personable but very stand offish.  He was unskilled despite him telling me he had training and his manner wasn't welcoming.  He did offer a happy ending but once he got started it was like he wanted me to cum in 3 minutes.  I had to finish myself off but the encounter wasn't the best.  I will never go back to him again and I noticed that he took his ad down a week later.  I don't think he had it in him to continue providing that kind of service.  He told me that the business wasn't that good and that his safety was compromised with a couple of guys that he had to call the cops on.  He told me that he would get calls in the middle of the night from men that were high and wanted to be seen and would harass him if he refused.  He told me about having a guy steal from him and having to pull a gun on another guy to get him to leave.  He told me he doesn't see men of color because of his past experiences with them and that he's refused someone at the door once he sees them.  The real kicker is that he is only one of the many stories these men tell me.  While there was a time I thought about going into the business myself I had to ask myself why and what were my expectations of the money and reward for being desirable.  I decided it wasn't for me.  The job I have now provides me a sense of being in that business, I work in healthcare, but at the end of the day I'm emotionally exhausted and want to be in cocoon away from others so I can recharge.  It takes a special type of soul to be in the business, if you have what it takes then give it a try.

After being a client with this long term I would say this, what are your true intentions?  Are you just trying to make extra money for a side hustle or are you interested in delving into side of sexuality of being desired and being payed for it.  There are a lot of men that are unskilled in both massage and emotional intelligence and once they get into this type of work they become emotional drained, more apprehensive about gay men in general, and jaded with the business of providing a service that is extremely personal to a complete stranger.  For example, the last guy I hired for a massage was very apprehensive about meeting me and wanted various things up front before the encounter such as payment with cash.  The appointment was in his home, which was in a very bad side of town, and I could tell that he wasn't even comfortable with me being there until he realized I was not a threat.  His body was amazing and he was somewhat personable but very stand offish.  He was unskilled despite him telling me he had training and his manner wasn't welcoming.  He did offer a happy ending but once he got started it was like he wanted me to cum in 3 minutes.  I had to finish myself off but the encounter wasn't the best.  I will never go back to him again and I noticed that he took his ad down a week later.  I don't think he had it in him to continue providing that kind of service.  He told me that the business wasn't that good and that his safety was compromised with a couple of guys that he had to call the cops on.  He told me that he would get calls in the middle of the night from men that were high and wanted to be seen and would harass him if he refused.  He told me about having a guy steal from him and having to pull a gun on another guy to get him to leave.  He told me he doesn't see men of color because of his past experiences with them and that he's refused someone at the door once he sees them.  The real kicker is that he is only one of the many stories these men tell me.  While there was a time I thought about going into the business myself I had to ask myself why and what were my expectations of the money and reward for being desirable.  I decided it wasn't for me.  The job I have now provides me a sense of being in that business, I work in healthcare, but at the end of the day I'm emotionally exhausted and want to be in cocoon away from others so I can recharge.  It takes a special type of soul to be in the business, if you have what it takes then give it a try.

I gave up on masseurfinder years ago and as soon as guys starting charging outrageous fees without any type of skill I went to a local guy.  He’s gay friendly and married but has thrown hints…I don’t let it go to far because he’s the type to back away and tell me he doesn’t want me  as a client if it goes to far.   Usually book an hour and a half it’s almost a steal. The massage is pretty good and I don’t feel ripped off because I don’t expect anything more.  Going to the other sites however, I end up paying more and might get some playtime with someone who isn’t trained but I expect more due to the overt advertising of erotic or sensual. Sometimes it’s anything but that.  Glad I found a regular guy that is reasonable.

As someone that lives in ABQ, it's okay.  There is a community here but it's not as robust as the bigger cities and the way of life is slower paced. It's fairly affordable but it does have lots of homeless and violent crime.  Not to the scale of the bigger cities but it's gotten worse over the years. We have cultural things that make us very unique...we do have a tourist draw for the Balloon Fiesta.  If you wanted to go to a bigger city they aren't too far away.  You have Denver and Phoenix which are 6ish hours away. Vegas is 8 and Dallas is 9. The border is 4 hours away if that's your thing.  
It's a democratic state and fairly liberal. It's gay friendly and the weather isn't bad but it does get cold here in the winters.
 

As someone that lives in ABQ, it's okay.  There is a community here but it's not as robust as the bigger cities and the way of life is slower paced. It's fairly affordable but it does have lots of homeless and violent crime.  Not to the scale of the bigger cities but it's gotten worse over the years. We have cultural things that make us very unique...we do have a tourist draw for the Balloon Fiesta.  If you wanted to go to a bigger city they aren't too far away.  You have Denver and Phoenix which are 6ish hours away. Vegas is 8 and Dallas is 9. The border is 4 hours away if that's your thing.  
It's a democratic state and fairly liberal. It's gay friendly and the weather isn't bad but it does get cold here in the winters.
 

As someone that lives in ABQ, it's okay.  There is a community here but it's not as robust as the bigger cities and the way of life is slower paced. It's fairly affordable but it does have lots of homeless and violent crime.  Not to the scale of the bigger cities but it's gotten worse over the years. We have cultural things that make us very unique...we do have a tourist draw for the Balloon Fiesta.  If you wanted to go to a bigger city they aren't too far away.  You have Denver and Phoenix which are 6ish hours away. Vegas is 8 and Dallas is 9. The border is 4 hours away if that's your thing.  
It's a democratic state and fairly liberal. It's gay friendly and the weather isn't bad but it does get cold here in the winters.
 

Remember if you want more you have to be up front about it. I got to the point where I’ll ask for playtime and they either say yes or no. If they say no, I move on..I’ve gotten to old to do the maybe or  maybe not guessing game.  I just ask for what I want or need.  Better to go in and know what your getting than pay a lot money and be pissed jr didn’t even get caressed. 

Remember if you want more you have to be up front about it. I got to the point where I’ll ask for playtime and they either say yes or no. If they say no, I move on..I’ve gotten to old to do the maybe or  maybe not guessing game.  I just ask for what I want or need.  Better to go in and know what your getting than pay a lot money and be pissed jr didn’t even get caressed. 

Another nail in the coffin… if you’re a dick aficionado you’ll have to pay to see the peen.  I almost laughed at some of the ads now.  Total tops now have their sites scrubbed clean.  It’s more of a model portfolio than sex ad.

Remember if you want more you have to be up front about it. I got to the point where I’ll ask for playtime and they either say yes or no. If they say no, I move on..I’ve gotten to old to do the maybe or  maybe not guessing game.  I just ask for what I want or need.  Better to go in and know what your getting than pay a lot money and be pissed jr didn’t even get caressed. 

I gave up on masseurfinder years ago and as soon as guys starting charging outrageous fees without any type of skill I went to a local guy.  He’s gay friendly and married but has thrown hints…I don’t let it go to far because he’s the type to back away and tell me he doesn’t want me  as a client if it goes to far.   Usually book an hour and a half it’s almost a steal. The massage is pretty good and I don’t feel ripped off because I don’t expect anything more.  Going to the other sites however, I end up paying more and might get some playtime with someone who isn’t trained but I expect more due to the overt advertising of erotic or sensual. Sometimes it’s anything but that.  Glad I found a regular guy that is reasonable.

I gave up on masseurfinder years ago and as soon as guys starting charging outrageous fees without any type of skill I went to a local guy.  He’s gay friendly and married but has thrown hints…I don’t let it go to far because he’s the type to back away and tell me he doesn’t want me  as a client if it goes to far.   Usually book an hour and a half it’s almost a steal. The massage is pretty good and I don’t feel ripped off because I don’t expect anything more.  Going to the other sites however, I end up paying more and might get some playtime with someone who isn’t trained but I expect more due to the overt advertising of erotic or sensual. Sometimes it’s anything but that.  Glad I found a regular guy that is reasonable.

I gave up on masseurfinder years ago and as soon as guys starting charging outrageous fees without any type of skill I went to a local guy.  He’s gay friendly and married but has thrown hints…I don’t let it go to far because he’s the type to back away and tell me he doesn’t want me  as a client if it goes to far.   Usually book an hour and a half it’s almost a steal. The massage is pretty good and I don’t feel ripped off because I don’t expect anything more.  Going to the other sites however, I end up paying more and might get some playtime with someone who isn’t trained but I expect more due to the overt advertising of erotic or sensual. Sometimes it’s anything but that.  Glad I found a regular guy that is reasonable.

It’s been something that I’ve been noticing about the guys that pass thru town.  A lot are going to condom only or a much higher fee for BB. I’ve tried to enjoy the experience safely but it’s not the same.  For me to climax with a condom there has to be more to the encounter than the actual act of sex.  They have to provide an experience that is much more than physical and most of the time that isn’t going to happen with a pro.
Also there are misconceptions about what is safe. Most guys wouldn’t dream of wearing a condom for oral but technically it’s safer than doing it au natural. I once had a patient that had herpes all thru his esophagus.  He had a tough time eating because of the pain.  
The professionals and the hobbyist should accept this type of activity isn’t for the squeamish and that all activities have a risk.  To give you some perspective….I had a happy ending massage and climaxed and some of my jizz touched the masseur’s bare leg.  He freaked out and ran to the bathroom to shower like acid had hit him.  I paid and left.
If I can get myself off better with my hand why would I pay hundreds of dollars to have a less than amazing experience. 
It’s all about preference and comfort level but I’m happy to save my money for someone that will fulfill the fantasy.  Condoms are not part of the fantasy.

My first experience was with a guy with a gigantic cock. It was about the thickness of a soda can....I was so excited every time we met I couldn't keep my hands off it. The novelty eventually faded and I ended up knowing the guy attached to it, sweet man by the way. We never had anal sex...for obvious reasons..I'm not about to get torn open by something that big unless I love the man.
 
I don't mind smaller ones, they are easier to preform oral on and there is less to manipulate...bigger guys take a lot of damn work. I'd be more receptive to having a smaller guy fuck me than a monster.