MrMattBig

That all makes sense. Maybe, for a shorter visit, it'd just be the male escort only fellates the client but saves the juice for other, longer and more profitable, appointments.

Would you be the top or bottom in this situation?
As @keroscenefire mentioned some of us offer 30 minutes...I myself do if asked. I do not advertise it, and also depends on my schedule for the day, both personal and work. If in this situation the person wants to blow me, I decline or don't offer 30 minutes. Why waste a load and effect possiblity of overall performance, when someone could easily come through and pay a full hour instead. If I'm really really slow, and really horny, it's a possibility. However, while in 30 minute circumstances I offer a rate at a competitive proportion to the hour, I find most who ask for 30 minutes are either: looking for something way less still, too hesitant to part with their funds even at a less than advertised rate, or too really short on time sneaking around a partner/spouse, on break or before/after work or Uber discreet to actually come through.
So there is virtually no incentive to offer quick visits.

Would you be the top or bottom in this situation?
As @keroscenefire mentioned some of us offer 30 minutes...I myself do if asked. I do not advertise it, and also depends on my schedule for the day, both personal and work. If in this situation the person wants to blow me, I decline or don't offer 30 minutes. Why waste a load and effect possiblity of overall performance, when someone could easily come through and pay a full hour instead. If I'm really really slow, and really horny, it's a possibility. However, while in 30 minute circumstances I offer a rate at a competitive proportion to the hour, I find most who ask for 30 minutes are either: looking for something way less still, too hesitant to part with their funds even at a less than advertised rate, or too really short on time sneaking around a partner/spouse, on break or before/after work or Uber discreet to actually come through.
So there is virtually no incentive to offer quick visits.

Type 1: money driven/partner completion driven
Type 2: self completion driven/money driven
Type 3: mutual enjoyment driven/sustainable career driven

Type 1: money driven/partner completion driven
Type 2: self completion driven/money driven
Type 3: mutual enjoyment driven/sustainable career driven

Type 1: money driven/partner completion driven
Type 2: self completion driven/money driven
Type 3: mutual enjoyment driven/sustainable career driven

Fun Facts about cats:
 
-- cats sleep 70% of their day
-- A house cat's genetic makeup is almost 97% tiger and they share many behaviors with their jungle ancestors. These behaviors include scent marking by scratching, prey play, prey stalking, pouncing, chinning, and urine marking.
-- Cats are believed to be the only mammals who don't taste sweetness
-- Cats have an extra organ that allows them to taste scents on the air, which is why your cat stares at you with her mouth open from time to time
-- Cats have the largest eyes relative to their head size of any mammal
-- Cats are crepuscular which means that they’re most active at dawn and dusk
-- Cats can spend up to a third of their waking hours grooming
-- Cats mark you as their territory
-- Many cats like to lick their owner’s freshly washed hair
-- When your cat sticks his butt in your face, he is doing so as a gesture of friendship, much as an escort might do.

In terms of asking questions, I like when a client tells me what they are looking for, so in phrasing from the client " I am into/looking for xyz..." Preferred over from the client "what are into? Are you xyz?..." I am supposed to show you a good time so it's better that I know more from what you are looking for instead of just asking what I like. Additionally, in theme of the time waster subject of this thread some inquiring clients ask negatively affirming questions or use the omission for an interest by just forgetting to mention it as a disqualification. For example, some ask if I pnp, not because they are looking for it but because if you say yes it's a deal breaker...or asking if I bottom...not because they are looking for that but because they don't want someone who is willing to bottom and really want a top...or asking what I'm into and I'll list top, bottom, kissing, oral...a d they reply back "oh I was looking for rimming too, sorry I'm gonna pass" even tho I am into rimming as long as everything is clean.
 
Keep asking questions, but don't be afraid to describe yourself out there too!

Keep in mind this person set a day/time/location...reconfirmed the day before...then the morning of deleted their RM profile and blocked me from the email that they sent this from...
 
As for the role play, I'll be as detailed as humanly possible here so I don't have to be when we meet. I have a terrible time conveying exactly what I want in person. My nerves and excitement get the best of me and I don't want to leave anything out. I also want you to be comfortable and capable of what I'm asking for and totally aware of what I want. Ideally I'd like to cover all the details prior to meeting so we can get started shortly after my arrival.
 
When I arrive, I will change into panties, put on a blindfold and I will need you to tie my hands together. I'll leave it up to you whether you want them tied behind my back or in front of me but I do want my arms restrained to start. Then I'd like you to guide me to the bathroom, put me on my knees, turn off the lights, leave and shut the door.
 
Make me wait for 5-10 minutes... as long as you think is necessary. I like to build the anticipation and agonize about not knowing what awaits me or how bad it will be.
 
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The Role Play:
I am a beloved and high ranking enemy officer with the East army and was recently captured during a battle between our factions. I am being held hostage in a remote location as a prisoner of war. After my initial interrogation by your intel team, they have concluded that I likely have critical information but it will be extremely difficult to extract.
 
Considering I'm a such high ranking officer, your commanding general has decided to take a different approach with me regarding my interrogation. An technique that has never been used before but could possibly force me to give up any pertinent information regarding the East and will certainly destroy the morale of my men.
 
The general's plan is to have one of his top tier and most aggressive soldiers enter my interrogation room and torture me by brutally fucking my throat with zero remorse. In the most aggressive, degrading, humiliating and demoralizing way possible. Such treatment may force me to divulge any info I have and the interrogation/torture will be recorded on video and uploaded to the internet to be used as propaganda for both of the East and West armies to see.
 
He's betting that when the soldiers of the East see their most beloved and fearless leader restrained, in panties, in his most vulnerable state being throat fucked into submission by the enemy and left gasping for air in a pile of spit and cum, it will completely destroy their moral. He also knows that such will vastly improve the moral of the west and possibly lead them to total victory over the East.
 
Your unit has set up multiple video cameras in my interrogation room (we won't actually be recording anything), they have blind folded me, restrained my hands and stripped me down to panties.
 
Your general has ordered you to carry out the torture/interrogation session. You are an exceptional soldier, known for your aggression, brutality and absolute willingness to help the West in any way possible. He also was made aware that you have the tool and mentality to efficiently complete this mission.
 
My interrogation time has been set and I have no idea what awaits me. I have been in the interrogation room alone for hours, in the dark, blind folded, restrained and on my knees. You receive the order to proceed with the mission. Shortly after you get the green light, you barge into interrogation room and carry out your mission.
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Given the nature of this role play, I really want this to feel like pure torture. I absolutely love getting my throat fucked. Everything about it, the tears, gagging, spit, choking, air deprivation and the submission aspect. I want it hard, fast and relentless. I may not seem like I'm enjoying myself during and I may fight back a little. Don't let that slow you down... I love it rough and it fits this role play perfectly. I don't want anything to feel scripted, you're in control and I will submit. I love not knowing what's coming and want no chances for breaks or to get comfortable. Like I said, pure torture. Feel free to call me names and I love heavy verbal abuse and humiliation but kept within the realm of the role play. All I ask is that you stay in character until we are finished.
 
Here is a list of what I'm into and NOT into:
 
What I'm into:
Not knowing what's next
Spanking (DON"T LEAVE MARKS)
Whips (DON"T LEAVE MARKS)
Extreme verbal abuse & yelling
Humiliation
Choking with your hands and cock
Big dildos being forced down my throat - if you're into it
Extreme gagging
Air deprivation
Light slapping (DON"T LEAVE MARKS)
Hair pulling
Forced into different positions (every position possible... I want all of them)
Spit
Thrown around and manhandled
Sucking balls and taint
Cock rings
My head and hair being used as leverage for deeper and faster fucking
Not letting up even when I struggle
I'll rim if you want but it's honestly not my favorite thing to do
 
NOT Into:
Anything penetrating my butt
 
Safe word is RED
 
In closing, I apologize for the long email but I appreciate you taking the time to read through it. I just wanted to get everything on the table. If this is something you don't think works for you, please tell me.

In terms of asking questions, I like when a client tells me what they are looking for, so in phrasing from the client " I am into/looking for xyz..." Preferred over from the client "what are into? Are you xyz?..." I am supposed to show you a good time so it's better that I know more from what you are looking for instead of just asking what I like. Additionally, in theme of the time waster subject of this thread some inquiring clients ask negatively affirming questions or use the omission for an interest by just forgetting to mention it as a disqualification. For example, some ask if I pnp, not because they are looking for it but because if you say yes it's a deal breaker...or asking if I bottom...not because they are looking for that but because they don't want someone who is willing to bottom and really want a top...or asking what I'm into and I'll list top, bottom, kissing, oral...a d they reply back "oh I was looking for rimming too, sorry I'm gonna pass" even tho I am into rimming as long as everything is clean.
 
Keep asking questions, but don't be afraid to describe yourself out there too!

ad gone!.....yay....I get to post it again!
 

When you contact someone say "Hi I am looking for someone who is into receiving oral to completion.
I have an extreme oral fixation, not looking for any intercourse or penetration. If it seems like we will be a good match, let me know when you are available and what your rates are for your time"
 
Keep in mind that because of sensitivity and sensations, it really maybe be hard to cum from oral. Sometimes that's me. But a good provider knows how to go back and forth between stroking themselves and putting your mouth back to work.

I at the very least take it that they may have some worry about law enforcement and are more likely to get cold feet, thus in my mind the likelihood of flaking, canceling, or not setting an appointment increases and I will start having other plans on the back burner. Secondly, it may show that another provider may have called them out as potential law enforcement (blindly drawing this conclusion at times) for either being overly explicit or being in other ways subjectively difficult to book a meeting and follow through. This may foreshadow that whomever may be contacting me will act in a similar way and a meeting will be difficult to set up or never transpire at all.

I think part of the reason is because gays have been discriminated against for so long as well, collectively a stereotype and reality exists to have their own clique exclusionary to others that ends up being 1950's -ish. I once was in Puerto Vallarta on a trip there with a client I had an semi long term arrangement with during the holidays. It just so happens all of San Francisco gay scene basically migrates there for the holidays as well. At dinner one night the conversation with another gay couple visiting turned so derogatory and insensitive towards trans individuals from the couples end...I am so happy that I am a happy drunk and the wine mellowed me out and numbed me to the nonsense and disgusting things I heard. I am pansexual and never have "came out"...I live my life though as openly being a freak...so whether your male, female, trans, cis, bi, straight, gay....if I feel an attraction towards you I am going to make that known...whether on a sexual level, emotional level, or both. But, I have never felt a need to come out, or moreover a want to come out particularly because of how prejudice and judgmental the gay male community and 'scene' can be at times.

Thanks for sharing. We are all human and every human has prejudices and bigotries. They're based on our cognitive biases and a lifetime of experiences and how it all fits in a society's social hierarchy. "Punching down" to feel better is a thing. My wife and I have a pretty diverse friend group because we wanted our kids exposed to as much diversity as possible. It's led to some weird experiences because the gay male couples in our social circles frequently are very politically and socially conservative with some challenging bigotries. We've never confronted them, but we have had very complex conversations with our kids after a dinner party or birthday party where they overheard something upsetting. The most important lesson we've tried to teach is the value of awareness because awareness enables us to respond and react in a more compassionate humane ways. Now I wonder if we should chat with some of these people, in private over a good glass of wine. I'm uncomfortable with how our polite silence may be mistaken for support.
 
https://www.advocate.com/commentary/2015/11/13/rise-gay-bigot
 
https://www.un.org/development/desa/dspd/2018/02/prejudice-and-discrimination/

I think part of the reason is because gays have been discriminated against for so long as well, collectively a stereotype and reality exists to have their own clique exclusionary to others that ends up being 1950's -ish. I once was in Puerto Vallarta on a trip there with a client I had an semi long term arrangement with during the holidays. It just so happens all of San Francisco gay scene basically migrates there for the holidays as well. At dinner one night the conversation with another gay couple visiting turned so derogatory and insensitive towards trans individuals from the couples end...I am so happy that I am a happy drunk and the wine mellowed me out and numbed me to the nonsense and disgusting things I heard. I am pansexual and never have "came out"...I live my life though as openly being a freak...so whether your male, female, trans, cis, bi, straight, gay....if I feel an attraction towards you I am going to make that known...whether on a sexual level, emotional level, or both. But, I have never felt a need to come out, or moreover a want to come out particularly because of how prejudice and judgmental the gay male community and 'scene' can be at times.

I think part of the reason is because gays have been discriminated against for so long as well, collectively a stereotype and reality exists to have their own clique exclusionary to others that ends up being 1950's -ish. I once was in Puerto Vallarta on a trip there with a client I had an semi long term arrangement with during the holidays. It just so happens all of San Francisco gay scene basically migrates there for the holidays as well. At dinner one night the conversation with another gay couple visiting turned so derogatory and insensitive towards trans individuals from the couples end...I am so happy that I am a happy drunk and the wine mellowed me out and numbed me to the nonsense and disgusting things I heard. I am pansexual and never have "came out"...I live my life though as openly being a freak...so whether your male, female, trans, cis, bi, straight, gay....if I feel an attraction towards you I am going to make that known...whether on a sexual level, emotional level, or both. But, I have never felt a need to come out, or moreover a want to come out particularly because of how prejudice and judgmental the gay male community and 'scene' can be at times.

I generally agree and frequently call out
"pulling a “you, on “you” myself,
 
but as sex workers our job is not just bjs penetration and getting off...but providing a level of comfortability and being non-judgmental. Additionally, if escorts are going to pick and choose who they take as clients...they should indicate that in their profile to be as upfront as possible.

From an escort advertising aspect, it just opening the door to say I am open to and not discriminate against xyz...to be blunt i shit piss and puke on people several times throughout the year, that is the extreme end of the wild and pig part for me....if speaking about an escort speaking about wild or being a pig....treat that as an open door for whatever level of kinkiness you are looking for, but don't assume one way or another.

Sixty years ago today, I was approached in the Port Authority bus terminal in New York by an attractive young man who introduced himself as "Michel." He was tall and slender, with black hair and blue eyes, and he asked, "Are you gay?" I wasn't sure what he was asking--he had a slight accent (I later learned he was French Canadian), but I thought perhaps there was a slight language problem, and he was probably asking whether I was feeling light-hearted and in a mood for some friendly fun. "Yes!" I beamed back. He suggested that we go back to his place, which turned out to be a room in an old tenement on the Lower East Side, with a communal bathroom down the hall. As soon as the door closed behind us, he practically ripped my clothes off, and proceeded to take me through the standard repertoire of male-on-male sexual acts: oral/anal/top/bottom. I had never had sex with a man before, and to me the most thrilling part was the passionate kissing during much of it.
 
After a couple of hours and several climaxes, we finally started to get dressed again. "Wow!" I gushed. "I didn't know some of those things were possible!" He stopped and gave me a puzzled look. "But you said you were gay?" It was my turn to look confused. "Umm, maybe I don't understand what you meant...." It suddenly dawned on him that I was much less experienced than he had assumed. For the next half hour he gave me a vocabulary lesson about what we had been doing (e.g., I thought that 'rim' was a noun, not a verb), and explained what it meant to say that I was "gay." By the time I got back on the bus to my home in the suburbs (I learned I was a "bridge and tunnel queen"), I felt much more sophisticated than when I had arrived, and I had a new word to identify myself. So wherever you are, Michel, thank you for teaching me what it meant to be "gay."

IF I can get away with saving it and still leaving my partner satisfied I will, that way it builds up for the next person, if you happen to be that next person I am cumming twice probably:p
For me at least it boils down to not if I can (I never schedule appointments if I wouldnt be able to) or want to (I always want to btw) but how much fluid I have in the tank or need in the tank for later.

just state your preferences/what you are looking for when first contacting, but keep in general terms for legality.
Example: Im looking to bottom and cum while swallowing a nice thick load...
Post orgasm blues may come into play so if a client cums before me, I let their body language usually speak for itself whether they still want me to cum afterwards....as a side note this is why I stress booking in advance...sometimes I feel I annoy clients actually for wanting to cum multiple times myself before I leave lol!

I myself prefer to not discuss details beforehand...especially if specific such as "will YOU be able to top ME and feed ME YOUR cum?"
Describing yourself/your interests will go a long way at the initial contact " Hi, total bottom here looking for a top that will go gently/hard and feed me their cum towards the end. If you think we would be a good match to meet, let me know your availability, etc"...
 
The first part I am responding with "I am sure you will leave our time completely satisfied" as to not be overly incriminating

IF I can get away with saving it and still leaving my partner satisfied I will, that way it builds up for the next person, if you happen to be that next person I am cumming twice probably:p
For me at least it boils down to not if I can (I never schedule appointments if I wouldnt be able to) or want to (I always want to btw) but how much fluid I have in the tank or need in the tank for later.

just state your preferences/what you are looking for when first contacting, but keep in general terms for legality.
Example: Im looking to bottom and cum while swallowing a nice thick load...
Post orgasm blues may come into play so if a client cums before me, I let their body language usually speak for itself whether they still want me to cum afterwards....as a side note this is why I stress booking in advance...sometimes I feel I annoy clients actually for wanting to cum multiple times myself before I leave lol!