How Can a Client Identity an Oral Top Provider?

[+ Letmeworshipit]

Here’s the deal. My fetish/passion is oral cock worship. I look for providers that love that scene and really get off on making their dick the center of attention and getting serviced to completion. I get real tired of providers who advertise as tops telling me they love getting sucked off only to get there and be told that they can’t cum from head and prefer to fuck. When I find those true oral top feeders it’s a great time for all, so why can’t providers find a way to let prospective clients know that a preference? There are a lot of guys like me out here.

[MrMattBig]

When you contact someone say "Hi I am looking for someone who is into receiving oral to completion.

I have an extreme oral fixation, not looking for any intercourse or penetration. If it seems like we will be a good match, let me know when you are available and what your rates are for your time"

 

Keep in mind that because of sensitivity and sensations, it really maybe be hard to cum from oral. Sometimes that's me. But a good provider knows how to go back and forth between stroking themselves and putting your mouth back to work.

[+ purplekow]

I agree, the only way to know is to ask. Something to the effect of: "I give great head and I expect to choke on your come at the end. Will you be able to come by oral alone?" One might even offer an incentive to help him along. If there is a dripping tip in my mouth, there will be a ripping tip in your wallet."

[+ Letmeworshipit]

When you contact someone say "Hi I am looking for someone who is into receiving oral to completion.

I have an extreme oral fixation, not looking for any intercourse or penetration. If it seems like we will be a good match, let me know when you are available and what your rates are for your time"

 

Keep in mind that because of sensitivity and sensations, it really maybe be hard to cum from oral. Sometimes that's me. But a good provider knows how to go back and forth between stroking themselves and putting your mouth back to work.

And in all honesty, that’s exactly what turns me off. I want that niche of provider that almost prefers oral service over anything and really gets off on turning his dick over to a cocksucker to be edged and drained. It really is a disappointment to get with a provider who has to kack himself off the Cum. To me it says that we weren’t a good match in the first place.

[thickornotatall]

Here’s the deal. My fetish/passion is oral cock worship. I look for providers that love that scene and really get off on making their dick the center of attention and getting serviced to completion. I get real tired of providers who advertise as tops telling me they love getting sucked off only to get there and be told that they can’t cum from head and prefer to fuck. When I find those true oral top feeders it’s a great time for all, so why can’t providers find a way to let prospective clients know that a preference? There are a lot of guys like me out here.

Are we twins?

[+ Letmeworshipit]

Are we twins?

Trust me....there’s a ton of us out here. We just need more guys to service!

[MrMattBig]

And in all honesty, that’s exactly what turns me off. I want that niche of provider that almost prefers oral service over anything and really gets off on turning his dick over to a cocksucker to be edged and drained. It really is a disappointment to get with a provider who has to kack himself off the Cum. To me it says that we weren’t a good match in the first place.

I get it. In all fairness though, someone can match what you are looking for to a tee, but for whatever reason the peg and hole don't match exactly. Similar but related, it's the same reason why your own hand will almost always feel better than someone else's hand. With me as an example, even if in that moment oral will make me cum, stroking myself even just for a few seconds before putting someone's mouth back on it will make me shoot out more cum then if I just left it alone.

[MrMattBig]

Also, just pondered on the psychology of everything for a moment: to cum from receiving oral requires to give control over to the other person. Not necessarily a 'top' thing to do so there might be a psychological block, if only subconsciously, in the instances where you are looking for an oral top and they end up needing intercourse or jerk themselves.(instances where they are in control).

That explains my instance of wanting to stroke myself, even for a brief moment, as my preference in my personal sex life is to go back and forth with control. Your mouth can always gravitate to those balls in the moments it's not stuffed with cock!?

Happy hunting!

[orville]

Here’s the deal. My fetish/passion is oral cock worship. I look for providers that love that scene and really get off on making their dick the center of attention and getting serviced to completion. I get real tired of providers who advertise as tops telling me they love getting sucked off only to get there and be told that they can’t cum from head and prefer to fuck. When I find those true oral top feeders it’s a great time for all, so why can’t providers find a way to let prospective clients know that a preference? There are a lot of guys like me out here.

I hope this helps. Using Rentmen I first changed the location to Los Angeles which (out of better knowledge) I think is the biggest market closer to you so it can give you a decent shortlist after applying the following filters:

 

Keyword: oral (without #)

Escorts / Masseurs: Escorts

Services: Escorting

Preferences: oral

Position: Top

 

Looking up the shortlisted profiles I noticed RM website did something funny: after only 2 escorts in LA, it started listing escorts from New York, Dallas, Miami, London, Berlin. Maybe those are the only ones with the right requirements and worth giving it a try?

 

']https://rent.men/gay-escorts/losangeles/?page=1&searchView=list&searchKeyword=oral&escorts=1&rates-max=5000&rates-min=0&age-max=80&age-min=18&height-max=15&height-min=1&weight-max=41&weight-min=1&services[]=escort&profile_fetishes[]=oral&position[]=1&hashtags=[]

[sydneyboy]

Can I ask a very basic question? When it comes to oral it is not totally clear as to who is “top”, the escort or the customer?

[orville]

Can I ask a very basic question? When it comes to oral it is not totally clear as to who is “top”, the escort or the customer?

Sharp and pertinent question. Human sexuality is so diverse! I'm almost sure @Letmeworshipit is looking for an Oral Top Feeder, someone who almost exclusively gets off by feeding his cum to an oral bottom, that's why I filtered 'Tops' and 'Oral' in my Rentmen search, but that doesn't mean that there aren't anal tops who also enjoy giving oral, and I believe this would be kind of a turn-off for the OP. Having a shortlist would help the seeker having less people to ask for confirmation.

Edited May 6, 2020 by orville

[+ Letmeworshipit]

Sharp and pertinent question. Human sexuality is so diverse! I'm almost sure @Letmeworshipit is looking for an Oral Top Feeder, someone who almost exclusively gets off by feeding his cum to an oral bottom, that's why I filtered 'Tops' and 'Oral' in my Rentmen search, but that doesn't mean that there are anal tops who also enjoy giving oral, and I believe this would be kind of a turn-off for the OP. Having a shortlist would help the seeker having less people to ask for confirmation.

 

You are correct in your assumption. An oral top is definitely the feeder, the one standing or sitting allowing the oral bottom/cocksucker to attend tho their cock, teasing it, edging it, sucking it and eventually, draining it.

[+ Letmeworshipit]

I hope this helps. Using Rentmen I first changed the location to Los Angeles which (out of better knowledge) I think is the biggest market closer to you so it can give you a decent shortlist after applying the following filters:

 

Keyword: oral (without #)

Escorts / Masseurs: Escorts

Services: Escorting

Preferences: oral

Position: Top

 

Looking up the shortlisted profiles I noticed RM website did something funny: after only 2 escorts in LA, it started listing escorts from New York, Dallas, Miami, London, Berlin. Maybe those are the only ones with the right requirements and worth giving it a try?

 

']https://rent.men/gay-escorts/losangeles/?page=1&searchView=list&searchKeyword=oral&escorts=1&rates-max=5000&rates-min=0&age-max=80&age-min=18&height-max=15&height-min=1&weight-max=41&weight-min=1&services[]=escort&profile_fetishes[]=oral&position[]=1&hashtags=[]

 

Thank you so much for doing this. This is really sweet. There are some strong options in this list, some of whom I've noticed in previous searched. I will report back if I meet any of them. Having lived in SoCal for years, I can tell you that the L.A. area can be a difficult place to hook up. The traffic (normally) is so bad that getting anywhere is a time-consuming nightmare. If you are in WeHo or BH, most guys are willing to come to you. Downtown or an LAX airport can lead to frustration. I will spend some time reviewing this list and thank you again for taking the time to do it.

[orville]

I will report back if I meet any of them.

Send me the names pls. Maybe lockdown ends sooner than expected. Who knows?!

[thickornotatall]

You are correct in your assumption. An oral top is definitely the feeder, the one standing or sitting allowing the oral bottom/cocksucker to attend tho their cock, teasing it, edging it, sucking it and eventually, draining it.

That is correct...I make sure it happens like that..being an aggressive and determined sucker is a valued commodity.

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[JoshATX]

Simply ask. Communication rules

[+ Letmeworshipit]

Simply ask. Communication rules

I agree. How do you answer the question when you're asked...?

[+ Axiom2001]

And in all honesty, that’s exactly what turns me off. I want that niche of provider that almost prefers oral service over anything and really gets off on turning his dick over to a cocksucker to be edged and drained. It really is a disappointment to get with a provider who has to kack himself off the Cum. To me it says that we weren’t a good match in the first place.

 

People are not machines; nor are providers full of "love juice" 24/7.

[+ Letmeworshipit]

People are not machines; nor are providers full of "love juice" 24/7.

I agree. Nor should anyone have that expectation. Some get into the role though of being a cum machine and having a cocksucker see how many loads they can get out of them. That's a hot fantasy but not an expectation of prerequisite. Everybody, client or provider, have their niche or special interest. And since we're all human, they're all different and unique. I just wished it was easier to match the people who share those "niche" passions.

[AJ Doyle]

Here’s the deal. My fetish/passion is oral cock worship. I look for providers that love that scene and really get off on making their dick the center of attention and getting serviced to completion. I get real tired of providers who advertise as tops telling me they love getting sucked off only to get there and be told that they can’t cum from head and prefer to fuck. When I find those true oral top feeders it’s a great time for all, so why can’t providers find a way to let prospective clients know that a preference? There are a lot of guys like me out here.

I say just ask. Keep in mind though you need to be a good cock sucker if you wanna make your guy cum? I use to think I couldn't cum from just oral, but then this guy went down on me once and I came within a few minutes. So IMO it's all about skill level.

[Mo Mason]

Simply ask. Communication rules

Ugh. I would worship your straight alpha cock (and feet), literally for hours. Hours.

[JoshATX]

Ugh. I would worship your straight alpha cock (and feet), literally for hours. Hours.

Plural? All night till the sun comes up is quite possible

[+ Coolwave35]

I love oral guys. Feeding a load to a hungry sucker is my favorite form of sex.

[Guest Cayden]

Ask and you shall receive. Tell him exactly what u want, and if he’s into it, then that is exactly what you’ll get.

[Guest Cayden]

I say just ask. Keep in mind though you need to be a good cock sucker if you wanna make your guy cum? I use to think I couldn't cum from just oral, but then this guy went down on me once and I came within a few minutes. So IMO it's all about skill level.

 

I agree with this. Oral sex is similar to kissing in the sense that many like to do it, but far fewer are actually any good at it. I too used to think I couldn’t cum from it, until a really gifted client showed me otherwise. Not only can I cum from it but I can cum twice from good oral skills, but its only been with that 1 guy.