Two kinds of escorts...

[Sangohan777]

I’m young, almost 26, but I’m used to meet a lot of escorts, only bodybuilders/very muscled latino in general, though. I meet around 2 escorts per month. Sometimes, for muscleworship only and sometimes for sex, I’m bottom.

And each time, I met two kinds of escorts :

 

- Escorts who don’t care about me, who are hurry and think only on money. Once I meet them, they ask me to pay money first before doing anything. Then they are hurry, lay down on the bed and do nothing, or almost nothing. Some of them, just masturbate me very quickly until I cum, then it’s finished. So here, I pay the hour rate for only 10 or 15 minutes. Generally those escorts are brazilians, but not always. Even if they are very sexy and hot haha!

 

- The second kind of escorts I met are those who force me to fuck me, while I asked them for only muscle worship, for example. Or, when I want to be fucked, those who fuck me like they are fucking the Lincoln Tunnel, very hard, and don’t care if they hurt me, even if I ask them to stop.

For those escorts, all of them said to me, as soon as we met, that I have very beautiful ass...

Probably because I have an arched lay back and I’m only 1m70, 52kg...!

 

I probably met like only 2 escorts who were honest and exactly did what I wanted.

[MrMattBig]

Type 1: money driven/partner completion driven

Type 2: self completion driven/money driven

Type 3: mutual enjoyment driven/sustainable career driven

[CuriousByNature]

Type 1: money driven/partner completion driven

Type 2: self completion driven/money driven

Type 3: mutual enjoyment driven/sustainable career driven

 

Great summary!

[+ Tarte Gogo]

I’m young, almost 26, but I’m used to meet a lot of escorts, only bodybuilders/very muscled latino in general, though. I meet around 2 escorts per month. Sometimes, for muscleworship only and sometimes for sex, I’m bottom.

And each time, I met two kinds of escorts :

 

- Escorts who don’t care about me, who are hurry and think only on money. Once I meet them, they ask me to pay money first before doing anything. Then they are hurry, lay down on the bed and do nothing, or almost nothing. Some of them, just masturbate me very quickly until I cum, then it’s finished. So here, I pay the hour rate for only 10 or 15 minutes. Generally those escorts are brazilians, but not always. Even if they are very sexy and hot haha!

 

- The second kind of escorts I met are those who force me to fuck me, while I asked them for only muscle worship, for example. Or, when I want to be fucked, those who fuck me like they are fucking the Lincoln Tunnel, very hard, and don’t care if they hurt me, even if I ask them to stop.

For those escorts, all of them said to me, as soon as we met, that I have very beautiful ass...

Probably because I have an arched lay back and I’m only 1m70, 52kg...!

 

I probably met like only 2 escorts who were honest and exactly did what I wanted.

1. Don’t pay before the service has been provided. Then if one starts doing something you don’t like and which you said you don’t want, you can say “stop I told you not to do that. If you don’t stop you can leave now and I will pay you only half“.

2 if you re-hire any of them, make sure you communicate what you want and you only agree to meet them if they are going to do what you ask during the meeting.

[hypothetically]

I’m young, almost 26, but I’m used to meet a lot of escorts, only bodybuilders/very muscled latino in general, though. I meet around 2 escorts per month. Sometimes, for muscleworship only and sometimes for sex, I’m bottom.

And each time, I met two kinds of escorts :

 

- Escorts who don’t care about me, who are hurry and think only on money. Once I meet them, they ask me to pay money first before doing anything. Then they are hurry, lay down on the bed and do nothing, or almost nothing. Some of them, just masturbate me very quickly until I cum, then it’s finished. So here, I pay the hour rate for only 10 or 15 minutes. Generally those escorts are brazilians, but not always. Even if they are very sexy and hot haha!

 

- The second kind of escorts I met are those who force me to fuck me, while I asked them for only muscle worship, for example. Or, when I want to be fucked, those who fuck me like they are fucking the Lincoln Tunnel, very hard, and don’t care if they hurt me, even if I ask them to stop.

For those escorts, all of them said to me, as soon as we met, that I have very beautiful ass...

Probably because I have an arched lay back and I’m only 1m70, 52kg...!

 

I probably met like only 2 escorts who were honest and exactly did what I wanted.

 

Be clear in your expectations when hiring and these things will happen less frequently.

[Sangohan777]

Be clear in your expectations when hiring and these things will happen less frequently.

 

i really do, by text, just before to meet

[former lurker]

i really do, by text, just before to meet

 

That may be part of your problem, then. If you wait until "just before to meet", you're already booked with the escort who's blocked out the time for you. He won't want to cancel the appointment on short notice both because he'd be accused of "flaking" and because he's already forgone the opportunity to use the allotted time for other things or other clients. You need to be clear with the potential hire BEFORE you both agree to meet up. That way, if he's not up to provide what you want, he can decline the appointment without committing the time.

 

There may be other reasons for your disappointing experiences, but if you run into the same problem with multiple escorts, consider this: what's the part of this equation that remains constant? It's not the escort, because you're having the same issue with different escorts. The common element is you. So identify what it is about your approach that isn't working and change that.

[CuriousByNature]

That may be part of your problem, then. If you wait until "just before to meet", you're already booked with the escort who's blocked out the time for you. He won't want to cancel the appointment on short notice both because he'd be accused of "flaking" and because he's already forgone the opportunity to use the allotted time for other things or other clients. You need to be clear with the potential hire BEFORE you both agree to meet up. That way, if he's not up to provide what you want, he can decline the appointment without committing the time.

 

There may be other reasons for your disappointing experiences, but if you run into the same problem with multiple escorts, consider this: what's the part of this equation that remains constant? It's not the escort, because you're having the same issue with different escorts. The common element is you. So identify what it is about your approach that isn't working and change that.

Thats good advice for all of us newbies... thanks!

[hypothetically]

i really do, by text, just before to meet

 

Be stern, you are dealing with hustlers, after all. I’m sure that’s difficult as the providers are older/bigger than you but set boundaries. It’s okay to say “this isn’t working out,” or “that’s not what was discussed.”

[Sangohan777]

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[Daverwr]

- Escorts who don’t care about me, who are hurry and think only on money. Once I meet them, they ask me to pay money first before doing anything. Then they are hurry, lay down on the bed and do nothing, or almost nothing. Some of them, just masturbate me very quickly until I cum, then it’s finished. So here, I pay the hour rate for only 10 or 15 minutes. Generally those escorts are brazilians, but not always. Even if they are very sexy and hot haha!

 

I’ve had one of these experiences years ago using an agency. I now understand that I was only concerned about looks. I never talked about what I wanted to happen. Years later I realize that it’s critical that your prospective hire knows what you want during the encounter. Be specific. Even their attitude is important - BFE, rough and tumble, etc. All before you finalize. This really goes to the selection process.