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Because I'm PAYING This isn't a 'date' where I'm working to please my partner. I'm slapping down some cash to be serviced WITHOUT the worry of my partners orgasm.

BIG difference between losing your job as a cashier and choosing not to let you dump in my ass with a load of HIV. Sorry. That said....the likelihood of people being honest in general is low. So YOU need to navigate your own health decisions. Wear a condom.

Easy to explain: It's fulfills the fantasy that your partner is actually into it. I remember a straight friend of mine, told me he used to let old gay men suck him off when he was a teenager so he could buy drugs...I asked him what he was thinking about to get hard with a man. He said: "obviously I was thinking about that $50 bucks."

Everyone is in denial. I heard they were still fucking at dungeons and bath houses in the middle of the AIDS epidemic until the Government shut them down. Gay men, too frequently, think with their dick.

I don't hire a lot of escorts. (More inclined toward massage pros)..but even with them, if the pix are way off, then I'm not going through with the appointment. I understand that everyone uses their best shots and sometimes you find someone lacking those abs or gaining some crows-feet. So I'm not talking about minor differences. But if you're off by ten years and 30 pounds then you're not worthy of anything but the courtesy of the words: "Sorry. This isnt gonna work". I remember one guy asked me "what's wrong" and I said you're shaped like a pear and you're clearly a liar. The guy was at least 20 years older than his photos and hadn't seen his abs in a decade of eating cake. Be prepared for drama, because these types are a little mental.

Everyone has their own turn-ons. That's not what I am disputing. I am saying if everyone is ejaculating all over the place this is not " a massage"...this is sex-worker territory.

Amazing. Thanks for the blast from the past. I used to make that in college. Long forgotten, once I learned to actually cook. But I recall this E Z mix was actually kind of good. Lots of sauce so serve over rice.

To me ...when I am PAYING a masseur, I want a massage and maybe a Happy ending for ME. The issue of the other fellow ejaculating anywhere seems more ESCORT oriented than MASSAGE 🤔

I would have immediately lost my hard-on.

There's an exception to every rule. I don't know any "militant" wasps in NYC but I don't doubt there are some left on Park Avenue. I do personally find it charming when I return to Central Pennsylvania for the holiday season and everyone in every shop and restaurant wishes me a Merry Christmas. Innocently oblivious to the fact that not everyone celebrates.

Oh..don't I know it! I've met plenty of those myself over the years. Homophobes always end up caught sucking cock at the road-side-rest-stop.

So in spite of my personal impressions of the man...this $100M keep-your-mouth-shut deal DOES feel suspicious. What about their relationship requires an "IRON-CLAD NDA" ? 🤔 Radar Online - Sources say the couple did not sign a... WWW.FACEBOOK.COM Sources say the couple did not sign a prenuptial agreement before walking down the aisle.

I remember the pandas were a gesture of good will when China opened diplomatic channels in the 70s. I assume thst good will has run out over the last few years. So the symbolism works in reverse order now.

Is he an ex-gay ? Or were you just being sacrasitc ?

Are you an anti-vaxer too ?

Opposites attract.

Classy. I agree with this dialog. I particularly like the part about "saving up" for later. I've never asked anyone to lower their rate. But I have told people they are out of my budget. If they offer to lower their fee I simply state that my budget has nothing to do with their value. I thank them for the offer and move on. But that's just me.

This sort of excessive micromanagement of a teenager is just asking for mental illness. Very sad. Won't be shocked if he chops his father to pieces some day and makes a soup of him.

I've traveled extensively in Africa. There is a lot of bigotry from region to region, especially in Islamic North Africa about being associated with native black African cultures. So this doesn't surprise me. Also Cleopatra isn't some ancient myth. We know very well who she was and who is included in her family tree. Definitely not a black woman.

I've only been to the Eagle once or twice...but my impression of the whole leather / denim scene is that it is rather centered around a very specific segment of gay culture. Some sex parties also have a specific demographic. ( Piss Party for College boys or the Brooklyn Thug Party which is strictly for men of color) In my experience most of the big parties tend to be a mix of people. Not that you're going to find everyone is into everyone. I remember a young black fellow at Lou Marotta's Loft parties who was one of the most beautiful men I've ever met. Sadly told me, he was only attracted to other black men. 😥 To each, his own. No one likes rejection but if you don't try you're guaranteed to fail.

Profile definitely sounds like more of a Deli listing. I wonder if there's also a Rentmen listing for him ? Great looking guy if those pix are his and current. Pricing on Rentmasseur is definitely out of bounds for a massage only.

Psychotherapy takes a LONG time to be effective. This might be meant as a tool to keep things from getting out of hand RIGHT NOW. Seems like a good resource if porn becomes a barrier to leading a productive day. I had a neighbor years ago who rarely left his apartment. When he died, they cleared out thousands of porn magazines and VHS tapes. Must have spent all day / every day whacking-off.

Oooof. That's the sort of guy who could turn you gay. 😉

Jesus is the son of God. Jewish on his mother's side...😉

No one says "Merry Christmas" in NYC. It's always "Happy Holiday"...which I don't really mind because half my friends aren't Christian anyway.