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Seems to me getting accreditation as a masseur, whether you work as an ACTUAL masseur or as a sex-worker is a good pathway to financial responsibility.

Chatted with him. Seems nice enough. Definitely sexy. But can't host/doesn't host. So that doesn't work for me.

When I was much younger and started experimenting with men, I was meeting older men and I expected they would top, because I only liked masculine men, and I expected them to be dominant in nature. I don't think I would have WANTED to top them. So yeah...an older bottom would not have been appealing then and an older bottom is not appealing now ! My brain says older = top / younger = bottom ( same age is the toss of a coin ) 🤣

This I agree with. As part of my job, I need to travel outside Manhattan to job sites in Westchester County and Long Island/ the Hamptons. Sometimes, I will check my Grindr to see who's around. By the time I get back to my office, I've got dozens and dozens of messages from having signed on in a new area where it's just small surburban villages, and therefore, a smaller population to pick from. "New meat" seems to be welcomed, (no matter how close I am to my expiration date) 🤣

It may "work better for the young and pretty" and it may work better In "a big city." But I have a young (27) and very pretty friend here in NYC who says that guys will spend all day LOOKING because there's so much to pick from. (Honestly, I think he does the same). Always searching for greener pastures and never ready to commit to anything until they've exhausted their search. By then they're too tired to fuck.So they go to bed alone 😔

I'm a boy. Everyone knows I'm a boy/ everyone knows I have a penis....so where exactly is this "embarrassment" you speak of ? 🤔 Should a woman be embarrassed of her tits when she wears a bathing suit ? Should a guy be embarrassed when he wears a bikini swimsuit like athletes do for swimming competition ? I guess the answer is that there IS no embarrassment about anatomy in sport.

Grindr is notorious for flakes who are sitting at home jerking-off and seeking momentary validation. Maybe 1/5th of the guys on there will actually show up for a meet. Your lack of success is primarily due to the nature of the platform which is focused on instant gratification and anonymous sex, leading to some strange behaviors.

I was thinking more like leather daddy.

yeah. That IS weird. I responded to the previous profile, so it definitely WAS the same guy a few months ago.

When any of my nieces or nephews ( including in-laws) got married, it was always $ 500 cash with a tasteful card. Always appreciated. Use it for your honeymoon or rent. I don't care. But it's not some stupid piece of bullshit they'll never use.

Always a concern. But it's an occupational hazard. An athletic cup would be incredibly painful throughout the entire event, and would restrict your mobility. The referees do look at your every move and any "assault" to your scrotum, although possible, is avoided because it's a penalty and a point granted to your opponent. That said...mistakes DO happen. It's a tough sport !

$50K in NYC is pretty standard.

So in other words... he's on the spectrum.

One of the few who are honest enough to post their HIV POSITIVE status.

The last wedding I went to, the budget just for the florist was $10K. $10K is actually a small budget, unless you're planning a "bring-a-dish" reception in the church basement at your local parish in Arkansas.

Ive been to dozens of weddings. I've never once "brought a gift". Not to say you don't DO gifting. But wedding gifts are always managed through a registry or a card with 💰cash for the newlyweds. In my own culture we would not "bring a gift" but pay a visit in the weeks (or months) after the wedding to the couples home. We would bring food and look around to see what they needed and THEN send a gift. Rather an old-fashioned way of doing it and not something I am saying anyone expects today. But I always found it charming and also practical.

Where I grew up in Central PA this color is fairly common. Never realized until I moved away from there that its actually pretty rare. Living in predominantly brown-eyed New York people comment all the time.

Like snowflakes. I've seen a close up of my eyes. They are actually pixelated with a lot of colors, none of which are the color you see when you look at my face. Mostly gold, turquoise and olive spots that make my eyes look light green from a distance.

I like to watch two guys get down-n-dirty. I do NOT enjoy watching a couple make-out. I feel like I am interrupting their private romantic moment. Instead i want to feel like I'm getting ready to join in and cum in somebody's mouth, while the other dude licks my asshole. So in this case I would prefer my playmates to NOT be linked romantically.

"Recogniton" skills at that stage are typically: I know you / I don't know you. Not a lot of shades in between. Conversation usually revolves around their childhood memories which seem to be the most burned into our consciousness.

Wearing a cup would be incredibly painful. We didn't wear a jock simply because they can get twisted around underneath your singlet from all that twisting, turning and grabbing. There's no baseball or football gonna hit you in the nuts and it's a violation to grab somebody by the balls. So mostly you're ok.

I'm all-about the voyeurism aspect of a threeway, as long as it's about the S E X. I really don't want to watch a couple kiss and get all romantic. Ruins the "naughty" vibe that I'm going for.

This kind of V shaped torso gets me to reach for my wallet every time. Pity you rarely find such perfect specimens on Rent.men or other easy business sites

Clearly that's a case-by-case issue. I know men who were gorgeous at 20 and gross by 30. Conversely one of my high school friends was a skinny little weasel at 19 and is now a strikingly handsome 53 year old. Everybody ages differently. This is just MY opinion but I think in general it helps in the escort market if a guy increases his interest in kink-play as he loses that youthful beauty. Additional skills can make up for the decreasing eye-candy factor.

I have the opposite experience. I have had a few hook ups with couples. In both instances I was turned OFF when they started making-out with each other. When I hire I want to be the center of attention, not be witness to someone else's romantic connection.