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Without getting deep into political discussions, I think you better do some research about Canada before you just assume the grass is greener over there and there's no "weirdness" going on there too.

Same here. I used to see a handsome college student for Thai massage once a week. Over the course of a few weeks it went from therapeutic to erotic to me fucking his brains out after the massage. We never discussed payment for the sexual favors and I since didn't hire him as a sex-worker, I didn’t see that conversation as necessary. But of course, I did appreciate the extra attention and was well aware that he needed the money (as we all do)...so I always paid double what he originally asked once the "services" were upgraded to "full service".

Why ? Unless you're marrying the guy, the line is still clear that they're a paid service provider and you're the customer.

Oh...I'm well aware that there are admirers out there for this kind of thing. Just saddens me to see someone start out so handsome and healthy looking turn himself into a Frankenstein of a chemical experiment.

I think telling someone they are wrong about how they are running their business is ripe with insult. Although i understand you're wanting to share a different perspective and your intentions are good..I think you miss the effect of hurting a man's ego.

Nice photos....but as mentioned above they are from several years ago. (pre-covid)

I think your perspective and his are different. Who are you to "educate" him on his business model ? I would never tell someone else HOW to run their business. Especially if I've never been in that line of work.

To be clear: none of them were "escorts". I believe the key to "maintaining friendships" is to actually HAVING one to start. Some clients mistake polite business manners as friendship.

I was never even close to being that big. You're going blind ,(or delusional). I can't body-shame someone who's not in the room. (Including a chat room).

I keep in touch with several young men who used to do massage(+more). All of them departed NYC but always ask to see me out for a drink when they are back in town. I keep a casual friendship going through social media. Facebook/ Instagram/ Twitter.

He's already deformed looking. Any more sinewy faux muscle and he'd not look human anymore.

I may have been a "pretty little bitch" back then but my motivations were more.borne of naivete, than vanity. I saw "clothing optional" hotel and naively envisioned a place full of naked hot men. (This of course was pre-internet). Rather than being the center of attention, I waa hoping for more handsome sexual prospects to oggle. The reality of the situation was more of a sad retirement home vibe with men so fat you couldn't see their dick. (Which was maybe a blessing). 😉

Who said I did ? 🤔

If it were obvious I wouldn't have asked. Loneliness seems more of a personal issue, than geographical. So I hardly think that was made clear by saying he moved to Portugal. I've been several times. It's a beautiful country and the people have all been lovely...so I have a very different experience of the place. However I don’t live there...so his social situation may be different from the touristexperience.

His Instascam shows quite a few images of him all roided-out. Maybe not competition level...but none of the charming young man is left. He's an old slab or beef now. Body dysmorphia is a growing problem with young men.

I'm curious. What about it did he find "miserable" ?

To each, his own. I find him to be grotesque now. Which is a shame because he WAS quite a cutie before the juice.

In a perfect world... But in my experience it's always the "ugly" one who takes a special liking to me...and is in my face constantly.

A very important piece of equipment for obese people who are so fat they can't reach around to wipe their ass.

For us locals....all of this is about time of day. You're crazy if you take a car service into Manhattan arriving at LaGuardia during the day. Traffic will be horrendous and will take you twice as long (if not three times as long) as the public transportation options. So while an Uber may seem more "classy" it's the worst choice between 8:00 AM and 7:00 PM. A real New Yorker is well familiar with public transportation options for this reason.

Always the same problem with couples....I am only into one of them. The presence of the partner would only be a "third-wheel" to my good time.

The finished product looks like a gigantic cube covered in plastic faux marble panels. Like a mix of stark modernism and the basement bath at your Italian grandma's house in Brooklyn. A waste of material if it is in-fact real stone.

Of course ...the real thing looks NOTHING like these fancy renderings. This is a common problem with architecture today.

Hate the outside. Maybe @BenjaminNicholas is correct and it's all about rhe interior

What exactly does "Queer" encompass ? Is this everyone who isn't mainstream ?