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I was responding to Marylander's advice that massage "wasn't worth it." I disagree. I think someone can easily see a few massage clients a day @ 150 x 4 = 600 Escorts are unlikely to see more than one or two. 300 x 2 = 600 Plus - Jerking off someone on your massage table is far less humiliating than taking it up the ass for someone who you're not attracted to. ( Yes it's just for work ). I think massage is the more comfortable career choice for most.

It's a HIRE. No. You shouldn't be offended. You're not dating.

I haven't been recently. Will try to remember the name. And by "very upscale" I don't mean the Four Seasons. I meant quite upscale for a brothel disguised as a spa.

It does.seem to be a theme. I have never run into these problems because I am aware of what each of my friends are capable of paying for. So I adjust plans accordingly. For example an artist friend of mine invited me to an off-Broadway show for which she got free tickets through a lottery system. I picked up the tab for dinner. I paid $150 / she paid nothing. But she invited me to an interesting event none-the-less. Does it really matter that you go toe-to-toe on the cash ? I think with all relationships whether it's friends or live-in-lovers; it's about equal effort, not equal numbers.

People keep blaming the schools but research has shown that poor urban children continue to fail even when money is spent on improving the school and hiring "better" teachers. The failure in poor urban areas is about the parents not valuing education and therefore not providing the emotional support necessary to succeed.

Bangkok to me, is the most civilized destination for a combination experience of spa + massage + sex. I stayed at a spa some years ago with luxurious hotel rooms where you could pick out the boys of your choice and bring them to your room for a wide variety of services. 😉

I'm assuming "LeBoy" is a business. If the "back room" is a focus of the establishment, it makes sense that they would want to capitalize on that.$15 is pocket change now. Bills gotta get paid and the owners need to make a.profit on their efforts to.keep you guys entertained.

.....Like the IRS. I hope he's claiming an income and not just spending the cash. Because this video reeks of "arrest me" if he's not paying income tax.

I do agree that a lot of gay men are heavily influenced by the immediate gratification of gay porn. I've been saying this for decades.

I agree, Simon. It is confusing for people. I agree it's a spectrum. But it IS wrong to ASSUME any masseur is also a sex worker. Yes the fellow over reacted. But some men DO seem to think that sex work is "beneath them". So will feel insulted if you ask. I don't agree...but people have a right to feel the way they do. I've never insulted a single masseur because I've never made a direct request for anything beyond a massage. I book a massage. See how intimate it gets and then discuss other interests for a second session. This method of discussion has never insulted anyone, because after an initial meet its.more personal and friendly.

Indeed And the consensus is always that you shouldn't expect a lot of interaction when you book a sensual massage. I've actually had plenty of massages where the provider gave me a happy ending but didn't allow me to touch them in return.

To each his own. Some people find "monster truck rallies" to be entertaining. Watching pick-up-trucks with giant wheels crush other cars. So exciting ! No. Sorry. I actually wasn't entertained by PotO. So many more that I could mention where I actually enjoyed the hour or two.

Maybe not the most mature response but advertising a sensual massage and then being asked about "mutual touching" IS the same as asking if the fellow is a sex worker. So I can understand him being offended. Personally I don't understand why so many gay men just assume all masseurs are sex workers. "Sensual" doesn't mean sex. If you want more than a massage you need to start by asking someone who offers "erotic" services. I disagree with the "just ask" attitude. If you hire a masseur you ask about massage techniques. if you want to start touching someone's body to turn you on...he's right...hire a sex worker or someone offering "erotic" sessions. Otherwise keep your mouth shut. Take the session as given and discuss "other" services AFTER, for the next meet.

I have found its best to allow that masseur to perform as he normally does on a first meet. Guage the natural propensity toward erotic services that come naturally. After a generous tip, you can speak man-to-man about his limits in erotic services. I do think many providers don't like to discuss with strangers but are more open to suggestion with a good tipper.

I love your parents already.

Some guys hang-heavy. Sadly I'm a grower not a show-er so I never looked so thick-dicked in my singlet. I think the difference in appearance between growers and show-ers is why some people assume the show-ers have a hard-on .

Don't assume popularity = quality. I took my parents to see Phantom. Was like listening to fingernails on a chalkboard for two hours. It's an incredibly cheesy musical designed for mass-consumption by middle America people with no taste. I always admired Andrew Lloyd Weber's talent with Jesus Christ Superstar but Cats and Phantom were not at the same level of genuine creativity. Clearly, artistic efforts were no longer important to him and he just wanted to mass market and make money at this point in his career.

I was thinking the exact same thing.

"CATS". Hated it. Some theater-nerd friends from high school talked me into going. I was so upset that I spent all that money on that crap. (And a crappy over-priced lunch at Beefsteak Charlies). Worst trip to NYC ever.

This one is shy. Looks like he's wearing his Fruit-of-the-Looms under his singlet. We never wore underwear! Some of the really hung guys would wear a pouch that was constructed like a string bikini in the back so their dick wouldn't slide around as much.

DURING the match - no. You use up too much blood flow while wrestling to spare enough to get an erection. Before you start...yeah. that is always possible and fairly common. Most of MY erection problems were in the shower AFTER the match. Most wrestlers have an amazing ass and a peek at that perfect 🍑 peach always got me in trouble. Frequently grabbing my towel to cover my excitement. 🍆 So many sexy memories of my wresting days. Sad that I never got the nerve to hit on any of those guys.

We'd probably be in a better position if CEO's stopped stripping the middle class of their earnings. The float to the top is stagnating the "normal" economy. Impulse shopping in down with middle class wage earners because necessities are still at grossly inflated prices. As said before, you can't go by the stock market. Too much hype to run up numbers before the people who really know what's going on, jump ship, and start shorting.

To my knowledge, an "audit" doesn't pry too deeply into your business as long all your record-keeping is spotless.

I would do anything for Ryan Phillipe. What a hottie he was (still is).

I am flattered. But the visits to the Hamptons are during the day and I am back home to have dinner with my family. I am available sometime for lunch 😉