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Michelangelo knew a great ass when he carved one.

Well...that was an overnight so probably enjoyed the sex but not his place. NYC is expensive so young people sometimes rent real shit-holes in marginal neighborhoods to save money.

....And a gentleman would offer to pay a substantial tip for that extra time without being asked.

Agreed. I just can't get into it with someone who's job is having sex with hundred of strangers.

So...another pretty boy rub-n-tug ?

Quote: "You must did not read the ad before hand." Is this your idea of perfecting your message ? Maybe some grammatical efforts would help people understand your messages. But in all seriousness..although your argument for deposits-paid-if-you-want-to-get-laid, may be valid. Most everyone who's been in the game for a while as a client, has been burnt or knows someone who has. So there's no reason to get all flustered and indignant when someone says NO. Most everyone with experience is in that category, no matter how much you try and validate your pro-deposit business model.

Pity, you don't find this kind of gem online, looking for dick. My str8-boy fantasies always get the best of me.

This place has been around forever. It's a legitimate old-school sauna, not a gay bathhouse. I've heard of peope getting action there but it's NOT the focus and most of the men who visit are NOT looking for action...so cruising this place would need to be done with extra discretion. It's also old and run-down...so the "ick" factor is high. About as far from the luxury spa experience as you're gonna get.

I concur. Cute comedy with a competent cast. Was fun to see Lowe's own son cast as his son.

Yes. But as stated above, people keep voting for these people who are long past their expiration date in service.

Good to know he got clean and sober.

I would say the majority of men who "force themselves" to marry a woman, do so because they want to identify as heterosexual, not bisexual. But yes...there are certainly lots of people who are unsatisfied with their marriages that hire escorts. I would guess it's the people who live alone who are the lonely souls who get obsessed with their provider. Not the people who are married and closeted.

Clearly you are fond of this client because for most providers this situation borders on the disrespectful. Inviting a second person (b.f.or not) without prior discussion of this being the occasion for such a visit is unprofessional. Kind of you to keep an open mind...but you have a right as a professional escort to have limits to what goes down in a session.

Even a monkey stops pushing the wrong button after a while. You're still pushing the same button and expecting a different result.

YOUR reality. Look up Cognitive Dissonance.

I've been to events where single gay men show up with hires as their plus one. Nobody wants to be the sad only lonely queen at a black tie affair...so they hire someone so stunningly beautiful we all forget to pity him for being alone.

The answer to that has been banned on Companyofmen.org. "You’re not implying that racial discussions constitutes someone needing to feel disconnected, right? " I was observing that YOUR racial discussions frequently stink of bait. It's always leading to you talking about how your poor choices in life are because everyone's a racist, not because you make poor choices. Multiple people on the site have commented on your habit of complaining and asking for advice, then ignoring the advice, telling everyone they can't possibly understand you..and then going back and continuing to make the same mistakes so you can complain some more. The solution is called CHANGE. It's time for you to get out of the business and CHANGE your life for the better. And no...the world is not inherently racist. Some people are. Most people aren't. So I'm sure if you'd put on a smile and drop the constant complaining someone would be happy to bring you on-board with a normal job where you have a guaranteed salary and you wouldn't have to jump through hoops every day with strangers. I hope some day you dare to listen to good advice. Good luck.

Is it ? well...I was completely uncomfortable. But that's because I was the only hot guy in the place...so it was like being the fresh kill for a pack of (old and ugly) wild dogs. Wasn't fun at all. Will never do THAT again. (Even at 50-something I'm still probably in far better shape than any of those old-farts were )

I hope to fall out a window before I become a burden.

I think, a professional escort needs to remember that for some men, this is the ONLY sex life they've ever had. I often joke, that "if it weren't for hookers, ugly people would never get laid"...but in all seriousness there are many people born unfortunate-in-looks, who spend their life paying for affection. So it's not unlikely for one of these fellows to develop feelings for a regular provider. In all situations, it's a fine line for the escort to provide the illusion for the hour ( or evening ) but to keep reality in check after the session, and remind their client that they are a friendly service provider. It's sad that some people are lonely, but it's unfortunate that their loneliness isn't getting cured through pay4play encounters.

I once booked a gay hotel with a clothing optional policy, many years ago, in Fort Lauderdale. BIG mistake. Nothing in that pool that I wanted to see.

I hardly think you need to share a sexuality to have someone understand you're not skilled in finance issues. These days, any professional in any major city wouldn't bat an eyelash about a gay client, nor would they bat an eyelash that anyone gay or straight (or bi) spends more time focused on their own career than learning about investing.

I would happily throw the match, just to feel this one on top of me 😉