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Single use plastic gloves are mandatory in all food service businesses in NYC. You would die if you knew number of gloves a single delicatessen goes through in a days time. Times the number of delis and restaurants in NYC feeding the millions of people who dine out and take out every week. It's billions of gloves tossed in the trash every year.

Madonna was a pretty girl in her 20's. This A.I. photo estimates what she'd look like today if it weren't for all the unfortunate plastic surgery that has rendered he into a plastic blow up doll. It's such a pity because according to this guesstimate, she would have still been a handsome woman in her 60's. Pretty sure her 25 year old boyfriends aren't dating her for her looks anyway.

Yes. I have been researching those. Seems like most are in the Fort Lauderdale area, and the one's I've visited so far are a bit "seedy". ( in my opinion )

Yup. Same here. Nice facility, lovely dining room and good food. He hates the place. This one has a great social director and many people participate. His problem does very much revolve around being uncomfortable around a lot of straight people. Unfortunately, he has no family and all his friends have passed. He made no relationships with younger people outside of a few regular escorts. So now finds himself old and alone. Home health care wasn't an option as his eyesight and hearing are poor.

I am recently dealing with a situation involving an elderly gay friend. One of my long time clients retired and moved to Florida ten years ago. He's now in his 90s' and all of his friends down there have since passed away. He moved into an elder-care facility which is lovely and well run, but he's extremely lonely. He reached out to me a couple months ago, hoping I could give him some advice. I've been back and forth a few times searching for a facility that has other gay men for him to socialize with because he is of that generation who spent so much of their time only hanging around gay bars, and gay friends that he is uncomfortable being around straight people. They show him pictures of their grandchildren and talk about their family as part of their social life. I noticed this makes him feel inferior, no matter how much I keep telling him, that he doesn't need to be the same as everyone else, and he can share the joy without showing pictures he doesn't have. He just can't do it. It's a missed opportunity for him to be happy in a very nice facility, but you can't change a tiger's stripes so late in life. I think perhaps he never planned to live to 90 because there seems to be little planning for who's going to manage his needs and how his social life is going to function. Hopeful, I can find a facility that is more familiar with some Appletinis in the lounge and a piano bar where everyone sings show tunes.

SOLD. Wrap him up.

One of the big mistakes a lot of gay men seem to make is isolating themselves from the real world. Going to gay bars, gay restaurants, gay cruises and only keeping up with their gay friends. Straight people have large family affairs, weddings and children. One of the great joys in life (for me) is seeing those kids grow up. I just attended a wedding last weekend for my niece. Being "Uncle" whether by blood or friendship is certainly a resource for late-in-life love and support when you spend your early years being a supportive "family" member for the younger generation.

I love THIS line in his profile - "ɪ ᴀᴍ ɴᴏᴛ ꜱʜᴀʀɪɴɢ ᴍʏ ʙᴇᴅʀᴏᴏᴍ ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴀɴʏᴏɴᴇ ᴏʀ ᴀɴʏ ᴏᴛʜᴇʀ ꜱᴋᴇᴛᴄʜʏ ʙᴜꜱɪɴᴇꜱꜱ".

I've had terrible massages by certified guys and great massages by guys who aren't. Skill in massage takes instincts and the certification papers don't always signify you've got any.

His stories certainly are. Why don't you hire him and tell us how much is truth and how much is marketing ? 😉

YOU brought up the thugs. I didn't But it's not unreasonable to consider the possibility of thug fetish going bad and you ending up with actual thug-boys robbing you during a meet. I'm well trained with a pistol and martial arts. So doubting that any one is gonna survive an attack on me. Therefore I have no problem saying goodbye quickly to a fake

I didn't say they do. Just saying they're all over the place inside and outside my house. It's standard procedure in NYC these days. If I say more about the issue I would need to wander into politics and I'd get spanked.

Not in the habit of hiring "thugs" nor hooking up in "the hood". So I'm good. I can read the room.

You never shoot to kill for a robbery. That's asking for trouble with the courts. Always aim for the thigh, and immediately call the police after you shoot them. Make sure you have the attack on video so you can claim self defense. Cameras are cheap and easy to use today.

Like I don't have cameras all over the place already. It's NYC, dude.

It's NYC. Anything possible but it's unlikely a gay guy who's sucking dick for a living is carrying a gun in NYC. #1 it's VERY difficult to get a license here...so you need to obtain one illegally. #2 Walking around with an illegal unregistered weapon here, is going to land you in jail for a long time. So unless you're a drug dealer...most people don't risk it

I think everyone is allowed to quote an age that is REALISTIC. Doesn't need to be actual. Just believable. People tend to be shocked when I tell them my real age. So I literally exist in a different reality for others if I don't tell them otherwise.

Most guys who do sex work get off on being worshipped, not "giving". The idea that youre so desireable that somebody will actually PAY you to cum I'm them/on them is a turn on for the provider. I do believe that MASSEURS are more inclined to the "giving" personality than escorts.

That would end badly as I maintain an active firearm license. 😉

The pear shaped loser was in my house. You tell them to leave and call the police if they don't. Like I said I generally hire for massage...so there's no embarrassment for me to explain why this guy's in my house.

Once again. The Labor class takes the hit. Wage increases for blue collar workers did not adjust the same way it is doing for white collar jobs. These people already live dollar to dollar. Making everything more expensive by 20% over two years and raising their income by 10% means you're reducing a consumer class in their ability to afford basics. It's little wonder the middle class department stores have vanished and the suburban blue collar landscape is now full of Walfart and Dullard General.

Vinny: "I'm very Open mind". I guess when you join the mafia, spelling isn't important.

Because I'm PAYING This isn't a 'date' where I'm working to please my partner. I'm slapping down some cash to be serviced WITHOUT the worry of my partners orgasm.

BIG difference between losing your job as a cashier and choosing not to let you dump in my ass with a load of HIV. Sorry. That said....the likelihood of people being honest in general is low. So YOU need to navigate your own health decisions. Wear a condom.

Easy to explain: It's fulfills the fantasy that your partner is actually into it. I remember a straight friend of mine, told me he used to let old gay men suck him off when he was a teenager so he could buy drugs...I asked him what he was thinking about to get hard with a man. He said: "obviously I was thinking about that $50 bucks."