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Definitely. Not me ..but I've been with lots of men who do.

Agreed. I've told everyone if I can't eat it or drink it, don't bring it. The final straw was many years ago when a dear friend brought me the most hideous serving tray with a blown glass dolphin holding it. I was aware it was an expensive item given the scale and handmade quality, but it was tacky beyond belief, and something I would never actually use. So I finally just put an end to it, and banned gifts. I told everyone NO; unless they were determined to bring wine or dessert for a dinner party

Sounds nightmarish. I'm impressed you managed to enjoy sex in the middle of this chaos. I'd have been out the door already when I saw the dirty apartment. Meth addiction is a very sad reality for a lot of gay men.

Especially when you have men sharing their happy success in where to travel to get a massage and a blow job for US$50

Do a lot of men go to gay bars on holidays instead of spending the day with their family? Are the gay bars busy on Thanksgiving and Christmas?

I was a teenager during the AIDS crisis and just coming in to my sexual adventures. So there was never a point in my life where unprotected sex was an option. I see no reason be be re-educated about that.

I agree. Gift giving was always something you did for children where I grew up. This habit of constant consumerism is very American. As an adult, I would pick up the check. If someone has already done so, then I would make plans for another date to do something together. At my age, the companionship of a good friend is far more valuable than some useless tzotchkie they might buy me.

Bozo posted it in the thread above.

She's been "gone" for a while. But her body was still alive.

Exactly! I do the same. There have been multiple occasions where I am traveling for work and I'm dining alone, so I entertain myself by flirting with and chatting up the young waiter(waitress). More than once I've discovered a phone number scribbled on my receipt

Obviously culture plays a LOT into the population of younger men who find older men attractive. I have a friend in Thailand who's Irish-American/ 64 years old and still quite handsome and in good shape. He is always dating the most beautiful young/fit Thai guys that you could imagine. Thai guys who at a glance, appear to be able to get anyone they want, will clamor to get my friend's attention. Perhaps his demeanor shows enough class to indicate money or maybe it's that reputation that all Americans are rich..but mostly they are just attracted to the silver haired daddy look of a mature well put together James Bond, sort of gentleman.

Although I certainly don't condemn people for making money and enjoying it, I feel this level of consumption and display of wealth is tacky and reveals a grotesque kind of selfishness. Rather the opposite effect that Ms.Kardashian is likely going for in her public image.

I relied heavily on the mentorship of older gay men when I started experimenting with homosexuality in college. I knew nothing about how to meet people, the social norms, that not all gays were effeminate and that gay men had long term relationships. I am now in my 50s and they are still my friends. Young people today, think they know everything and that old people are stupid. So they wouldn't accept mentorship.

So basically you're saying you're a gay man 🤣

He's Australian. It probably never occurred to him that age of consent would be so old in California.

Nice looking pic. But have never seen the profile in NYC before. I'm assuming he doesn't speak English since his profile is in Spanish only.

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I used to see a cute young guy for Thai massage twice a month. In-between sessions we would meet up for (off-the-clock) sex. I was twice his age but he claimed he was only attracted to "daddy" type men. Otherwise he dated women his own age with the hope of marriage some day.

I am in my 50'a and I admit to being surprised by the number of very young guys (and women) who flirt with me in public. So I suppose it's reasonable to say it's more common today but then I'm probably in a LOT better shape than my grandfather was at 50..so health and fitness in older men may have a lot to do with this change in attitudes.

If you feel your clients want the boyfriend fantasy from you then you might try re-directing the conversation. The way this question was answered in the online chat previous WAS a bit harsh and it immediately iliicited a nasty reply because of that. Maybe try something like "We're here to talk about what makes YOU happy, not talk about me". If they pressure you further just say "I'm all yours tonight". Beyond that then just lie. It's all fantasy anyway. They don't need to know and you don't NEED to tell.

"I'm not single" should suffice.

I wouldn't fuck him if he paid me.

Yup. This is true. Todays report says she and the family are "refusing to cooperate with police on the matter". So I'm gonna take a wild stab in the dark and guess that this chick probably exaggerated the details of the encounter. Beyond that I DO think the California age of consent at 18 is a bit ridiculous. I was fucking my brains out at 14 with a 17 year old and by the time I was 15 she was 18 so technically she also was guilty of sexual misconduct. He was 20 and she was 16 (possibly 15) That's hardly the equivalent of child molesting. Most states put age of consent at 16...and he isn't that much older So seems much ado about nothing.

Thank you. Exactly my point. Not saying he's ugggos but "hot" ? 🤔 People need to be more specific when they describe providers. Maybe a system like karats in a diamond.

I was commenting on the habit of calling someone "hot" when all they have going for them is a big dick. If you like "regular" guys. Great ! Go for it ! Not what I was talking about.