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“Drawing up” is more common IRL than in literature. A lot of men are less invested in their own retreating testicular warnings - there’s so many other signals in nerves and the brain that provide an update for blast-off. But women observing the external signs probably pick up on it more when observing MM sex than they would if with a male partner inside them. I like a soft but weighty ball-stretcher to resist the internal draw - adds a nice dynamic of tension without a requiring a second pair of hands.

Clients looking for regular meetings are rarely unwelcome by providers. Chemistry must be symmetrical, which takes time to evaluate. If providers interested in an “arrangement” were seeking ONLY that, they would not be listing on RM. Assume that you’ll be getting the guy’s best effort at making a good first impression. You’re in the majority as far a clients go: Happy to pay fee for time. Happy to tip for extra fine service.

Courtesans. They’ve been around forever. Some clients like this arrangement. So do some providers.

Nostalgia for the days when women, brown people, queers and non-Christians knew how to stay in their places.

My nips are not hard-wired to my Dick. I appreciate those whose are. It’s a shame, because mine are naturally big and pale, and always get more attention than I find erotic. Timed well, later in the play session, and their being tugged/twisted has been what pushed me off the edge. Did nip sucker play for a while, but I needed a starched shirt and a jacket to be seen in public without having someone point me to the private milk pumping break room…😂

Nostalgia is a disease spreading too fast right now. Protests like this are just a symptom.

I’ve seen this guy around mid Wilshire and he’s pretty friendly to people in the hood, and quite a pleasure to walk behind on the street… I didn’t know he was offering fee for time. JustAGuy Anyone meet him?

We ask too much. Hunky Movers. One-stop Auto-detailing and Croissants. 🙄

Jimmy Carter is an example of living a humble, selfless life of service to others who can use the help. May his transition out of this life be peaceful.

I’m just recalling a friend who had found his size limits early on as A Gay. “oh, honey, the best I could do with one that big, is maybe pat it and blow kisses at it!” 🤣🤣🤣

It’s definitely Dame Pat. She had a lot of legit vocal training early on in her pursuits. Had she desired, she could have made it in opera https://bit.ly/3xy1DLC

A wide-ranging performer 😍😍

If you are seeking a lot of skilled work in from two men, you’ll have to ask them questions about training etc, how long they’ve worked as a team. Many 4-handers are provided by one good masseur and a boyfriend who’s pretty new at it. I found the two asymmetric “flows” to be a distraction. My experience is that who’s into you and who’s not will be evident in short order. I imagine others here can provide you with more things to consider to get what you’re hoping for.

HIV has relied on self-reporting from the very beginning. Denial of behavior for some created casualties in the hundreds. Understand the risks, be honest about them. Get tested often. And remember that other bacterial and viral cooties don’t care about Prep. I always trust Mr Hankey and a handle. 🎆🎇🔥

Spend some money where it’s needed most: Lighting.

Fell way below my expectations- some of the performances, some performances, but mostly in writing. Brooks Ashmanskas had horrible dialog written for him - should have written the repartee himself, as he’s a truly hilarious gay man. I couldn’t get through S1. I wish them well.

My hiring pattern has slowed down with time. Still haven’t stepped back in the waters since the start of COVID and will probably look this summer. Because it’s gotten rare for me, my retirement income would easily allow for (4) “E-Ticket” encounters a year. ••• If you don’t understand what E Ticket means, you probably aren’t old enough to retire🤣•••

Telling “first time” is a must if referring to sexual activity with another man. Disclosing first hire, what’s the downside?

So long as there’s no additional charge to the client per orgasm, you’re probably going to have a great time!

Talent (artistic, writing, building, acting, singing, musical instrument, culinary, any sort of talent) Funniness. I have the sense of humor. I want to be around a mind that tickles it.

Finding any provider who, in person, delivers on all expectations for the appointment is rare. Some of us have expectations in actual skill that outweigh those for sexual interplay. I sort out massage first, and if they also have an escort ad on another site it’s unlikely I’ll upgrade midway, but will have a second “hybrid” booked before I leave.

He’s gotta show me the peppermill first. In case he’s got a Rubirosa. 😂

If partners have an arrangement of “not ready for marriage but ready for sex” and they are not co-habitating, it may be easiest on the relationship to keep that arrangement after marriage, for a part time living situation to transition into under one roof. The older one gets, the more we like control of our habitat, and all of a sudden living with someone who’s out of that control, it takes adjustment from one or both parties. Live together first - if it reveals irreconcilable differences in how/where to live, there’s time to see if they might be reconciled, possibly in a new location, before legal marriage paperwork is the new hurdle to separating. Living, days on end, with someone with you love is great! Try it before tying the knot.

Masseur - doesn’t matter to me Escort- I need a pleasant face, with eye contact, and a genuine smile. More than that is a bonus.

Kid gloves. Elbow-length. And a beautiful chain with a sterling silver carabiner… 😂