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We’ve not been in touch since beginning of lockdown. But we were definitely work friends - we had (with “hurry up and wait” a big part of the work) a lot of time to chat. Never flirted, but he was a smart and fun colleague whom I still miss. Stumbled on a profile on FriendBoy while checking a link from this site - phone number matches, full face shown, clearly him. Still a pleasure to see him from behind…If he was a stranger to me, I bet a session would be fun! I asked myself what to do, and I answered “nothing” Has anyone encountered a similar situation? Actually made contact thru the ad? Hired? Gave a winking nod when social circumstances brought you together? Actually talked about it? I may text him for an overdue coffee, but would not be bringing it up when he talks about his new worklife. Would be a script idea for a film from Breaking Glass that would go straight to LOGO and maybe tubi. 😂

King Dwarf interview I find DB him extremely likable and hot in this interview. He’s an intelligent person, great sense of humor.

There’s not a cabal of men-for-hire around the globe who, in a glamorous, secure location, set escort rates over cigars and brandy, the way a barrel of crude oil is priced. An escort without regulars asks for the maximum the market will bear. A drop in client bookings can help them reassess their strategy. @Moke is correct - If it’s what’s preventing you from booking a meeting, tell them, and move on.

Personal meet-ups will always have a market. The difference in interaction between viewer/OFDude, and client/provider, having your parts engaging in person with same dude in person - vastly different. maybe like watching a band’s World tour on YT …vs making your own live acoustic music in a small room with other people present to do the same. Both pleasurable. Different desires. Providers have a baseline income requirement. Many likely work in some other field, full or part time. Escorting fell off in 2020 w/lockdown and JFF/OF became a way to bridge the gap for those who relied on it. As a worker, needing a specific amount of liquidity by a certain day, you weigh the total time and effort put into on-camera sex with hot men, vs the total time and effort to advertise, volley inquiries, book, prepare, clean if hosting, and fake 90% of your fun with a client resembling Archie Bunker. C’mon…

Any comments (from appreciators of legit bodywork) specifically about his pressure, technique and flow, then? I’m happy when “intuitive massage” is actually the product of his training, experience and empathy. No MT nor his nudity? Cool. He can wear an Armani suit, a cockcage with a pair of Ray-bans, a flak jacket and fencing mask or a hazmat suit if he delivers great bodywork. Does he?

“I think we are both into activities you mentioned in your profile” He’ll likely ask “what specifically?” Tell him. Be clear about who is doing what to whom in your ideal encounter.

In many cases, the difference is about $100…

There are times when a really great massage that ends happily for me is exactly what I want. If the ending needs to include more participation from the provider, I hire an escort with massage skills/experience, which are highlighted in a masseur ad and may not be in the escort profile. I’m upfront about what I’m looking for, and I almost always test a new provider with massage only.

The forum here is a place that discusses labels all the time. But only with a very specific line of consumer services and products generally not of interest to the wider public. In this line of products and services, sometimes various offerings are misrepresented, or require caveats of understanding in order to know what the price includes, or if the “product” is accurately depicted through words and images provided by the marketer. Labels and their accuracy prevent unsatisfactory business deals. Labels applied to off-market sexuality are sometimes useful, but only as a shortcut between 2 individuals, not as a descriptor of an individual to society at large. I am certain that I am a cis male whose only interest in sexual activity is with other cis males. The label that applies to me is “gay” and it’s a fair label based on how I describe myself. Anyone who rejects all self-labeling, and keeps their gender and/or sexual wants/needs/desires completely hidden, is safer in the workplace, and the world at large. But finding the person(s) they hope to have in their most private of worlds will just take a lot more time. Because “sexuality is complicated”

In sixth grade, midwestern public school sex education in 1968 included this film for the boys, along with “Boy To Man” a similarly produced educational film about the biology and plumbing of puberty and reproduction. Boomers were perhaps the largest generation to be indoctrinated with the self-loathing from mass-produced misinformation passing as “Sex Education” especially regarding the social (and societal) aspects of sexuality. No one ever came out while in high school.

Never ever have I heard it put so directly, yet not without humanity

Since the linear narrative format has been abandoned, I want to see a full set from Midge’s Act sometime in the 70’s

“I hate it when the person I’m laying to filth overhears me” 😂

He’s a great performer. I hope his suffering is minimal as he moves through this, wherever it leads him.

I am mostly interested in skills and intuition. Sometimes a provider will ask what I prefer, and I say whatever is more comfortable for you. As I lay on my stomach I let my arms drop, and when he moves them onto the table I say, please feel free to place my hands wherever you want. 😆

Perhaps the “hadn’t quite healed” and “anal fissure” are very different from what your buddy is going through. If he’s a long-time FB, have an honest chat.

I keep my expectations low and wind up with less disappointment… if I am certain I want the HE, I’ll pony up for an actual escort

I’m loving it. Would not want to binge. 3eps to go

Same hourly rate whether the rocks have to go uphill or downhill. Moving rocks is work.

Shave 'Em Dry - Lucille Bogan BIT.LY Shave 'Em Dry - Lucille Bogan Shaving used to refer to something else something else, it seems Waxing still just epilation… 😂

Hey, at least there’s still demand for what brings ‘em round!

I have not seen him since ‘19. He may now be more pumped and/or bulky? He’s a smart, sweet, decent man, with admirable sex skills and equipment, which will not have changed.

Cross check ads in LA rentmasseur and rent.men - many list on both the former will stress the providers skills, ambience, experience, etc. Say you saw the escorts website profile, so he knows your real goal. Many of the guys with both offerings have a bodywork/play package. Good luck!

He’s not cancelled in the zeitgeist He has lots more bile to spew, and someone will buy him the opportunity, just to serve their own goals. May the remainder of his life be filled with fear and dread.

I’m reminded of a colleague who griped to us at work about all the evenings she had to spend every week leaving bad Yelp and Amazon reviews for everything that wasted her time.