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Valentino designed for Women rather than sullen 15 year-old waifs.

It's giving "Dawn:Portrait of a Teenage Runaway" meets "Pretty Woman" meets "Maleficent"

"Interested" is such a broad term when applied to the location in question. Interested ...in hookup right now AT the gym? In talking about your workout? In getting your number to hookup later? In hearing your take on Heated Rivalry? In your favorite casserole recipe?? If your interest in him is reciprocated for any of the above, make eye contact and let yourself smile. Be smart about the first one, tho...

Mark, in NoHo Sweet, sexy, skilled and intuitive.

Always a good idea to be mindful of quantity when consuming irresistible and decadent delights of all sorts.

Personally, I do not use any of the offered interaction methods on RM or RMSR. I use text msg only for client reach-out. When the profile leaves general questions unanswered, I use COM for opinions less likely to have been placed by the provider. I generally know what sort of experience I'd like to have at the time I'm in a hiring mood, and most profiles are written in a way that shortens the list for me if a known provider is not available. I have had private exchanges here that have proven useful to one or the other of us in search of details. But sometimes, a blind leap of faith in one's own intuition can lead to a great time, with chemistry that's organic, and matched to my expectations.

There must be at least one other provider in that tiny barely-gay town who can delight you for an evening or two. Go find him.

Don't forget - they're paid only for their time!

If the individual in the gear is hot to you ...and for you... you might get into it if other gear-oriented roleplay is part of your wheelhouse. Ask him how his puppydom fits into a session with a novice to it. And if you need to get any shots first. 😂

Can't know if you don't ask. They may indeed know of one another. Having hired 4Hands twice, both with regular collaborators over a table, the two minds were less in sync than I expected, resulting in some conflicting sensations from different areas where they worked. If you have high expectations for each of these faves as a solo exchange, be prepared accept the dilution of those expectations in the actual session. An awful lot is reliant on 1st time 3-way chemistry. Good luck!

If youth is a definite companionship requirement, hiring the newbies is the way to go. Be a mentor along with paying for their time. If you want a professional (the combo of confidence, skill and presence, all taught by experience) you can occasionally find an overlap with freshness of the flesh. I'm the one who enjoys older guys, and when I see the pretty young things, I wonder if I'll even be able to hire by the time they gain enough maturity and weight to be my type...

If you're feeling a bit ripped-off, that's perfectly normal. Whether or not it becomes a reason to hire-no-more is up to you. In all of human history, sex is pretty consistent in its ability to disappoint at least one participant. One suggestion (you may have done this with hiring in the past) is to plan ahead. An outcall to a first-time client to a hotel after midnight is more likely to be taken seriously by the provider if you'd reached out earlier in the day, rather than waiting for the late-night craving to start. I made this mistake twice early on before realizing that "Available Now" is mostly advertising lingo, and as such, means only as much as the seller wants it to mean. They also have day-to-day lives, don't forget.

My fave No-Fail "bring an appetizer" - I bring good quality corn chips with this Hot Artichoke Dip 1 can artichoke hearts, drained and chopped. Non-marinated variety. (Frozen ok, thawed and drained) I cup mayo, full-fat 1 cup grated Parm or Romano Garlic powder to taste (1/2 tsp good place to start. Ground black pepper to taste. (Cheese salty enough) Mix in oven safe dish, bake 30m 350° till bubbly and lightly browned. I travel it short distances in an insulated container. Alt: add an inexpensive can of crab meat to it if you want it richer.

Selfies are particularly good for the scowlers. If your nature is lighter and happier, having someone else snapping the shot for managed angle of the eyes to capture a gleam in them while smiling produces a better result. If you're a tongue-out bird-flipper, no photographer can make you look more hirable, so don't bother...

Anyone can also offer massage - the difference legally speaking does not come into play unless a cause of action is filed, either against an establishment or person. How many of us ask to see training certificates or state licensing paperwork before we get undressed in some hot guy's apartment? I have had amazing legit massage/bodywork done by women. On this site, bodywork/bodyworker is rarely mentioned, because the gender (Masseur v Masseuse) is primary to our common pursuit, whereas knowledge, talent and commitment of the provider take the back seat. On the upside, at least, sometimes we get exactly what we pay for.

There is Therapeutic Massage and there is therapeutic bodywork. The former is what is mostly discussed here. You might find talented, trained, experienced hands attending to your needs going by either title. (The latter never involves the client nude and undraped, nor any touching of the worker) Once you've had really good bodywork done, you know the difference. Spas have more overhead, like wet areas, licenses, insurance to maintain - other massage places have changing/shower, maybe sauna. Individuals w/tables have less overhead but may hike prices solely because they look good, and offer upgraded one-stop shopping if client wants climax. So prices for legit bodywork are all over the map depending on local demand. Don't assume every massage to be the same for the rate/duration quoted. If you're clear about no sensual elements in the session, and ask about training and experience you can find good therapeutic on MF and RM. No explanation for wide variance in pricing, other than provider's confidence in getting clients in the market.

I hope he has a big glissando...

It's fair, and even sometimes imperative, to question everything you read - both here and elsewhere. Words on a screen can be written in good faith, and sometimes not. Providers perhaps have more motivation to misrepresent in their profiles, simply to minimize flaws. Reviewers on RM and have motivations of their own, and don't represent any more experiences than their own. Most mean well. Desire has always involved a degree of deception.

Not since the VH1 Slut Spill...

I loathe every form of latte/cappuccino, so I may order espresso after a nice meal, but never "meet for coffee" (I may drink black house brew on the rare occasion I'm out for breakfast.) Daily, at home – dark roast from Trader Joe's, generous ratio to filtered water, drip brew, black. I only drink what I enjoy, and save a bloody fortune.

Plan your hiring life around your social life, rather than vice-versa. You may develop a crush, and the way to push through it is infrequent rehires because you're too busy.

Perhaps your prior "sketchy" hires helped manage expectations, and I hope your RM fella delivered a good time for you!

SoCal Verizon customer here - no glitches in mine today. 🤷‍♂️

This topic posted here in The Spa rather than The Deli highlights the broader conflation of Massage and Escort services. If I am paying massage rate, mutual touch is nice but unexpected by me, so the only equipment that matters is a well-padded table. I personally don't bring a lot of meat to the party, so when I hire full service I like some heft inside the provider's shorts. Eventually inside other places... Massage? Physical attributes never as important to me as warmth, intuition and skill.

Essentially, it's no different from dating in terms of that getting acquainted phase, human to human. First date gets condensed when hiring, the physical language established in 15m - prohibitively expensive to linger over slow seduction building on chemistry, unless that's what's been agreed. So I think a lot of people find a 2nd, 3rd etc incrementally better to allow some savoring of each one to be brought into enjoying the next.