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    Wolfer got a reaction from + José Soplanucas in (Female) provider giving sex ed in schools   
    In Belgium! I just read an article (in a paper in Dutch) that apparently there's a female sex worker in Flanders that has been getting a lot of buzz because she was answering questions about sex on Tiktok. She was getting a lot of questions from teenagers. 
    Eventually schools started asking her to come and give workshops!! I'm actually so happy about this. Her style is incredibly unapologetic and open and honest. I think it's absolutely amazing that schools are contacting her. Just wanted to share this bit of good news. 
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    Wolfer reacted to KeepItReal in Hardest Part About Being a Provider   
    @leftbench23 @Wolfer  It looks like you are clients and not providers. 
    Question was directed at providers...
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Cbilly17 in Hardest Part About Being a Provider   
    I have to admit I'm a client who gives a (not exhaustive) list when contacting because the amount of times I've been burned by assuming that the info on the profile is correct is more than I'd like. So I do mention my absolute "musts" for me to enjoy the session and ask to confirm whether this is something that is possible to provide. I then move as quickly as I can to booking if we're a match. But I've had quite a few providers leave me on read because I asked more than one question in my initial text. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from + DrownedBoy in Hardest Part About Being a Provider   
    I have to admit I'm a client who gives a (not exhaustive) list when contacting because the amount of times I've been burned by assuming that the info on the profile is correct is more than I'd like. So I do mention my absolute "musts" for me to enjoy the session and ask to confirm whether this is something that is possible to provide. I then move as quickly as I can to booking if we're a match. But I've had quite a few providers leave me on read because I asked more than one question in my initial text. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from kyleham in Spas in NYC   
    Hush seems to charge quite a bit more than other Spas: 120 dollars for an hour. Shangri-la is at 78, or 90 with a scrub. Hush seems a stand-out with that pricing, almost double that of others. Any reason for this? Are their facilities squeaky clean? Anybody have any recent experiences? 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from JUWS in Spas in NYC   
    Hush seems to charge quite a bit more than other Spas: 120 dollars for an hour. Shangri-la is at 78, or 90 with a scrub. Hush seems a stand-out with that pricing, almost double that of others. Any reason for this? Are their facilities squeaky clean? Anybody have any recent experiences? 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from thomas in Spas in NYC   
    Damn, he looks great! 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from RBENJI in Spas in NYC   
    Damn, he looks great! 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from TorontoDrew in XXXMITCHXXX 411   
    Thanks for reporting back. Sad to hear he doesn't kiss as that's also a prerequisite for me and he's totally my type. 
    I do think he handled it well, parting ways without asking for compensation.
    Yeah the no kissing puzzles me. I once had a conversation about it with an escort (I was friends with him and met him off the clock). He didn't kiss his clients but would kiss his hookups. He couldn't really give an answer other then "I just don't". I wonder if it's something to do with them not being fully, completely at ease with the thought of being a sex worker and so they have to keep a piece of themselves "not for sale". I once had a session with a guy who would kiss but then absolutely refused to cuddle naked after sex saying "that's only for boyfriends". 🤷‍♂️
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    Wolfer reacted to + Benhby in Spas in NYC   
    I am sorry this situation happened 
    The main reason is that there is too much appointment each day.  And the pic attached is a sample about our daily record and appointment paper.  ( the day haven’t finished when I took the picture, which means the paper could be more messy 😕)
    Not every one can read clear about it especially for new joined guy 
    we ve tried many other ways to improve it. Like Excel in computer. But that requires every one be familiar with computer but unfortunately not everyone of us is. 
    this situation may changes in HK MEN because yura will be the manager without taking any clients. I believe a professional manager is  the best solution. 
    at last ,  we have policies about if the mistakes are made by us. We usually send 30 -60 mins free session according to the damage of the mistake.  If our staff didn’t offer you. Please don’t hesitate to ask.  
    And apologies again. 

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    Wolfer got a reaction from + MysticMenace in Brussels, Belgium   
    Oh there's actually one escort/masseur I can recommend based on personal experience. I forgot about him because he retired for a while but has since started again. Most of the time he's based in Brussels. Very friendly and cute and his massage is quite okay (I also had sex with him) 
    https://www.romeo.com/hunq/LatinguyXXL
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    Wolfer got a reaction from + MysticMenace in Brussels, Belgium   
    Brussels has a lot of traveling escorts. So even if I could recommend some, there's no guarantee they'll be in the city when you visit. I recently had a lovely encounter with a provider in Brussels but he's leaving today (he's from Mexico and has been traveling through Europe). 
    I did have a very good massage last week Monday with another provider but he's also the traveling kind and the experience as a whole was disappointing so I wouldn't recommend. 
    Sauna Macho is THE place to go! On Sunday afternoons (from 3pm till 8pm) the place is usually PACKED. 
    I know one provider/masseur. I don't know his rates since I met him as a friend but he's a dear and lives in Brussels :
    https://www.romeo.com/hunq/Hands-on-Hazel
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    Wolfer reacted to Jamie21 in How to bring up more with your masseur.   
    Sensual masseurs (or erotic masseurs) are sex workers - I prefer to use that description than prostitute because I think it carries less baggage - so anyone hiring a sensual masseur is doing the same thing as hiring an escort. You’re hiring to satisfy sexual needs. Ok so it will include massage, which if done correctly (sensual massage) will, and is intended to arouse. It’s a seduction. A masseur will have restrictions on what he or she may do sexually but then escorts will too. So it just comes down to a) what will he do sexually and b) what is his price. Clients should nail both those things down. But let’s be clear we’re not talking about sensual masseurs and escorts being different things, they’re the same thing (sex worker) which only differs by degree. I speak as someone who has done both jobs. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Hhuu in Recommended Place in Jan?   
    Well I'd say Portugal then. Right next to Spain and beautiful with hot men. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Colors in Men's Kink Clothing?   
    I'm fairly certain yellow means you're into watersports (aka pissing). 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Luv2play in Colors in Men's Kink Clothing?   
    I'm fairly certain yellow means you're into watersports (aka pissing). 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Just Chuck in Colors in Men's Kink Clothing?   
    I'm fairly certain yellow means you're into watersports (aka pissing). 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Cliff in Providers moving appointment times   
    Just happened to me this week with someone who I'd had an amazing prior session with. I was well annoyed and put me off of hiring him again, especially since he asked to reschedule to the next day while I was already on the train to meet him. I can't just turn around the train 😂
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    Wolfer got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Monkeypox a new worry for gay and bi men   
    I was able to get my second shot in France. I went there because supplies in Belgium are very limited and in France there's more vaccines than there is demand. France made it clear anyone from Belgium was welcome. I popped over the border with a friend a month ago for the first shot and now again for the second. 
    They were setup like a Covid vaccine center with a lot of staff... But only three people showed up for the vaccination that day. For some reason guys are going less and less for the vaccine (as far as I can tell). 
    Belgium has also started the intradermal method they're doing in the USA now. My shots were intramuscular. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from JUWS in Monkeypox a new worry for gay and bi men   
    I was able to get my second shot in France. I went there because supplies in Belgium are very limited and in France there's more vaccines than there is demand. France made it clear anyone from Belgium was welcome. I popped over the border with a friend a month ago for the first shot and now again for the second. 
    They were setup like a Covid vaccine center with a lot of staff... But only three people showed up for the vaccination that day. For some reason guys are going less and less for the vaccine (as far as I can tell). 
    Belgium has also started the intradermal method they're doing in the USA now. My shots were intramuscular. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from + azdr0710 in Spas in NYC   
    I've always opted to start the massage with a table shower. I'm not aware of spas that have "regular" showers. I would suggest to shower shortly before going there if you're not planning on doing a table shower. Hygiene and cleanliness is appreciated by all parties involved.
    Yes, when you've made an appointment you just say your name to the guy manning the front desk and say that you have an appointment. I've never been given a choice of masseurs, I would be assigned the one that was available. Unless I called ahead and specifically asked for a masseur by name (but even then it's no guarantee you'll get him). 
    Payment was always done back at the front desk, after the massage was over and I had put my clothes back on. The masseur will wait for you at the front desk and process your payment. I always paid my tips by cards also at the front desk, the spa keeps track of who's tip it is. But you can pay the tip in cash if you want.
    As for specific recommendations, I've not been to an NYC spa since the pandemic so hopefully someone else will be able to help with that. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from TorontoDrew in Monkeypox a new worry for gay and bi men   
    I find it frustrating that these articles don't say what the severity of the breakthrough cases is. Because hopefully it's like with Covid, that you can still get it, and test positive for it, but that the symptoms will be mild to non-existent. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from + nycman in Monkeypox a new worry for gay and bi men   
    I find it frustrating that these articles don't say what the severity of the breakthrough cases is. Because hopefully it's like with Covid, that you can still get it, and test positive for it, but that the symptoms will be mild to non-existent. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from + robear in Monkeypox a new worry for gay and bi men   
    I got my first shot today. I took the train from Antwerp all the way to France as the city of Lille was having an open walk-in day with the only restriction being you had to be a gay MSM. A friend and I took the first train out. Many, many of the men in the line were from Belgium as the vaccine supply (and rollout) is extremely limited, as are the restrictions for qualifying . Two of our national tv stations even came to France to interview the Belgians there. 
    There were not enough vaccines for everyone that showed up and the organization seemed overwhelmed by the amount that showed up and how many of them were from Belgium. Every single worker there was incredibly friendly and they were very patient with my limited French.
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    Wolfer got a reaction from kingsley88 in Monkeypox a new worry for gay and bi men   
    I got my first shot today. I took the train from Antwerp all the way to France as the city of Lille was having an open walk-in day with the only restriction being you had to be a gay MSM. A friend and I took the first train out. Many, many of the men in the line were from Belgium as the vaccine supply (and rollout) is extremely limited, as are the restrictions for qualifying . Two of our national tv stations even came to France to interview the Belgians there. 
    There were not enough vaccines for everyone that showed up and the organization seemed overwhelmed by the amount that showed up and how many of them were from Belgium. Every single worker there was incredibly friendly and they were very patient with my limited French.
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