Wolfer

Thanks for the tips! It was my first time ever and I'm still debating whether I enjoyed it or not. I know that I don't enjoy getting rimmed myself AT ALL. It's actually really a turn-off for me. It could very well just be coincidence. It's not the first time I've had diarrhoea for a week or so out of the blue. (Even when I was not having any sex at all) My stomach seems to be made from steel, but with my gut I have to be a little more mindful of what I eat. I've not been to the doctor yet, as they only look at it more closely if it lasts for more than a week. I did go buy some medicine at the drug store. I rimmed him last Wednesday and the diarrhoea only started Monday-Tuesday, so to me it doesn't seem related?

Well damn, I rimmed a guy last week for the first time ever in my life and I've had diarrhoea for the past four days now. UUUUUUUUUUGH Well, I work in watersupplies and our lab people say that our bodies can handle these kind of bacteria pretty well. We just have diarrhoea while our body adjusts and makes antibodies. After that we're good to go again. But I don't know about the one mentioned in the article specifically but they say it lasts for about a week No more rimming for me.

There was a quiz! And I passed! And OMG... There were about three cute guys in my class but the rest of the building was absolutely PACKED with eye candy hahaha. I kept going "Oooh, hey" every time a gorgeous guy walked past. It was in the harbour so there were a lot of harbour guys taking courses. Most of them with strong, lean physiques. Hahaha, that is ACTUALLY a brand used at the company I work for! Everytime I see "TROJAN" printed on the machinery I have an internal giggle.

My most preferred method is Whatsapp as you can have your texts be as long as you like (like an email) and can receive media (pictures, video) all in the same app. Also, Whatsapp has no costs when texting to a foreign number. I see more and more escort profiles saying to text or Whatsapp them rather than email. That they'll be quicker to reach that way. The other day I saw a profile stating to only CALL or email, aboslutely NO texts! I found that a bit odd.

You guys, this is coming to you live. I'm doing a required all day training for work. It's about safety in industrial working envorinments so there's some guys here who do mostly manual labour and they're big, strong, sexy and a little intimidating. And right across from me is a cute cub who I'd love to share a cuddle with. Oh deeeaaar, am I objectifying these guys? Hahaha

Oooh, I'll be in Barcelona next week. But I booked an AirBnB so can't host... (It's a room in an apartment where the owner lives too). Next time I'm booking a hotel. Thanks for the tips!

On the old site escorts could just delete any guestbook entries. When the Hunqz site was launched, at first that functionality was gone. They couldn't delete entries themselves. But I wanted to know if this was still the case, since the system has been updated several times since then. So turns out escorts can't delete reviews on their profile BUT they can hide them from other users. Which, in effect, is exactly the same as deleting it. Well, that just made all the entries completely useless. Because any bad experience will just be removed by the escort. Of course, if there's a steady stream of positive reviews then that's a good thing. But I've now become wary of a profile that does have good reviews, but not a lot of them and most of them with months between them.

From what I've seen in articles, STI's are on the rise in Europe as well. Did you know that the French actually didn't have an official word for "French kissing" until about 2015?? That year the word "galocher" was added to the French dictionary, which is a slang word for kissing with tongue. (A galoche seems to also be a type of boot. No idea how that became the colloquial term for French kissing ). Me, I absolutely live to galocher! About the bareback miscommunication: I was able to clear it up with the guy by writing this marvelously and obiously non-native speaker phrase: "Je fais le baiser toujours avec un préservatif." Which literally means: "I always do the fucking with a condom."

It's interesting you say that. I have noticed that when browsing Rentmen in the US, I seem to come across more profiles that have "ask me" in the safe section. Whereas in Europe it's a much less frequent occurence (that I've seen, anyway).

So! I'm going to Paris this weekend and have some fun activities lined up. Alas, the Brazilian guy has gone completely silent again after I missed his videocall. But I had paid for the bustickets so why not go anyway? Paris, je viens à vous!

It'll be my first time in 20 years being in Paris. I'm interested to see how I'll find it. I love the French language though not always the French mindset.

Well, we got a date planned although I have to be honest that this communication has left me somewhat unexcited for the date. I'll be in Paris for the weekend. So I can brush up on my language skills!

Oh hahaha, I was thinking it was an abbreviation or something. Of course it's just "not". Hahaha

Thanks, I was able to sort it out... After typing it in French again. But his way of communicating does not excite me... :/ What does PAS mean?

I contact a guy and he says: "We can be a good match, I guess. Nothing wrong with what you want." (I asked for vanilla sex with kissing) Then he completely misunderstands me (his first language is French) when I ask "I can come to you?" (As in, do you host). He thinks I'm asking for bareback (me cumming in him). So I say that he misunderstood and switch to French to ask him if we could have the date at his place. To which he only answers: "I don't do penetration without condom". As if he hadn't read my replies at all... I already feel like I'm pulling teeth here... Ugh.

Quote from the site: "What we don't offer is erotic sexual bodywork this is nonsexual, legitimate body treatments. So please don't waste our guys time by inquiring about erotic." But ALL of the guys in every single picture are naked. Even the group pictures! I understand that being nude doesn't have to be inherently sexual but it does seem to give a mixed message.

I hear you! I even started a thread on that couple of years ago: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/whats-with-the-no-kissing.108233/

That's what I think too. And I'm sorry to hear that happened to you. I also give second chances (especially if the connection is that good). One of my friends ghosts people, I've not directly talked to him about it but from what I can glean is that he suddenly just doesn't want to deal with however the situation has evolved and it's just easier to ignore it than engage, even if only to let the other person know there's no longer any interest. Update on the Parisian guy, by the way: when I came home from work today I had a missed videocall from him. So I text him back saying I was at work and he can call me back. I also called him back but no answer. He's been online since I've sent the text so he must've seen it but again... Silence. Hahaha. OH. WELL. Thanks! Well, I haven't found a local guy who was so open (as he was at the start) and excited to discuss things... And he's 6'4" (swoon), hahaha. I know it shouldn't really matter but I'm 6'1" and I don't get to share my bed often with guys that are taller than I am. (Okay now I feel shallow and superficial hahaha).

Oh yes, absolutely! Love, LOVE deep kissing. I've had two guys with whom I was kissing and suddenly we both just held our tongues in each other's mouth and didn't move while our hands kept stimulating other parts of our bodies. I'd never done that before but it was amaaaaazing. Seems like I should ask more if guys would be willing to explore my body with their mouths... Because I really enjoy that.

I did have a sort of plan B guy. Another Brazilian I've been eyeing for a while in Paris. But I couldn't reach him before I would've had to take the bus and also the wind got knocked out of my sails somewhat. So I decided to stay home and buy a guitar. I'm learning to play now.

I just wanted to get this off my chest so I can let it go and move on. Last week I contacted a Brazilian guy who's located in Paris. About 250 miles from where I live. We hit it off instantly, from our texting it was clear we were sexually a great match and we set up a date for last Monday. I was to come to Paris by express bus for the day (just to see him). Since we had a couple of days before our date I intermittently texted him my fantasies and my preferences and that made him even more excited to see me. On the morning of the date, I get up at five and see he sent a text at 2am saying he's been feeling sick all night and has to cancel. But he offers to either refund my bus tickets or pay for new tickets so we can reschedule. Since our interactions had been so great I decide to reschedule and so we start texting back and forth, everything seems fine. Then I go into work but don't bring my bone phone (which is my escort phone). When I come home I see he sent me a text a few hours ago asking me if we could Facetime. I reply that I'm available the rest of the night and would like to confirm for Saturday (the date we had been discussing to rechedule). And that's six days ago. I have not heard anything from him... And yes, I'm a bit sad because the chemistry in our texts was palpable. As far as I can tell, he's fine, because he's logged in on Planetromeo and I've seen him online in Whatsapp... I just find it odd how he can go from being so courteous and pleasant to... Well, ghosting me. I know, I know, move on. Which is what I am doing by posting this. I just wanted to have a bit of a pity party first. So say: "Aaaw, I'm sorry to hear Wolfer. Looks like you were really looking forward to meeting him! There's plenty of other great, amazing guys out there!" So I hired another guy last Wednesday who was back from Mexico and with whom I had had a wonderful date last time he was visiting Belgium. But now he was supertired (he had just arrived the day before after a 12 hour flight) and it was a heat wave and he hadn't showered, didn't have lube and it was obvious he was totally not into it. The nice things were the cuddling and showering we did together before he rather forcibly pushed me out the door at the stroke of the hour. OH. WELL. It's put me off of hiring again for a while. My bank account thanks me. Hahahaha. Thank you for joining my pity party. Kiss, kiss, hug, hug.

That's so interesting. I get no extra stimulation from my nipples. Like zero. I even get a little annoyed if a guy plays with them too long. I always love seeing how diverse we are when it comes to sexuality. I recently discovered (thanks to an adventurous guy) that I love having my feet licked and my toes sucked (gently). Although I don't find it necessarily sexually stimulating, rather very relaxing.

Oomph, yes!! So hot!

That's odd... I've not had that problem. I've only posted two reviews on there, though. One in 2015 and one last May. Never had that pop up.

Oh, yeah and also on either side of your balls. A guy licked me there once while jerking me off. It was intensely pleasurable. I haven't met a lot of guys who know about this spot, but the ones I've done it to were very enthusiastic about it.