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I've sent you a pm

Is it possible to get his contact information? I would be very interested in having a session with him. Thanks!

Would you be okay asking him if he's at a new spa? (Or gone private)

Did he say if he's at another spa and which one?

Aw man, I don't like negotiating. It kills the mood for me. I'd hoped to go to Shrangila some more.

Is Supermens Spa where Rodrigo went? Do they ask for upsells at Supermens?

Are you sure Rodrigo has left Shangrila? Do you know where he's gone?

And for this I'm happy that Europe still has an active gay-only bathhouse culture, although they have been (sadly) declining in many cities. The best ones are full service spa's with the added benefit of free lube, condoms, dark rooms and cruising is encouraged everywhere, especially in the steam room! I understand that it's fun to have sex in such a setting (I love the bathhouses here in Europe!) but I also understand why the spa owners would crack down on that, given that they probably want it to be a regular spa experience and they don't want to get a reputation to put off new customers. Maybe a gay bathhouse in NYC might be an idea? Or is that not possible because of regulations? I do find it odd that there don't seem to be any when in Brussels alone we have five! And two in another, smaller city and Germany has a lot of offerings, even in smaller cities.

Yeah that's interesting for sure that he lists kissing since when I texted last with him he said no to that. But that's over a year ago now. And now he's gone over to the bottom side? That's an unexpected but(t) welcome development!

So Shangrila and Utopia have the same owner? I find it odd there's a price difference then. Do both these places welcome walk-ins?

So is K-town a regular spa or a gay bathhouse? If it's a regular spa, is it particularly gay friendly?

I have this fantasy where it's all supposed to be a legit massage (with a table and everything) but then it escalates to full-on playtime. I think it's best to hire an escort who would also be good at massage (and have a table) and be up for it (and preferrably vers or bottom). I'm looking for recommendations in NYC. Thanks! Their physical attributes are less important (toned and hairy are nice but not a requirement), I'm more attracted to guys who are nice, friendly, approachable and can put me at ease.

Thanks for all the recommendations, Caleb certainly is interesting to me.

Thanks for the reply. From what I've read Shangrila seems to be a good place for me to go. The only thing I was wondering about is whether Simon was still at Utopia. Earlier in this thread it was mentioned he might be working at New Hero spa now but they try to upsell during the massage which is a complete turn-off for me.

Hey all, I'll be in NYC in two weeks. I'm thinking of getting a massage when I'm there and looking for recommendations. These are the things important to me: - masseur very friendly and personable - sensual incorporated throughout (not just tacked on at the end) - perform nude (not required) - interactivity would be nice (but not required) As for the physical aspects, I don't have strong preference either way. Personality and charm are more important to me. But hairy, toned and over 25 (can be younger, I'm just looking for mature minded guys).

I'll be in NY in two weeks. Last year I had an amazing session with Simon at Utopia, is he still there? Are there any great spa's to check out. I'm mainly looking for a sensual experience.

It used to be like that for me too (I'm uncut). You can let your penis get used to the sensation by keeping your foreskin pulled back while wearing underwear and going about your day. It's uncomfortable at first but you get used to it. But there's nothing out of the ordinary with that reaction, I think. It's well known that uncut penises (penii?) are more (maybe even much moreso) sensitive than cut peniseseses.

That was nice!

The cancelling is annoying but it's good that they at least let you know something. What I find really frustrating is when they ghost you when you try to reschedule. This is happening to me right now... I had confirmed a date with an escort (already met him before) in Paris. So after he confirmed our date an time, I book my tickets to Paris. Yesterday I double check that we're still confirmed and this morning I wake up to find a message from the escort that ooops he got his schedule wrong and has to cancel. So I ask him if we can meet up today instead (our original date was to be tomorrow). He's been online since I texted him, even logged in to his profiles yet hasn't answered. Time to move on, I guess. But still...

I book mostly the day of or at most a couple of days in advance. Almost every time I've booked more than that in advance things went awry (escort got the date wrong, or just completely forgot, got the wrong time, thought I'd booked one hour instead of two ...)

I wish I had the courage to speak up. It's happened quite a lot recently (especially with the younger twenty-somethings). They're texting as I come in, dive for their phone the minute playtime is over and one even started texting other clients while I was putting the condom on mid-sex. It's like, what do you say? How do you respond?

I would pass.

Did the teacher give you the massage? And was it a massage with extras?

You can have a private one on one session in the nude? Didn't know that!

Thanks! Yeah, I wanted to try something different as usually my posts are a sort of bullet point list of stuff that happens. It was such a weird experience. All the time I was thinking "Is this a sitcom? A weird comedy movie?". I would expect to see this in a movie or series but in real life? I was just so dumbfounded (and thinking with my dick) I stayed longer in the situation than I should have. He even tried to make me clean his hotel bathroom!! I felt like "mugging the audience" so much (which is where an actor turns to the audience with a surprised or knowing look, especially in comedy as if to say "Is this for real?"). Thanks! Yeah, I was laughing and crying at the same time internally when he was douching. I know, right? True. It's so easy (and tempting) to confuse real interest with someone just wanting something from you. Of course, I was no innocent in the situation, the fact that he was hot and I thought he was attracted to me made me want to have more time/sex/cuddles with him. So I wanted to get something too.