Wolfer

Seems like mister playboy is a player ?

My news come from the general world news but also from a few Brazilians I know. The unrest seems to have heated up more than say 2-3 years ago given the political situation much like various extremists have become more visible and vocal in the US since Trump's presidency. One Brazilian though told me that Brazil is larger than Europe so saying there's "unrest in Brazil" is a bit of a too big a statement simply given the size of the country.

Even if the pandemic wasn't happening, would travel to Brazil be advisable? The country seems to not be very stable at the moment.

Oh my what a shitshow. Luckily he didn't make much of a scene at the hotel and did it mostly over the phone. I had scheduled an overnight and as I'm driving on my way over the escort texts me asking if it'd be alright if we went straight to sleep upon my arrival (at 8pm!) because he was tired from staying up all night the night before and wanted some rest. (the overnight had been booked weeks in advance, so it's not like he didn't know)

Well this would be a completely surefire way to make me not hire someone a second time. What tactic is this? "I'm giving you a lesser quality service now, but if you'll hire me again, then I'll give you the full quality that you're paying for." The reason I hire someone again is because they fucking blew my socks off, rocked my world and gave me a 1000% from the get go. None of this "carrot on a stick" bullshit.

I've considered it but never gone through with it. The rod that broke the camel's back was when a guy who I knew was into me (we'd almost hooked up regularly) had recently started escorting and hit me up on Scruff trying to get me to come over only to spring it on me he was also wanted to be paid. I declined.

I've contemplated it but like others said it would ruin the fantasy. I have no time nor tolerance for "working" escorts on the apps. There are dedicated spaces to advertize your services and I will go there when I want to hire. It is self-esteem shattering when a guy starts chatting you up and then goes "as long as you pay, lol". I won't go so far as to report the profiles but I do fully support the app owners of doubling down on banning them. The apps are already such a shitshow of spam-bots, fakers, flakers, cat-fishers... it doesn't need even more profiles on there that aren't part of its intended usage.

Same!

Sad to see some bars closing where I had a good time. I don't understand what long term strategy these landlords have who are forcing those businesses to close... Wouldn't it be more financially beneficial to still have the property occupied by a business ready to open than have a building that currently has no tenant and, given the expected shrinking of the economy, might not find another tenant that easily.

Well if he wouldn't answer the question, I wouldn't book a session so either way he'd lose me as a client.

He seems to have racked up quite a number of good reviews in the few weeks he's been on Rentmen

Hahaha, that gave me a chuckle!

Escort lists himself as "vers/bottom" When I enquire about a meeting he says: "Sorry, I prefer to top"

I mean, I kinda wanna see those videos now

Well, isn't the one with a q the one mentioned here? And hasn't the previous 4 page thread convinced you it's the same fake ad with just a different name?

Please give an update, I'm curious too! I was considering hiring when I was in NYC last year didn't in the end. Exactly, he seems so personable on his Instagram. Kinda disappointing to hear that when there's no "interest" on his part in the client he can't even bring himself to at least fake some base-level social warmth.

Good for you! (And I don't mean that sarcastically) For some reason if a provider behaves like that with me it's a turn-off... Even if he'd be more excited to meet me after seeing a picture of me. I guess it's because I have this weird quirk where I expect a masseur to provide consistent service independent of what I look like. I would decline if a masseur could not commit to what I'd be looking for regardless of my looks. Yeah, it's sometimes tiring in my mind, hahaha.

That's awesome! Have fun

I'm from Europe where we've got some good bathhouses and they've been closed since early March. I used to go about once a month and didn't realize how much of a stress release they were for me. I was never on any apps because if I felt like getting sexy with someone I'd hit the bathhouse. I got on Tinder and Grindr just to get some semblance of human (digital) interaction and in the hopes of finding a quarantine cuddle buddy (you know, after making sure we're both healthy we'd only cuddle each other) but those apps just feel like dumpster fires, hahaha. In a bathhouse you can just look at a guy and feel a connection (or not) and then just explore each other. On an app it feels like pulling teeth, herding cats, juggling cones and applying for a job all at the same time. By the time you finally agree on everything, all the sexy is just drained out of it. I already deleted Grindr again and my Tinder profile is back to non-active. But I feel like I'm going insane. I don't even want sex that much at this point, I'm internally screaming just to be touched and have a deep, meaningful conversation.

Oooh, that's an interesting thought. Might have well been that!

You're looking super hot. I could go to town on that ass for sure ? Maybe you could also install Whatsapp? It's not that relevant nowadays with the travel lockdown but guys visiting from Europe use Whatsapp to text US numbers

Yes

I couldn't help myself and reached out to him to point out the discrepancies between the body of his ad and the stats. He was kind enough to respond. He said that position and dick size are mandatory fields and cannot be left blank.

Sadly most of the guys I've done this with lately have almost all been posting content that could go on their Instagram. Or cropped out their dick or put an emoji over it ?

Yeah, I don't get this at all... It is perfectly possible to leave those fields blank. As far as I know, Rentmen does not force you to fill those out so why would he offer up this information about not only his dick but also the fact that he's versatile? The other day I contacted a provider who had "vers/bottom" on his profile only for him to say "Sorry, I prefer to top". ??