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To me apparently it is. As for feelings, I don't think so. There was four months between this session and the previous one. I said yes to this one cause I needed a stress release. In any case, the cutting short of sessions does seem to bother me enough to feel like it is an issue. I know there's men who don't mind getting kicked out after sex but I do, especially when I'm paying and there's still ample time left on the clock.

Did you bring it up to him? If you did, how did he respond?

That's the question, isn't it? Is the stress release and good sex worth the disrespect, disregard and feeling used by him? Sometimes I swing one way, sometimes the other.

Hahaha, thanks for the compliment! 😁😁 Oh no, I don't feel like you do that at all. I appreciate the lightheartedness and the empathy shown! It has actually helped. Hahaha, aaw, thanks! 😘 And thank you for your empathy, it's comforting to hear.

That's just the package he offers as standard. Not really sure how he came up with it. He's fairly new to the business.

In all the years I've hired I've always found either a good masseur who wouldn't escort or an escort who wasn't a good (or even trained) masseur. This guy has both, is good at sex and is physically completely my type. So not too sure I'll find one like him again quickly. It has been very helpful! It's like you crystillazed it down to its essentials. So thanks again! Oh and definitely about the timer thing. I'm letting that go. Just so disappointing. Yeah, I've been absolutely frazzled with stress lately because of life and after the date I could feel all that stress had been emptied out of my body so to then realize I would have to stop seeing him and lose such a stress release... Ooph. He's from France and speaks perfect English and has Brazilian roots and an artist (paint and wood) so we had quite a few connecting points. I just think he got stars in his eyes when he realized he could get paid to fuck a guy he was actually physically attracted to and forgot there was a person at the other end of his penis. He's very very new to the business and has only offered massage services. So I think he just sort of started treating me as a hookup because he lacked previous experience as a provider with clients. It was... He is really good at sex. Which just makes it even more disappointing, hahaha. Ugh fffffiiiiiiiiinnnneee 🤣🤣🤣

I love your write-ups. They are so concise and excellently recap the advice! Thanks! Yeah looks like he's over me after me mentioning the time hahaha. We'll see! But yes, I hope I won't cave next time he comes knocking. Why would I? Part of me still wants to delude myself apparently. It's... Well. Ugh. Anyway, why be jealous? All I'm left with is genuine disappointment and I also had a bit of a cry over it. (not just over this alone, but things have been piling up and he was an excellent stress release 😔 one of the very very few I have) Hahaha you'd have to come to Brussels. I think on first sessions he's amazing and for clients who stay purely massage clients probably also. I just think, given he's very new to the business and was never an escort, he got me mixed up with treating me as a hookup instead of as a client. Anyway, I'm going to put on sunglasses and a big scarf and wail on a bench in the park. Mourning over losing this hot piece of ass. Well, dick, cause he fucked my hot ass.

I let him know today and he flat out denied he ever cut a session short and said he has given me more than 70 minutes every single we've met... I must be misreading the timer on my phone 🤔 I'm really disappointed because I've had lots of fun with him before 😕

Oh wow, I've never heard that line of reasoning before. I let him know about the length of the sessions and he completely denies it. Says that he has the impression he always gives me more than 70 minutes... The timer on my phone disagrees.

This is such a good and insightful response, thank you! "but that's not what this is. He's wanting ass on demand and to also be paid." Absolutely, you took the words right out of my mouth. And yeah, I'm still sort of open to meeting him... The sex and massage (if he gives one) are incredibly good. I texted him to let him know I was disappointed he cut our sessions short. His answer? Telling me he gives me way more than 70 minutes each time. 😂 The timer on my phone disagrees 😂😂😂 (I ran a timer last time to make sure I wasn't making a mistake with the time) Yes, I feel like he didn't even appreciate my business as a client, just there to get my money. I told him about him cutting sessions short and he denies it. 🙄 Even though I had a timer running on my phone to make sure I wasn't imagining things...

There's a provider I've met a few times. First time was absolutely mindblowing and no clock watching at all. Second time he was somewhat rushed and felt like he wanted me to leave and the session was short. Thinking it an exception I did meet up for a third time. The sex was again amazing and he was friendly but after the sex was done we still had about 40 minutes (of the 70 minute session) but he suddenly really started making it clear he wanted me to leave. Since all other factors, other than cutting the session short, are good (great even) I wanted to text him this: "I've been a bit disappointed with our last two sessions because it felt like, after sex, you wanted me to leave as quickly as possible. This meant that both sessions were very short. If we meet again in the future, I would really appreciate it if we could enjoy the full 70 minutes I am paying for. Once those 70 minutes are up, I will leave faster than lightning, hahaha." I'd love to hear your thoughts and feedback.

Omg talk me off the ledge, please, hahaha. I started wondering what I was complaining about since I realized he's basically giving me full escort services at massage rates. But I can't get over the fact he's scheduling me and cutting our sessions short. Maybe if he'd be more generous with post-sex interaction (which he was when we first met) I'd still consider it. Uuuuugh. Hahaha. 🤪🥴 Time to put on my big boy pants

I knoooooow, hahahaha. I hadn't been touched in months and was seriously touch starved so I was open to meeting. But yeah, I have no interest anymore. Even though I'm really happy I went because I again learned a lot about myself and some parts were really hot.

Gave an update in the previous post!

I don't know, I never saved his profile and the exchange was over text. He advertized in Europe, though.

So I thought I'd give an update. Over the past few months we occasionally exchanged texts but no meeting materialized. Then this morning he texted me, asking if we could meet. Since I've been really stressed and could use a massage I thought why not. I ask him if he's available tonight. He says he's not, he's meeting a friend but he can reschedule. I reply that's not necessary and we can meet another time but he keeps... Being enthusiastic? So I let him reschedule his friend and we schedule a meet later that night. (I was halfway between feeling flattered and wondering if he needed money, hahaha) So anyway, session is really short, about 30 minutes. He goes straight to fucking me, no massage at all. (his sessions are normally 70 minute massages for the rate I pay). So when we're cuddling I ask if he could still give me a back and neck massage to which he says "if we still have time" (we absolutely still had half an hour left) and at that moment I was over it, hahaha. He did give me a massage but then put on his clothes and made it VERY clear I was expected to leave. The whole thing took way less than the 70 minutes his rate normally gets someone. I'm over this guy, hahaha. This is the second time he's shorted a session. I was willing to accept a shorter session because previously he did give a massage and the sex was good. But today it just felt like he was horny and I was just there for him to get off and give him money. He lost this customer for sure, hahaha. Having said all that I am happy I went because my body is more relaxed and I've topped up on feel-good hormones. But honey, treat me like a fleshlight and an ATM and I am out, hahaha.

I've had this happen. An escort quoted me his price and then told me that I also had the option of sending him photos of myself to see if he would give me a discount based on how attractive he thought I was. I declined to respond.

A real 7" is hung for me. And I mean a real, measured 7" because I've noticed that many guys are horrible at estimating another guy's size and what they think is 8" (and hung) is actually a real 7" (whereas guys who are below 7" will claim they are 7" which is why I think where this '7" is just above average' comes from) My last boyfriend had a huge dick, heavy and thick in my hands. I couldn't believe my eyes when I measured it and saw it was 7". I'd guessed at least 8 or even 8.5

Yeah this one baffles me to and it surprises me there are quite a number of escorts who will, under no circumstance, send nudes. And yet they have plenty of reviews. I don't get it.

Hahaha no, not really. He was literally on his phone texting other clients while I was fucking him.

I have... Guess it's time to reveal who my other post was about: In any case, he looks even hotter in person, kisses heavenly and is basically up for anything. My dick wanted to do a repeat session a year later when he visited Brussels again even after all that transpired. But I resisted the urge.

Amazing job! I don't seem to be getting notifications of threads I'm following (I've checked, threads I'm following have new posts but I don't get a notification)

For instance, like have the provider act as a pizza/package delivery, plumber... And then let it escalate into sexy times? I've had this fantasy for the longest time (hooking up with a service guy) but the reality of it is basically non-existent. I've wondered about bringing it up with an escort but many seem to only be down for actual sex stuff (or there's a language barrier).

For me it's simply because when the escort hosts it's always the cheaper option. If I book a hotel room I'm literally doubling the cost, with the price for the hotel and the upcharge for an outcall (all escorts where I live offer lower prices for incalls). There's no real "cheap" hotel options where I hire. Booking a hotel room is often the same price as 1 hour incall. Also I don't really like the idea of an unknown escort (or hookups in general) to know my home address. Do you offer a lower rate for outcalls? This would be one way to attract more clients who are able to host.

Oh my... Is he interactive at all? I'd love to have the full experience with a guy who has that physique. (so not just worship)