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Thanks for reporting back. Sad to hear he doesn't kiss as that's also a prerequisite for me and he's totally my type. I do think he handled it well, parting ways without asking for compensation. Yeah the no kissing puzzles me. I once had a conversation about it with an escort (I was friends with him and met him off the clock). He didn't kiss his clients but would kiss his hookups. He couldn't really give an answer other then "I just don't". I wonder if it's something to do with them not being fully, completely at ease with the thought of being a sex worker and so they have to keep a piece of themselves "not for sale". I once had a session with a guy who would kiss but then absolutely refused to cuddle naked after sex saying "that's only for boyfriends". 🤷‍♂️

Any recent reports? I'm thinking of visiting

You visited Belgium without seeing Bruges or Ghent?? Those are the 2 cities I always put on the must-see list. Well actually, Ghent and Antwerp. Brussels feels too much like a generic big European city, depending which part of it you visit. But Antwerp and Ghent really have that Flemish vibe. Bruges is beautiful historical city but I've only been a handful of times.

I think most guys here use planetromeo (now just called Romeo), well, the hunqz part of that site. It's better known here. I think they might get more clients through there. Those are excellent things to focus on. I would suggest also our fries, if you should ever come back.

As of this week, sex work has been fully legalized in Belgium. Which surprised me, because I thought it already was. It kind of was... It wasn't illegal to be or hire a sex worker, but everything around it was illegal: banks and accountants could not support sex workers in their business etc. That's all changed now, sex workers can now register as self-employed as a sex worker with full transparency and get all the same benefits. It's even legal now to hire sex workers as employees and have them work for you to see other clients. So kind of like a legal framework for pimping, but with full protection for the sex workers based on Belgian employment law. Apparently we are the first European country to do this (so the spokesperson claimed. Which confused me as I thought Germany and the Netherlands already had this. But legal nuances are sometimes hard to keep track of) I'm really happy! Not sure how many working boys will actually start to report their income though hahaha.

The usual sites: Rent.men and Romeo (formerly PlanetRomeo). Romeo even has a search filter that lets you tick transman. https://rent.men/TRANSBOYPUSSY Here's one, he travels around Europe. Have not met with him. I have not seen the type you describe. I'd love to know if you find someone.

So none of them had actual sex with each other nor kissed or such? Sounds like gaybaiting to me. But hey, if it works for you then great!

Did you end up meeting him?

Yes, would love to hear about experiences

A friend of mine had a session with Max at Top Men Spa yesterday. He was completely satisfied with it. He said Max is just as described here: muscular, cute face and slight furry chest. He recommends booking Max! He booked Max based on the recommendations of this board so thanks to everyone who reports back!

Is Top Men Spa located at 224 W 35th St?

Rodrigo was an absolute gem. I'm so sad he's not there anymore. Does anyone know if he's at any of the other spas or working independently?

Oh gosh. Well at least he let you know upfront not to book him!

I did bring it up with him when he asked me at the end of the session if I could leave a positive review. He looked annoyed and said he could give me table massage for an hour next time with half an hour on the bed to make up for it (no mention of price though, so he might as well have upped it). I was not interested in repeating a mechanical massage. He was dismissive and irritated at me bringing it up (although props to him he did try to hide his irritation. You can tell when someone is forcing themselves to stay friendly.) A la carte was the wrong wording. He has tiers. He's an escort with professional massage training and he offers therapeutic massages to full sex sessions. His price is determined on what tier you want (therapeutic being the cheapest). But yeah, it really felt like he was phoning it in.

Yes but the massage was mechanical. I felt like he was thinking of what needed to be put on his grocery list while he was massaging me. Also the "extras" in this session weren't extras, they were all agreed upon beforehand and the fee was set accordingly by the masseur (he uses à la carte pricing). He didn't give me surprise extras that weren't already included in the price. If that were the case I might also have been more lenient. But I do have an issue with time, especially with massages. There really is no reason not to give the agreed upon time. I don't think we would be good clients either if we did not pay the full agreed upon price after the session.

I did complain, that's when he gave his justifications. The HE was part of the session, yes.

Exactly. I would have even been happy with just cuddles and maybe some kisses to fill the remaining time. But nope, I came, he got the tissues, threw on his pants and left the room. Thanks!! I really appreciate it! 😊😊

I don't think leaving a review on this site would be relevant. I hired him in Madrid. He only has the one profile on Planetromeo. But thanks for the suggestion, though! Thanks. And I booked a massage to pamper myself cause I've been having a really rough time lately. 🙁

Man, just had a massage. He had good technical skill but it was very mechanical and "going through the motions". It was so obvious he was thinking of other things I was unable to really enjoy myself. Then he cut the session short at 40 minutes (I had booked for an hour) and had the audacity to ask me to leave a positive review. Normally I don't say anything if it's a bad experience. I just take the loss and take my business elsewhere but because he explicitly asked I told him how I really felt and that that would be what I would say in the review. The usual justifications were offered by him "the session only goes until the client cums" and he only does "a full hour on the massage table, not on the bed". 🙄 (I always wonder at such justifications, how would they feel if I paid for less than an hour?) I was already feeling sad and now I'm more sad. Ugh. Anyway, I am going to leave an honest review.

Except that's not true for escorts. There is very few, if any, correlation between the rate and the quality of service. The experiences I've had with guys asking higher rates have not been good. There are exceptions of course. But with the influx of new guys getting into escorting, I've seen more and more escort profiles treating the escorting business like Grindr hookups (demanding to see pics of the client, discounts based on the client's appearance and age...) but just wanting to get paid for them.

Very true. It's why I'm always very hesitant when a provider has an above market rate. There is no guarantee.

I'd like to know too!

How'd it go?

To me apparently it is. As for feelings, I don't think so. There was four months between this session and the previous one. I said yes to this one cause I needed a stress release. In any case, the cutting short of sessions does seem to bother me enough to feel like it is an issue. I know there's men who don't mind getting kicked out after sex but I do, especially when I'm paying and there's still ample time left on the clock.

Did you bring it up to him? If you did, how did he respond?