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This so much. In the last few years, I've only had exactly one provider give me the full hour (down to the minute, I noticed he had a clock next to his bed as I was leaving). He filled the remaining post sex time with cuddles, kisses and light conversation. "the session ends when the client cums" is something I've heard too many times not to irk me. Just recently I was asked to leave after 30 minutes, but still required to pay for the full hour. Others have filled the time by allowing me to take a shower... Completely alone. Those were expensive showers I could have taken at home. Honestly, you may be joking but I've really felt his attitude sometimes. And I think there are actually quite a number of clients who are so giddy just to be in the room with them these clients don't mind at all they're bring taken advantage of. Sorry I'm in a bit of mood today hahaha 😅

What is his hourly rate?

Is he the same tall athletic Brazilian who speaks really good English that used to work there before?

Great to hear! What was his rate?

True, though there a handful of more permanent residents.

I mean, it helps me relief emotional stress 😁 But sure, here's his ad: https://www.romeo.com/hunq/Hot_man

I think I'm only one of two clients who hires in Brussels that are active on these forums so I'm not sure if it would be relevant. The last one I mentioned has retired. Neither have been active on these forums.

Because every subsequent session he kept on shorting the time more and more and being distracted during the session. The previous session (that he shorted) I had said I wanted to stay the full hour. He promised me next time. The next session he shorted me a full 30 minutes. I spoke up and he started giving the excuse that "the session ends when the client cums". I could also see in his demeanor he didn't care one bit whether I would return or not after this. I did pay the full amount. I'm sad (and also frustrated because our first couple of sessions were really good). It's jarring when an escort drops the act... When they really show how little they care about you as a person. Even to the point of not respecting my time nor my money. It's the second time this has happened... Another regular started doing the exact same thing. First sessions he didn't watch the clock, amazing sex. Then he started trying to get me out the door in under 30 minutes and collect payment for the hour. It felt like they started to treat me as an ATM. I think I'm going to stop hiring for a while.

I did get frustrated at one point. But I always try to stay courteous (up to a fault). It just baffled me he asked to see my nudes while refusing to share his first. Looks like it yeah. During the pandemic this reached an all time high with many ads having demands of clients (age, looks, photos). It dwindled after the pandemic ended but there still seem to be some. What surprises me is the number of glowing reviews he has. Looks like plenty of clients have no problem jumping through the hoops.

I contacted him for a massage and sex (he offers both). He asked to see pictures of my face and body (he specified it needed to be nude pictures). The rest of the conversation I have attached through screenshots. The weird thing is he has a number of glowing reviews so I guess there's enough clients that don't mind sending all these pictures to providers? For me one of the reasons to hire is so I don't have to do all this (send pics, feel judged etc). But it seems to work for him. Especially that he admitted to giving discounts to clients he finds attractive. At least he's completely honest! I did appreciate that.

Out of all your hires in a given period, how many of them would be regulars and how many of them would be new hires? Do you have a preference for one over the other? I know some men are always looking for "new blood" because they find it thrilling, while others enjoy the comfortable familiarity and deepened connection that comes with hiring regulars.

Ahmed and Raphael omg that brings me back! Raphael is such a sweetheart, I've had very pleasant moments with him. Here's his ad: https://rent.men/pharaogyptian

He's very friendly for sure but also a bit shrewd. I met with him three times (twice close together then again years later) and had to be stern with him and (almost) demand he confirm the fee amount before starting because he kept hinting at upsells and "extras for a nice tip". I also felt he didn't have a lot of range, which is fine, he does one thing and does it well (dominant top degrading the bottom) but I had stated I wanted a more romantic experience and he seemed utterly clueless on how to proceed, though he did give it a try. I absolutely love Arab men. Well, their looks anyway. They often come with heaps of baggage of toxic masculinity. There are certainly a number of Arab escorts in Europe but almost all of them are strict tops that will only fuck the client, no kissing, no sucking, nothing but a pump and dump and I'm not interested in that. Sadly this makes me not a match with many of the hot Arab escort ads I see.

Okay but let's say your order steak with fries and they bring you mussels with Brussels sprouts. I certainly would talk to the waiter and ask for the correct order. If the waiter would then inform me that it's impossible for them to make the food I ordered, I would leave without paying. I've never refused to pay a provider, even though I do think a client is within his rights when the provider has grossly misrepresented himself and his services. I would rather compare it to me having reserved the table for two hours and a four course dinner and the manager then saying after 1 hour and 2 courses that my time is up and need to leave but still expect me to pay for the full 4 courses.

Well sometimes you take a chance. The rest of his ad and interactions were full of green flags. The 2 hour was for massage and sex combined. The massage was one of the best I've ever gotten and he didn't short me on it (it was the first hour). But once I came during sex, session was over.

Most escorts have opened the door shirtless wearing shorts, if it's an apartment. When it's a streetfacing door they usually wore shorts/sweatpants and a tanktop. I've sometimes asked them to wear something specific, if it was a longer engagement. For hour long sessions the clothes tend to come off quite fast usually so it's a bit superfluous, I feel.

Last time was in summer 2021,but I can't recommend him. He shorted the session by nearly 30 minutes. When I pointed that out to him he got defensive and annoyed. Best bet is to look on Hunqz and filter for massage. Look for ads that specifically focus on massage as there are many escorts who check "massage" but aren't actually trained

Like if the provider was not, for any reason, living up to the agreements. For instance: doesn't look like his photos (older photos or outright catfish), promised to kiss but doesn't, shorts the time by half or more,... My most recent experience was a provider whom I'd booked for 2 hours. 15 minutes into the second hour he declared the session over. I did pay for the whole 2 hour session, but I'd be interested in hearing how you have handled these kinds of things? (I did point out we still had time but he just said "oh you're checking the time?" then just avoided the topic while he pushed me to the shower while he got dressed)

For how long? 30 minutes? Thanks for the update! I'm going to be in Zürich next weekend and I've been thinking of going but I feel like it's above my budget hahaha 😅 the entry price alone is double of that of saunas in other cities

At first I was happy but then I saw he only tops 😔 While I am vers, his dick is not (yet) within my capabilities

Hunqz is already an alternative that's widely used in mainland Europe. Prices, last time I checked, were about 25 euro per month for the providers. They also have a free option for providers, but this does lead to quite a few flakes and fakes (but even RM has those). On top of that Hunqz seems much friendlier: escorts can link to their social media straight from their profiles while RM blocks this, even censoring the sites in the bio text through autodetection. Accounts for clients can be free but you can't see the explicit pictures. But that's easily circumvented by escorts having private albums that can be unlocked for anyone. I'd highly suggest telling your providers about this website and hopefully more business can come from there. RM is just truning greedier every day.

He's not on RM as far as I know i saw his add on Hunqz.

Aw I'm sorry to hear! I do hope you were able to enjoy some Belgian fries and waffles 😊

This is apparently only true for a small group of creators. Most creators earn anywhere between a couple of dozen dollars to a few hundred dollars a month from their Onlyfans. Not enough to forego other income streams. Though they are getting creative. I saw another profile of an escort who has an Onlyfans who explicitly states on his escort profile that when you "hire" him, you cannot touch him and you (the client!) will film him having sex with someone else. And the client pays the escort for this. He has many positive reviews, go figure. On the flip side, there seem to be guys who have Onlyfans but also genuinely enjoy escorting and still offer great service. But especially during ans right after the pandemic, Hunqz was flooded with young guys who all had demands on their profiles, as if it were Grindr.

So I stumbled upon a provider who had this on his profile: "I don’t respond to people I’m not interested in. And I respect if you do the same. I love sporty guys with hairy legs! A lot into foot, dominance, long sessions, 3somes, taking pics or videos. Text me if you think we can match, it will be fun Be around my age or younger." I kind of feel like he has a very different idea of what it means to be an escort?