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Another red flag is last minute plan changes. Any time an escort has asked me (quite last minute) to push back the start time (sometimes even by an hour!) or, more recently, told me he'd be hosting at a completely different address at the other side of the city than the one initially confirmed, it's never been a good session. The last time this happened I just canceled the session, even though I did not have other plans and would have been able to accommodate the difference. But my mood had been so soured that I wouldn't have been able to enjoy it anyway. To top it off the provider got annoyed with me for not agreeing to the (very last minute) change in plans without even apologizing to me.

The only thing that (mildly) bothers me is the no international numbers caveat... Like why not just use WhatsApp?? The obsession with only texting in North America baffles me.

I've been dabbling with AI imagery and have a decade plus experience with Photoshop and this would actually be surprisingly easy to fake (with the right skillset). The reason is, why would anyone? Because it might be easy but requires a lot of grunt work (it takes a few hours at the least). My red flags is when I need to repeat questions. As in: I ask 2 or 3 questions and they only answer one of them and then go silent until I prod them with a repeat question (while I also simultaneously push the overall conversation along towards setting a date for a session).

I had a lovely experience with this provider ROMEO | Gay, Bi and Trans Dating and Chat | Dates. Friends. Love WWW.ROMEO.COM ROMEO (PlanetRomeo) is the best dating & social network for gay, bi and trans people on Web, iOS &... He travels around Europe periodically so he may not be in Lisbon when you're there

Sad to see they're both tops 😕

I'm not the original poster, but I had good experiences with these 2: Mateo_Wolfxxl on Rent.Men RENT.MEN View my profile on Rent.Men ALEXIS_SPANISH on Rent.Men RENT.MEN View my profile on Rent.Men

I frequently travel to Barcelona and would love to hear whom you had bad experiences with so I can avoid them. You can DM me.

I was equally surprised, yet it's happened twice. It's like they started seeing me as "easy money", mechanical performance, low energy and actively working me out the door as fast as possible. For the topic of the thread: I will go long periods of not hiring. Usually after having a couple of negative experiences, I'll stop for a (long) while. I'm surprised that even regular clients will leave months between visits. But then the hobby can be expensive, so I understand

This has been my experience mostly too. Great first session and every subsequent session the quality declines in some way.

Did you end up meeting with him? His location says Paris, France though. Was he in the States earlier?

That's odd hours. From personal experience the sauna Thermas is busiest on Saturday between 4pm and 7pm. After 7pm both clients and escorts start leaving fast. Sunday is usually calmer. Friday evening from 4pm till 7pm is okay too. I've never been during the week. But afternoons are quiet.

That's exactly my point of view (even though I'm a client). Interestingly both Jamie and I are from across the pond (I'm from Europe, he is from the UK). It really does seem to be a difference in (tipping) culture.

@Simon Suraci "When your masseur goes down on you or sits on your cock, recognize that he’s going way beyond the call of duty. He’s leaving money on the table by not discussing rates beforehand, and you can certainly take advantage of him that way. I wouldn’t expect the masseur to repeat that same level of service if you’re not tipping anything significant to thank him. Then again, it’s up to every masseur to operate his business as he sees fit." (sorry I have to quote it this way, the editor is messing up). I disagree, this to me comes across as manipulative... As a client I have a set budget. I think many of the providers earn way more than I do, it's why I hate upsells and also why I talk upfront about all of my expectations (in detail, which is perfectly legal where I hire). I would be very upset if the masseur, on his own accord, escalated things without prior agreement and then demand extra payment afterwards (or give me worse service the second time because I didn't tip). I would actually feel taken advantage of as a client if a masseur were to do that to me. They hold the power because they know clients think with their dicks and it's very hard to say no in the heat of the moment. I also think that's one reason upsells often happen halfway into the session instead of upfront. But I have this thought in general in life: don't do things for other people in the hopes they will give you something back. Inevitably this will lead to resentment and disappointment. Holding someone accountable for not returning a gesture or gift you yourself (I'm talking broadly here, not specifically about providers) chose to give unprompted doesn't sit well with me. I have to put this into context that where I live there is no tipping custom whatsoever. Waiters don't get tipped, hotel staff don't get tipped etc. Though the tourist industry staff do know how to spot Americans and will suddenly start angling for tips hahaha.

I have a similar experience to the other poster, though, and have found it not to be complete nonsense. I too avoid profiles that have these words in them. I've found that the more "exclusive" and "high class" the profile claims to be, the worse the service is. I'm not saying this is the case for every single profile that uses these words, but there's enough experiences from different clients to at least take notice and be cautious around them.

Sounds like a lovely time! My experiences have been good overall too. Though very few stay the full 30 minutes in the room with me (usually about 15 to 20 minutes and that's with me actively slowing things down), so I'm happy you got 40 minutes both times!

I can heartily recommend Mateo: https://rent.men/Mateo_Wolfxxl He's very well hung, uncut, hairy chested and muscular (as for tall, it depends on what your reference is. He's 6'). Speaks English fluently and is a very good guy. I've seen him about 4 times now and I've been very satisfied every time. Keep us updated! I'd love to know who you end up hiring and what your experience is.

Sadly I don't (I live in Europe myself) but if you find one, I'd love to hear about it! 😁

This, at least, is untrue. Onlyfans implemented a very thorough and rigorous consent form policy to prohibit exactly this. Everyone in an Onlyfans video has to provide a copy of their ID, a photo and a signed consent form (I think even detailing which specific video they're giving consent for). The only exception to this is if the person in the video is already registered as a creator with Onlyfans with an account of their own.

To be fair, there are a lot of providers who will check all boxes to show up in searches while not actually providing that particular service. One provider recently came to this board complaining clients were asking him to top because he had vers/bottom on his profile (and he was a self-described only bottom). I've learned to always, always, ALWAYS double check through text whatever info is given in the ad and have been surprised how often what is mentioned in the ad does not line up with what they are actually offering.

Google has limited its reverse image search cause of privacy concerns. Yandex.com works better. But if he hasn't posted these pictures somewhere else, you won't get any matches

There's currently 2 but I've only been to one. It's Sauna Macho and I quite enjoy it. They used the lockdown to do renovations.

Is the latter. It's not particularly Arab men but specifically dark(er) features that I find very attractive.

Don't forget our fries and waffles!

That's also a fantasy of mine. Where are you located? I don't have any recommendations, sadly.

Omg imagine someone actually expecting to receive the service they're paying for? This statement isn't the big reveal the provider thinks it is, it's showing this provider doesn't respect his clients' time nor money. As a (white) client, it's true I rarely speak up when shorted on time, I simply don't do repeat business with that provider. As for the topic at hand: where I live Latin, Arab and Mediterranean men are highly coveted (especially if they're masculine dominant tops). There's very few white providers in my area (there's even one provider I know to be white, but markets himself as Mediterranean). Rates seem to be more or less the same as white providers (with some expensive outliers).