Wolfer

It's interesting you say that. I have noticed that when browsing Rentmen in the US, I seem to come across more profiles that have "ask me" in the safe section. Whereas in Europe it's a much less frequent occurence (that I've seen, anyway).

So! I'm going to Paris this weekend and have some fun activities lined up. Alas, the Brazilian guy has gone completely silent again after I missed his videocall. But I had paid for the bustickets so why not go anyway? Paris, je viens à vous!

It'll be my first time in 20 years being in Paris. I'm interested to see how I'll find it. I love the French language though not always the French mindset.

Well, we got a date planned although I have to be honest that this communication has left me somewhat unexcited for the date. I'll be in Paris for the weekend. So I can brush up on my language skills!

Oh hahaha, I was thinking it was an abbreviation or something. Of course it's just "not". Hahaha

Thanks, I was able to sort it out... After typing it in French again. But his way of communicating does not excite me... :/ What does PAS mean?

I contact a guy and he says: "We can be a good match, I guess. Nothing wrong with what you want." (I asked for vanilla sex with kissing) Then he completely misunderstands me (his first language is French) when I ask "I can come to you?" (As in, do you host). He thinks I'm asking for bareback (me cumming in him). So I say that he misunderstood and switch to French to ask him if we could have the date at his place. To which he only answers: "I don't do penetration without condom". As if he hadn't read my replies at all... I already feel like I'm pulling teeth here... Ugh.

Quote from the site: "What we don't offer is erotic sexual bodywork this is nonsexual, legitimate body treatments. So please don't waste our guys time by inquiring about erotic." But ALL of the guys in every single picture are naked. Even the group pictures! I understand that being nude doesn't have to be inherently sexual but it does seem to give a mixed message.

I hear you! I even started a thread on that couple of years ago: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/whats-with-the-no-kissing.108233/

That's what I think too. And I'm sorry to hear that happened to you. I also give second chances (especially if the connection is that good). One of my friends ghosts people, I've not directly talked to him about it but from what I can glean is that he suddenly just doesn't want to deal with however the situation has evolved and it's just easier to ignore it than engage, even if only to let the other person know there's no longer any interest. Update on the Parisian guy, by the way: when I came home from work today I had a missed videocall from him. So I text him back saying I was at work and he can call me back. I also called him back but no answer. He's been online since I've sent the text so he must've seen it but again... Silence. Hahaha. OH. WELL. Thanks! Well, I haven't found a local guy who was so open (as he was at the start) and excited to discuss things... And he's 6'4" (swoon), hahaha. I know it shouldn't really matter but I'm 6'1" and I don't get to share my bed often with guys that are taller than I am. (Okay now I feel shallow and superficial hahaha).

Oh yes, absolutely! Love, LOVE deep kissing. I've had two guys with whom I was kissing and suddenly we both just held our tongues in each other's mouth and didn't move while our hands kept stimulating other parts of our bodies. I'd never done that before but it was amaaaaazing. Seems like I should ask more if guys would be willing to explore my body with their mouths... Because I really enjoy that.

I did have a sort of plan B guy. Another Brazilian I've been eyeing for a while in Paris. But I couldn't reach him before I would've had to take the bus and also the wind got knocked out of my sails somewhat. So I decided to stay home and buy a guitar. I'm learning to play now.

I just wanted to get this off my chest so I can let it go and move on. Last week I contacted a Brazilian guy who's located in Paris. About 250 miles from where I live. We hit it off instantly, from our texting it was clear we were sexually a great match and we set up a date for last Monday. I was to come to Paris by express bus for the day (just to see him). Since we had a couple of days before our date I intermittently texted him my fantasies and my preferences and that made him even more excited to see me. On the morning of the date, I get up at five and see he sent a text at 2am saying he's been feeling sick all night and has to cancel. But he offers to either refund my bus tickets or pay for new tickets so we can reschedule. Since our interactions had been so great I decide to reschedule and so we start texting back and forth, everything seems fine. Then I go into work but don't bring my bone phone (which is my escort phone). When I come home I see he sent me a text a few hours ago asking me if we could Facetime. I reply that I'm available the rest of the night and would like to confirm for Saturday (the date we had been discussing to rechedule). And that's six days ago. I have not heard anything from him... And yes, I'm a bit sad because the chemistry in our texts was palpable. As far as I can tell, he's fine, because he's logged in on Planetromeo and I've seen him online in Whatsapp... I just find it odd how he can go from being so courteous and pleasant to... Well, ghosting me. I know, I know, move on. Which is what I am doing by posting this. I just wanted to have a bit of a pity party first. So say: "Aaaw, I'm sorry to hear Wolfer. Looks like you were really looking forward to meeting him! There's plenty of other great, amazing guys out there!" So I hired another guy last Wednesday who was back from Mexico and with whom I had had a wonderful date last time he was visiting Belgium. But now he was supertired (he had just arrived the day before after a 12 hour flight) and it was a heat wave and he hadn't showered, didn't have lube and it was obvious he was totally not into it. The nice things were the cuddling and showering we did together before he rather forcibly pushed me out the door at the stroke of the hour. OH. WELL. It's put me off of hiring again for a while. My bank account thanks me. Hahahaha. Thank you for joining my pity party. Kiss, kiss, hug, hug.

That's so interesting. I get no extra stimulation from my nipples. Like zero. I even get a little annoyed if a guy plays with them too long. I always love seeing how diverse we are when it comes to sexuality. I recently discovered (thanks to an adventurous guy) that I love having my feet licked and my toes sucked (gently). Although I don't find it necessarily sexually stimulating, rather very relaxing.

Oomph, yes!! So hot!

That's odd... I've not had that problem. I've only posted two reviews on there, though. One in 2015 and one last May. Never had that pop up.

Oh, yeah and also on either side of your balls. A guy licked me there once while jerking me off. It was intensely pleasurable. I haven't met a lot of guys who know about this spot, but the ones I've done it to were very enthusiastic about it.

I've been discovering it's my whole body, apparently. I just absolutely love full body to body contact. Either have his weight press down on me or me on him. Even when doing doggy style I like to bend forward and wrap my arms around the bottom and push into him with my chest while going to town on his neck with my tongue. That said there are some area's that stand out: my back and neck. Kiss, kiss and lick it! I go wild. Especially if he's laying on top of me with his full weight and then kisses my neck... Mmm-hmm. I get frustrated when a guy only really touches my dick, mouth and nipples. This was happening recently during a date and I kept putting his hand on my chest and belly and he'd always go for my nipple. At some point I wanted to say "Just TOUCH ME." Hahaha. I just want his hands and lips ALL OVER my body.

I would add great mental and emotional health to that list too. Otherwhise it's hard to enjoy the freedom that money and free time brings.

Yes, but not all guys use the same name on Rentmen as they do in porn. And a search here brings up a lot of clutter about general discussions of Sean Cody and Corbin Fisher guys instead of ones that escort. Also there's a limitation on this site's search: your words need to be longer than three letters. So if you wanna search for info about AJ for example, you're out of luck because the search will return an error. I used to have a workaround for all this by using Google search on this site, but something has changed on the backend of this site and it seems Google is now unable to search the contents of posts (only topic titles) which now has made that workaround much less functional. So sometimes it IS just better to ask instead of spending time trying to find a needle in a haystack. (Having said that, I do still think that doing a search first is better, but if no info turns up, it's completely fine to ask).

Genericdoctor.com ships to Belgium so I'm checking that one out. But other suggestions are welcome.

Hi guys, So after seeing quite some recommendations for alldaychemist.com I tried ordering but they don't ship to Belgium... So I was wondering if you knew any alternatives with which you had good experiences? Both customer service and the quality of their products. Thanks!

Yup, it's an Excel file. I record the name, phone number, date of the last time I saw him and number of times we've had sex. For personal fun I also record their Nationality. There's mainly latin men on there. I used to also even put a rating to every escort (from "bad" to "orgasmic") and recorded if they kissed or not. But I stopped doing that after I started having non-paid sexual encounters. Now it's a mixed list of escorts and non-escorts. I also know what "my number" is because of this list. I've had sex with 17 men up until now (not at the same time). But I'm going to Barcelona in two weeks so LET'S DOUBLE THAT NUMBER!! (Do I hear "gangbang"?) I was on a date with a really hot (and frisky) guy. He was so frisky he was setting up threesomes with friends and sending and receiving nudes during our date. But to be honest I was too intrigued about his openness and ease in his sexual freedom and confidence that I was genuinely interested instead of finding it rude. Also interesting to see how he and his friends actually voted and vetoed on which guys could join them in the fun through the group chat. I told him my number and he was surprised I knew. He said he had no clue but that it certainly was somewhere in the hundreds. Not sure if he was overstating or not.

I've used MisterBnB twice (Rome and London) and both were very nice experiences. With both I rented a room in the apartment (Rome) or the house (London) with its own private bathroom. The other area's were shared with the host and other guests, but I mostly stayed in my room when I wasn't out on the town. It was the same as a regular AirBnB, only that in Rome the host booked a massage for me with a local gay masseur, which was really nice (completely therapeutic, no extra's). And in London I always had a lovely chat with one of the hosts when I came back late from being out in the city. A lot of hosts say that you cannot bring guests with you (so no hosting your hookups at the place you're staying). Which I find undetstandable.

Thanks so much, guys. I ended up using this one: "Podemos acurrucarnos después de coger?" The lovely gentleman understood perfectly and we had a nice cuddling session after we had our fun. I did confess to him that I had someone else translate it for me. And then he taught me how to say "I wanna suck your dick" in Spanish. Which I couldn't remember so I decided I'm just gonna look at a guy, say "tu pene" and make a blowjob motion with my hand and mouth.