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Hahaha no, not really. He was literally on his phone texting other clients while I was fucking him.

I have... Guess it's time to reveal who my other post was about: In any case, he looks even hotter in person, kisses heavenly and is basically up for anything. My dick wanted to do a repeat session a year later when he visited Brussels again even after all that transpired. But I resisted the urge.

Amazing job! I don't seem to be getting notifications of threads I'm following (I've checked, threads I'm following have new posts but I don't get a notification)

For instance, like have the provider act as a pizza/package delivery, plumber... And then let it escalate into sexy times? I've had this fantasy for the longest time (hooking up with a service guy) but the reality of it is basically non-existent. I've wondered about bringing it up with an escort but many seem to only be down for actual sex stuff (or there's a language barrier).

For me it's simply because when the escort hosts it's always the cheaper option. If I book a hotel room I'm literally doubling the cost, with the price for the hotel and the upcharge for an outcall (all escorts where I live offer lower prices for incalls). There's no real "cheap" hotel options where I hire. Booking a hotel room is often the same price as 1 hour incall. Also I don't really like the idea of an unknown escort (or hookups in general) to know my home address. Do you offer a lower rate for outcalls? This would be one way to attract more clients who are able to host.

Oh my... Is he interactive at all? I'd love to have the full experience with a guy who has that physique. (so not just worship)

Thanks. Does anyone else have experience with this Matt at Utopia? I'd trust this a bit more if it wasn't from a brand new account...

As someone who is uncut I have to chime in to say DO NOT EVER USE SOAP ON YOUR DICK. The soap will dry out the skin (mucus?) of your dick and may even cause inflammation when used frequently. Also your dick has a different PH than the rest of your body. Regular soap is adjusted to the PH of your regular skin. Regular soap will mess up the PH on your dick, actually messing up the natural anti-bacterial protection it has. Sadly there are no specific washing emulsions for dicks but since they are quite similar to vaginas in respect to PH and such it is perfectly fine to use one of those "intimate soaps" designed for vaginas. Yup, my doctor told me to use it and I have ever since. It works great. To really make it squeaky clean, after you shower get a little coconut oil (anti-fungal and anti-bacterial), mix it with a drop of zinc oxide ointment and spread that over your dick and balls.

Hahaha, keep asking and I might just upload them ? Yeah, guys getting spooked seems to be common enough (I'm talking regular dates, not service providers) . Not the first time it's happened to me and I hear plenty of others complain about it too. Anyways, he responded to my message yesterday. Looks like our relationship will be strictly professional going forward. I respect that but I'm a little sad and for now don't have any interest in hiring at all, not even other masseurs.

I'm always curious about the logistics of such an encounter (sorry, hahaha, it's just where my mind goes). Like, did you bring lube or just used spit? Also, very hot story, hehe, thanks for sharing !

Hahaha, thanks you guys! So as an update... It kinda breaks my heart doing this after all the cheers. But it looks like I've been ghosted. Messages from me to him are being read but remain unanswered. Oh well, I'm still glad I had the experience. So no Hallmark romcom! (yet, hehe) Yes I'm a little sad, even if I know that's sometimes how life goes.

Hmm, it's the first time I've heard it. It just tickles me to no end, hahaha ?

I'm tickled by his name. It is the Dutch word for clutter ?

We're nearly the same age, I'm 36 and he is 34. What's the campfire rule?

Well. He hit me up again. I responded saying I needed to save money but asked if he would be open to meeting up off the clock and without massage. The speed at which he replied in all caps "YES" took me by surprise. I spent the whole night there. It was amazing. Neither of us is looking to date (so it'll just stay casual) and I told him I still want to hire him for his masseur services. He told me that he would also like to have more off the clock dates, besides the massage sessions.

I'd be interested to know the name and Instagram of the model who's pictures he's using.

It would help a lot if you'd tell us where you are or which area you are looking to hire for instance NYC, LA,...

Hahaha, I work in a lab so my job has been unaffected. Honestly, I had half a mind of posting some pictures of myself here, were it not that it's such a hassle to do so (because I'd have to upload them elsewhere and then link back here). Hahahaha, omg, this had me howling! Thanks for the laugh Thank you so much for this very thoughtful response. It has been very helpful in helping me assess and adress the situation. I really, really appreciate it!! It helped me a lot! I don't know where you guys are getting this from. From the masseurs (the professionally trained who only offer masseur services) I have spoken to, they were unanimous that giving massages is way easier for them than sex. Because they can give a great massage to anyone, regardless of looks, whereas fucking someone they can't. Now, for guys who are mainly escorts and offer massage on the side, I would agree, but for guys who are masseurs who sometimes do more with clients, I have not found this to be true at all.

What happened to the tall Latino called Rodrigo that worked at Shangrila?

I don't think so, he has a full-time (non massage related) job that wasn't impacted by the lockdown. The massage business is something extra he does. I'm not looking to date him. I'm just bothered by the fact that he is scheduling me for something he wants instead of the other way round. Exactly, thank you for expressing it like that. He did change the dynamic and now I'm not sure how I feel about it.

A couple of weeks ago I booked a masseur, purely for massage. Halfway through the massage he escalated things and we had full-on sex. Since then every few weeks or so he'll text me out of the blue asking for us to meet for sex and have me pay his massage rate. Which, on one hand, it's cute and flattering but on the other hand... I'm starting to feel a bit used. The sex is incredible, so that's why I've gone along with it once or twice. But it's always last minute, clearly only when he's in the mood (when I tried scheduling him he had lots of excuses on why we couldn't meet at times it was convenient for me). It's also abundantly clear that if we had initially met in a non-professional capacity he would be having sex with me for free and he asked (in a kind of cute and insecure way) that once bars are open we could have a drink sometime. Of course, my fear of missing out is making me say "yes" to his proposals to meet for paid sex (he does give me a short massage each time before and he did train as a professional massage therapist so the massage is one of the best I've ever had). I'm afraid that if I say "no" one time, I'll never be able to see him again and the sex is really good. But I'm mostly annoyed that it's all on his time, his schedule, last minute... And I just either have to say yes whenever he feels like reaching out or not meet him at all. Feels more like a friends with benefits arrangement, which I wouldn't mind as much if I wasn't paying for it. Anyway, so last Saturday he texted me at 11pm asking to meet either at that moment or Sunday morning. I said I couldn't but he proposed that we could maybe meet Friday evening to which I agreed only for him to then not confirm Friday but say "let's be in touch" which to me translates to: "If I'm still horny by then I'll meet you."

He claims on his personal website (link is in the ad description) that since joining Rentmasseur he's overwhelmed and overbooked and can't take on any new clients... Guess there's people out there willing to pay that for 50 minutes.

We were talking in English though I don't know if it is their first language. I avoid possible confusion by asking "Do you kiss with tongue?" and "I want it intimate and passionate, I want to feel like I'm your boyfriend." I just used French kissing here because many people here have English as their first language. Well, it seems Mike has paid attention throughout the years I've posted which. It's true I don't have my location set in my profile but I've shared many stories of me hiring in Belgium where I live. My first language is Flemish and I speak a bit of French. So Mike was in the know I can see that. Though for me it would leave me feeling frustrated, I think.

Yes, technically they are both getting a nice boyfriend experience... With each other. ??

I was talking to a couple who do sessions together (you can hire them only as a couple). I mentioned that I was looking for a boyfriend experience and that (French) kissing was very important to me. Their reply: "We don't kiss, that's not ok. Even though we don't kiss it's a nice boyfriend experience." I was a bit stumped but thanked them for their time and said I would not book them. I'm just wondering what sort of boyfriend experience would be nice without kissing?