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It would help a lot if you'd tell us where you are or which area you are looking to hire for instance NYC, LA,...

Hahaha, I work in a lab so my job has been unaffected. Honestly, I had half a mind of posting some pictures of myself here, were it not that it's such a hassle to do so (because I'd have to upload them elsewhere and then link back here). Hahahaha, omg, this had me howling! Thanks for the laugh Thank you so much for this very thoughtful response. It has been very helpful in helping me assess and adress the situation. I really, really appreciate it!! It helped me a lot! I don't know where you guys are getting this from. From the masseurs (the professionally trained who only offer masseur services) I have spoken to, they were unanimous that giving massages is way easier for them than sex. Because they can give a great massage to anyone, regardless of looks, whereas fucking someone they can't. Now, for guys who are mainly escorts and offer massage on the side, I would agree, but for guys who are masseurs who sometimes do more with clients, I have not found this to be true at all.

What happened to the tall Latino called Rodrigo that worked at Shangrila?

I don't think so, he has a full-time (non massage related) job that wasn't impacted by the lockdown. The massage business is something extra he does. I'm not looking to date him. I'm just bothered by the fact that he is scheduling me for something he wants instead of the other way round. Exactly, thank you for expressing it like that. He did change the dynamic and now I'm not sure how I feel about it.

A couple of weeks ago I booked a masseur, purely for massage. Halfway through the massage he escalated things and we had full-on sex. Since then every few weeks or so he'll text me out of the blue asking for us to meet for sex and have me pay his massage rate. Which, on one hand, it's cute and flattering but on the other hand... I'm starting to feel a bit used. The sex is incredible, so that's why I've gone along with it once or twice. But it's always last minute, clearly only when he's in the mood (when I tried scheduling him he had lots of excuses on why we couldn't meet at times it was convenient for me). It's also abundantly clear that if we had initially met in a non-professional capacity he would be having sex with me for free and he asked (in a kind of cute and insecure way) that once bars are open we could have a drink sometime. Of course, my fear of missing out is making me say "yes" to his proposals to meet for paid sex (he does give me a short massage each time before and he did train as a professional massage therapist so the massage is one of the best I've ever had). I'm afraid that if I say "no" one time, I'll never be able to see him again and the sex is really good. But I'm mostly annoyed that it's all on his time, his schedule, last minute... And I just either have to say yes whenever he feels like reaching out or not meet him at all. Feels more like a friends with benefits arrangement, which I wouldn't mind as much if I wasn't paying for it. Anyway, so last Saturday he texted me at 11pm asking to meet either at that moment or Sunday morning. I said I couldn't but he proposed that we could maybe meet Friday evening to which I agreed only for him to then not confirm Friday but say "let's be in touch" which to me translates to: "If I'm still horny by then I'll meet you."

He claims on his personal website (link is in the ad description) that since joining Rentmasseur he's overwhelmed and overbooked and can't take on any new clients... Guess there's people out there willing to pay that for 50 minutes.

We were talking in English though I don't know if it is their first language. I avoid possible confusion by asking "Do you kiss with tongue?" and "I want it intimate and passionate, I want to feel like I'm your boyfriend." I just used French kissing here because many people here have English as their first language. Well, it seems Mike has paid attention throughout the years I've posted which. It's true I don't have my location set in my profile but I've shared many stories of me hiring in Belgium where I live. My first language is Flemish and I speak a bit of French. So Mike was in the know I can see that. Though for me it would leave me feeling frustrated, I think.

Yes, technically they are both getting a nice boyfriend experience... With each other. ??

I was talking to a couple who do sessions together (you can hire them only as a couple). I mentioned that I was looking for a boyfriend experience and that (French) kissing was very important to me. Their reply: "We don't kiss, that's not ok. Even though we don't kiss it's a nice boyfriend experience." I was a bit stumped but thanked them for their time and said I would not book them. I'm just wondering what sort of boyfriend experience would be nice without kissing?

He's so my type. And that dick, ooph. His rentmen profile

And how do you keep track of time during a session?

Thanks for the link but that thread deals with time keeping from a client's perspective. I was wondering how escorts keep track of time.

Masseurs can have a clock somewhere but how do you keep track of time during a session? Do you just wing it or discreetly look at the clock at some point? Do you put in an effort to fill any left over time if the main event finished before the scheduled time was up? My experiences have ranged the gamut from being booted out after 30 minutes of sex (but being asked to pay the full hour) to sexy shower time and cuddles to amicable chatting while we try to find our clothes after the main part of the session was over.

This is my ultimate fantasy and I've tried quite a bit to find a guy like that. But either they were just massages with maybe a quick handjob at the end or they gave me a 2 second back rub and then jumped into the sex immediately.

No, the JacobLDN profile is a completely different guy. There was a mixup of names earlier on in the thread. Huge Spartan has been deleting and creating new profiles for quite some years now.

He's back with a new name and a freshly created profile: https://rentmen.eu/HUGESPARTANXL

He also has an Onlyfans for $20 a month. That's... Quite above the "standard" rate of about $10 most gay guys charge.

The "second gate" or second sphincter is kind of a myth. There's no sphincter there but a muscle that loops around the colon. When not pooping it contracts and makes a kink, blocking the feces. When it relaxes, the colon straightens out, allowing the feces to flow or, if you've douched properly, for a dick to go deeper. So if that part isn't relaxed there will be a length limit depending on how long your rectum is. The average rectum length of a grown man is about 7".

I think Reddit has replaced much of that functionality. Gosh, must have been 14 years ago I was using Yahoo groups.

Having had numerous experiences with purely therapeutic massages, often by medically trained licensed physical therapists, not a lot of what you mentioned in your first post made me think he was flirting. Crotch rubbing and his body parts pressing into you is often a "byproduct" of the masseur having to get close to your body or to a particular trouble spot. I've had a lot of osteopath's and masseur's crotches and breasts (when it was a woman) pushed up against me throughout the years. It comes with the territory. I'm sorry to hear though, because I know how disappointing it can be when something you're excited about doesn't pan out.

This is such a fun read! Can't wait to hear the updates!

Burn ?

No, they were about the same looks wise. I did have one escort who was incredibly attractive. His rate was quite a bove standard market rate so I declined. Then he said if I wanted a better rate we could talk about lowering his rate if I sent him a picture. His discount would be based on how attracted he was to me.

Not sure if there's any direct correlation, but the few times escorts asked to see my picture beforehand and I sent it, the date with them was bad.

The size of his dick scares me...