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Great for you, but I don't. Which leads me to... Exactly why I stay away from guys who say "for the right person" or "for the right incentive", to avoid disappointment. I won't hide that I'm slightly jealous of this. I know that (gay) men's fascination with dick size can open doors (and holes) that would otherwhise remain closed. But I have no resentment either. You enjoy yourself! Also, I've always been surprised at the running joke in the gay community that bottoms supposedly outnumber tops by an incredible ratio. My personal experience has been quite the opposite: I keep running into tops all the time while bottoms seem to be the exception...

Yeah, and every experience I've with a top/vers guy (especially the ones who do it "for the right guy/incentive") have been pretty liysy to outright bad. I prefer genuine bottoms. Does make the potential hiring pool a LOT smaller!

Both quotes were from the night of the party (so the second time we met). The request to transfer money was made when he bought me a drink at the bar in his hotel, just before we were to get ready for the party. It was in his hotel room that he said I could drive him to his dealer. If he'd said any of that the first time I would not have met up with him for a second time. Thank you for the kind words all!

That is Achmed, yes, I saw him there last time and he looks exactly like the pictures. He's a total top, by the way, so not a match if you're looking for a guy to bottom for you. His English is perfect and while conversation with him was nice my experience sex-wise was very bad (we were not a match) I can heartily recommend Raphael My review: http://daddysreviews.com/venue/europe/spain/raphael_laraujo_barcelona His Rentmen: https://rentmen.eu/raphaelaraujo Super sweet guy, good kisser, fluent in English and completely versatile. Though I personally only have experience with his bottoming skills. Also works at Sauna Thermas. I have no personal experience with Nando: https://rentmen.eu/NANDDO But his reviews here on Daddysreviews are all glowing. He's on my bucket list for when I go back.

Anyone have any recent experience with him?

Does there need to be a point? I come here to share my experiences. Not sure I see a problem here? Well, we fall for it because we want it to be true. And it's not just grown men falling for hookers. It's women who fall for fuckboy shenanigans. It's gays who fall for player's manipulations. It's innocent people who walk wide-eyed into con-men's schemes. We fall for it because we hope that "this one will be different". People want to be fooled, to a certain degree, because why would we even want to hire in the first place? Such colorful responses. I was under the impression we could share our experiences here, even if there is no practical purpose to the sharing itself. Perhaps others have different views on this. Well, it makes the world go round.

"Hey, you can help me out with that. Send my money in your name back home to my account in Colombia." I cocked my head as I put down the drink he'd bought me. Just a couple of days ago I'd had a nice session with him. He was sweet and a bit talkative. But something was a little off. During our post-coitus (excuse my verbiage) conversation I wondered a couple of times "Did he just call me ugly?". Which, obviously he didn't, he wouldn't, of course... The sex itself, while nice, almost felt like a broadway show production: entertaining but vapid and rehearsed. But then he invited me to spend time off the clock on Saturday and go to a big gay party together. One of the biggest in Belgium (almost 8000 attendies). And I agreed because I was really attracted to him and I thought it would be nice to spend some more time with him. "You can drive me to my dealer!" Saturday night had come 'round and I was in Brussels by car. A slight frown formed on my face. Why had he invited me exactly? Since driving into the city center of Brussels requires nerve, skill and steel resolve in such amounts that I lack, I declined. He got annoyed with me but I did show him where the meetup spot was in Brussels and walked with him there and back. "Oooh, I'm gonna get so high for the party, you take care of me okay?" I sat on the bed in his hotel room. Taking note that he was not sitting next to me, but all the way on the other side of the room in the only chair available. And then something started dawning on me: he just wants a chaperone. He has no other interest in me. While this realization set in I could hear the water spurts from him douching in the bathroom, ready to get fucked by any other guy besides me. I felt like my self-respect was going down the drain along with his poop-water. I did promise to drive him to the party. I did promise to go together. But... Did I really want to spend hours watching him working the room while I... Just felt left out? I didn't. I hadn't made any plans with my friends but I knew some of them were gonna be at the party so I texted them. When the guy came out of the bathroom I told him: "I'm sorry I misunderstood. I thought you invited me for other reasons. So I'll still drive you to the party like I promised but once there I'm meeting up with my friends." The room went freezing cold. "Oh, well, I'm still gonna do my hair so you can leave now." His voice could cut steel. And that was that, suddenly I had turned invisible. He didn't even acknowledge I was there and was completely unresponsive as I said "Bye, have fun!" as I left the room. I thought about going home but I decided to go to the party anyway and have a blast. We do create our own experiences, after all. I met up with my friends and had a load of fun. That was quite... the experience. The guy was a player. As long as he got what he wanted he was sweet as vanilla ice cream but if you denied a request fire would flash across his eyes. I'm happy I spoke up. I have been in situations like this before where I said nothing and allowed myself to be run over completely. Well, seems like experience is finally teaching me something.

I've heard this from a lot of bottoms. That they derive a lot of pleasure of seeing (and making) a guy cum in them. I see no reason to call it crazy.

Yes, I'm a top and for me it feels amazing and I have had amazing sex. I find it an odd question, to be honest. Are you implying that topping can't give the same type of sexual satisfaction as bottoming or oral? I don't compare topping with oral because both sensations, while equally arousing and pleasurable, are very different experiences to me. I've both seen stars by getting amazing head and fucking a guy. I don't like my prostate stimulated at all. It's just uncomfortable.

Makes me wonder whether he's running a test campaign like they do in marketing. Two campaigns are launched simeltaneously with slight variations to see which campaign yields the biggest return. Maybe he wasn't getting the responses he wanted as a bi "ask me" so today he's trying as a gay top. But constantly changing names and stats... Hmmm. I think that warrants a red flag!

I find the tone of that article really bad. Condescending and contemptuous. Why'd she even go? Many (if not most) times when I see a documentary or article about escorting it focuses on how broken these people are to have turned to escorting and how bad their personal situation is. This just keeps on reinforcing the (very) false notion that there's nothing good about escorting. (Deep sigh) Related matter: there's actually a male brothel in the US? And they accept gay customers? That's interesting to know! Thanks for sharing those article links.

Yet you ask for a tip midway the massage to turn it into erotic, if I understand correctly from the conversation here? From my experience a lot of (good) clients find it a major turn-off to be asked for a tip or have a fee renegotiation prompted during the massage. Not all clients will say something but they probably won't give the masseur repeat bussiness. I'm taking a little fault because I seem to get the notion that erotic massage is being talked down on a little in this thread. Erotic massages are perfectly valid and okay and I don't think that asking for details, if done respectfully, is inappropriate by default. If anything, it will help both parties better determine whether they are a good match or not.

When you ghosted him, what was his response (if any)?

Yeah, saw that too. But sprinkled throughout the forum are posts mentioning he's a good hire. So hoping to hear about some recent experiences.

Bump. Looking for info/experiences, feel free to pm me or tell me to send you a pm.

Medical science has made the distinction between orgasm and ejaculation as seperate processes for a long while. Many of my ejaculations happen without orgasm, so much so that I don't always enjoy ejaculating. When a man is able to seperate his orgasm from his ejaculation, it is possible for him to become multi-orgasmic. If interested you can search for softwave and hardwave orgasms (and multiple orgasms in men).

You guys... :) Is Simon still at Utopia?

You must have good game, then. :cool:

The title gives it away but I'll tell the story from the beginning nonetheless. I was out for drinks at a gay bar with a friend. The bar wasn't quite busy till suddenly a cute guy walks up to my friend and starts chatting with him. Turns out they know each other (superficially) so my friend introduces us. I then go to the bar to order a drink and as I'm waiting, I sit down and goof around a bit on my phone. Then that same cute guy comes up to me and remarks how big my phone is (it's a 7", it's a tablet and phone in one and I love it), to which I reply: "That's not the only thing big about me." And that started an evening of flirty back and forth and following each other on Instagram. After a while he says he's tired and stressed out from work. So I say that people have said I give a good massage and I jokingly say I'd go home with him if he wants one. He suddenly perks up with a big smile and enthusiastically asks: "You wanna come home tonight?" I was not expecting this at all but was very amused and endeared. Fast forward to his bedroom and I'm massaging him in my boxers with a raging hardon. But nothing happens and we both fall asleep. In the morning we have great sex, twice (bed and shower), exchange phone numbers and he drops me off at my car. When I get home I realize that I recognize his Instagram pictures. I keep thinking and thinking hard so I log onto Hunqz and search and sure enough, there's his ad. I recognized his pictures 'cause I'd seen them on his ad before. I was surprised, flattered and turned on at the same time. We ended up going on a date where I let him know I knew he was an escort. We exchanged experiences, wich was a riveting and interesting talk. After which he said I am too old for him to date and he kicked me out his car (he at least paid for dinner! ). A year later we met at a big gay party (our local equivalent of a Circuit Party). When I told him I was there by myself he yanked off my shirt and became my wingman for the night. It was a lot of fun and he was very friendly but nothing happened (he made it very clear he wasn't interested and I wasn't either).

www.boys4u.be But that's only for Belgium and the Netherlands. Still, generally speaking, it has a wider selection than either Hunqz or Rentmen has for the same geographical area. But the client has to pay to get the escort's contact info (escorts advertise for free) so I never use it. Wonder if providers actually get a lot of bussiness through this site.

Yeah, I'm kinda surprised at the positive statements here as years ago almost all the feedback I heard about Avi was along the lines what you said. So he must have really changed then? He was on my bucket list for a short while but not after I read the feedback about him.

So I can't decide for myself if the escort asking for my picture should be a dealbreaker or not? I know I have to make that decision for myself, and my experience tells me that the ones who ask have been less than great (even bad) experiences while the ones that don't ask have, generally, been good to amazing. But I don't know if there's a direct causal relationship between them. I'm just a little frustrated as some of the guys I'm interested in hiring state in their profile that it's necessary for the client to send a picture. So it's dick against brain, I guess. (And I know, move on to the next guy, but it's slim pickings currently where I live.) Or I could just save the money.

I remember years ago that the pornsite Hothouse didn't have its direct links for its video's protected. So you could watch a preview of one of their video's, firgure out the direct link from the page code and download the full video from that. It was quite a while before they updated their site, after which it was no longer possible to do this.

*walks back in after a day at work* Uh... Seafood, Peonies and racism? That got to a different topic quickly. Anyway, I cancelled, thanks for asking. I genuinely wonder: physically I am more attracted to hairy bodies with thick eyebrows and dark hair. Now since generally Latin, Arab and Indian men tend to have these features, it follows that, on the whole, I find myself more frequently attracted to men of those races. But if a Caucasian or Asian walks by with those features I will just as easily be attracted. Does this still make it racist? While I do have a physical type, I've also been attracted to guys of any race, body type and legal age. If a guy is hot, he's hot, I always say. I do believe, though, that for a lot of people there's an element of nurture (as opposed to nature) in one's preferences. I noticed this myself when I started binge watching Japanese and South-Korean live action tv series. I started noticing that I was finding Asian men to be more and more attractive.

I find incredibly handsome men a little intimidating. The guys I've hired who had model-type good looks weren't great experiences. One kept constantly checking himself out in the mirror. Another suddenly interrupted the sexy time to tell me off for touching his hair (seriously). This has happened quite a few times actually. Enough to make it a pet peeve of mine. It's like, we're having sex, of course some stuff is gonna get ruffled! And hair can be fixed after. I once had an amazing time with a guy who was, to me, dropdead gorgeous and he seemed totally unaware of it. Made him even hotter to me.